My new boyfriend wants me to swallow when I suck him off--is this normal request?

My new boyfriend said we can only stay together if I swallow when I suck him off. He really likes bjs lots and wants me to swallow after he finishes. I'm 18 and barely getting used to giving bjs and now need to learn to swallow. Is this a normal boyfriend request.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • His preference is normal.
    His ultimatum is complete crap. He's a piece of shit for doing that, dump him. Ultimatums are like nukes, you only use one when absolutely necessary because of the long term damage they cause. Using it over something as trivial as you swallowing AFTER he has already cum... screw that noise. Let him pull that crap on somebody else.

  • What's more troubling is "we can only stay together if I swallow". Is he threatening you into doing something you're not comfortable with? You should reconsider the relationship if the person on the other end is hinging a relationship on like, a minuscule part of sex.

    • We are new together so he's telling me right up front on what he expects and wants. I think it was good he told me what he wants from a girlfriend to be happy. I can leave if I want or be ok with it and keep him as boyfriend. He asked me what I wanted too so we can both be happy together.

    • Ahh alright cool. I guess the ball is in your court then. If you're okay with him and he's worth it, go for it. Either way, good luck dude.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Leaving you because you won't do that make it seems as if that's the only thing you can offer him, it taste weird at first but you'll get use to it and you can try it once but if you don't like it stop.

  • Dump his ass. Although a lot of guys like it when you swallow, if that's his constituent for staying with you he's not worth it. That's a stupid ultimatum.

  • It's normal that a guy would like if you swallow, but it's super mean & controlling to say he'll break up with you if you don't.

    • Exactly a guy obviously likes when you swallow but if he says he'll break that's really damn mean... Don't do it...

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  • No, hinging a relationship on such a thing is not normal, it's a big flashing sign to walk away.

  • It shouldn't be that serious where he threatens to break up with you

  • It's a normal request.

    And yes, it's gross. Don't think you're an oddball for not liking slimy dick matter.

  • That's a normal request, and it's also normal to refuse to do it, if you don't want to. I'd suggest that you leave this guy. The vibes are that he is a controlling, selfish jerk.

  • Spitters are fucking quitters,

    that is my response to this question.

  • No. It's not normal. You shouldn't be doing it in the first place. Men will have no respect for you if you do that... or have sex.

    • You see how many men disliked my comment? ^ It's because it's the truth and they would rather have BJs than respect for you!

  • Normal. Your boyfriend is lucky.

    • Thanks we just talked about what we wanted from each other since we are new couple.

  • I think they all want it, but that's your choice.

    • Sorry, I missed the leaving you part. If he is threatening to leave, maybe it's time to find a more mature man.

  • It definitely is. Tell him not to drink as much soda, it will help with the taste. Make him drink gatorade.

  • Whether it's a normal request or not has nothing to do with it. Letting a guy cum in your mouth and swallowing his cum is a personal decision for you. If he has any respect for you he will accept your decision. There should never be any pressure on you to do this and not all girls do it. Some even gag at the thought of it. It's normal to let you decide yes or no!

  • Yes, it’s completely normal. In fact, swallowing has been shown to reduce anxiety and depression.

  • Yes but the way he is trying to get you to us manipulative

    • We are new together so he's telling me right up front on what he expects and wants. I think it was good he told me what he wants from a girlfriend to be happy. I can leave if I want or be ok with it and keep him as boyfriend. He asked me what I wanted too so we can both be happy together.

  • That's hott

  • Tell him to do one

  • it is normal that he likes it, but that is a little extreme if he will break up with you over it

    • Thanks we just talked about what we wanted from each other since we are new couple.

  • Trolling hard

  • Very normal, some guys think it's hotter

  • Leave him. Swallowing is extra and is thereby optional. If you don't want to do it, and he knows that you don't want to do it, and he still wants you to do it, then I don't think he has any respect for you or your feelings. Find a man worth sucking off

  • yes, but most girls doesn't do such things!

    • Really. My first boyfriend wanted bjs so what you mean?

  • If he gives you an ultimatum you should leave him. I would enjoy it, but only if the girl does too. Even if they don't swallow that's not that big of a deal