My new boyfriend said he can't cum with condom on but is it true?

He says going bare feels better. I'm 18 so never heard this before but he's 21 and says he can't cum. So do I let him? I want him to like sex with me.
My new boyfriend said he cant cum with condom on but is it true?
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  • He should practice masturbating while wearing a condom.

  • He is just being a jackass to raw dog you. Tell him to behave himself and the condom only comes off for anal or oral

  • That's bullshit and he sounds like an idiot.

    My new boyfriend said he can't cum with condom on but is it true?
  • It definitely feels better without. I've had some times that I couldn't finish with one on... other times I have.
    We go all natural now anyway.

  • I mean if your using thick condoms than maybe if using thinner condoms I don't know if true

  • Going bare does feel better but a guy can ejaculate with a condom on... the friction and sensation is not that different, and plenty of stimulation to trigger ejaculation.

    Don't give in to him. Properly using a condom is the most effective means of preventing pregnancy and STI/STDs.

  • I hear this and think it might have some effect but not fully. It might help him last longer making it easier to orgasm

  • I can't either.

  • Condoms decrease some sensitivity on the penis but its used for protection from sexual diseases and pregnancy even though its not 100% perfect. Its his way of wanting to go bare during sex by telling you he has a hard time cumming with a condom on, its true for some guys but nothing beats the real flesh on flesh feeling.

    • That is what he is saying. Do I let him go bare?

    • Thats your choice to make, but if you do take some precautions on your part to prevent getting pregnant

  • No he should wear a condom

  • It is true that condoms don’t feel as good as bare, but if he isn’t using a condom that is a good fit the problem will be much worse. If he’s well endowed he should look into large or, if necessary, custom-made condoms. This is one issue you don’t want to compromise on. Don’t let him go bare until you are ready and prepared to handle any consequences.

  • Girl, don’t be fooled. 😭

  • It is true. But that dosen't mean you should. Are you on the pill? Can you use any other contraceptive?

  • Better safe than sorry...

  • It may be true for him. Have him keep it on while he's inside you unless you want to get pregnant, then pull it off and have him jerk off on your tummy, boobs, or in your mouth.

  • Tell him to stop masturbating. Maybe he has death grip syndrome...

  • Tell him to get STD tested

  • It could be true, many people get irritation from the condoms, anything from latex allergies to chemical irritants. it's actully quite common, but you know, thats what fingerbanging/handjobs/blowjobs are for.

  • Personally I would be more concerned about getting an STI or Pregnant from someone who doesn't want to practice safe sex

  • For a lot of guys that is true. A condom dulls the sensation.

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