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Girls, My new girlfriend says she is bi but only has "serious relationships" with men. That confused me. Any bi women that are similar?

She basically said she does sleep with women and finds them sexually attractive but only gets seriously involved with men. She plans on marriage and says she is exclusive when dating guys. Does that mean she likes to sleep around with women? I asked her if she was ever exclusive with a girl, her not exact but close enough answer, "no, I just have flings with them. It's nothing serious, because I still prefer men and am faithful and exclusive to an actual boyfriend". I do appreciate her honesty and she is amazing as a girlfriend, so far, but that just seems sketchy to me. Are there any bi girls out there that can relate? Am I just over thinking it?

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  • So bi girl here. Thats just her preference. She finds it more serious with guys. Nothing strange about it at all. To give some perspective I have had three serious relationships. Two guys and one girl. I lean towards wanting a relationship with a girl but end up dating guys more often although not a huge sample to go by. For me I date the person and not what they got between their legs. I'm looking for someone to connect with no matter the gender. For her sounds like she connects better with guys. Fair enough...

    • So, it sounds like you actually will get "serious" with either sex? That's what confuses me about her. I don't want to judge her and will take her at her word, as far as being faithful and exclusive to only men but that sounds so bad. Kinda like she sleeps around but with women. It would sound better to me if she said she would have a serious relationship with either sex, like you. Sure, you have a preference but you can have an exclusive relationship with either male or female. I don't know. I just hate to think she has it in her mind that she can sleep around with girls and justify it by saying, "I don't have any feelings for them. It's just sex". It's so early in our relationship, so I'm just thinking out loud. Like I said, for now I have to take her word for it. She was honest with me and so far doesn't seem to demonstrate anything that would make me think she isn't being honest.

    • Yes that is correct that I will have a serious relationship with either sex and have.

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  • hiya I’m a bi girl who is exactly as you describe. Basically there’s a real difference between romantic and sexual attraction, a lot of people just conflate the two but the is a distinction. Me and ur girlfriend are technically ‘heteroromantic bisexual’ - so basically romance is solely for men, but we also find girls attractive. It’s defo not a bad reflection on her character, attraction is just complicated that way sometimes.
    Also, specific to me, I’m Catholic and wanna have a biological family someday, so I’d only wanna be in a serious relationship with a guy for that reason, alone, even if I had romantic feelings for girls!

    • I think I might be the same way but I’ve only been involved with one girl so I’m not 100% sure. But I’m still figuring out my sexuality so I’m not too worried about it.

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  • Yes me too I think women are hot and I like having sex with women but I only dated men long term in my life

    • Here is the thing, I don't want threesomes and I'm thinking that is what she will eventually want. I don't want to ask if that is something she is into, because I don't want to upset her this early in a relationship. She is an amazing girl! I just don't want to waste my time if she needs to sleep with women too, even if it isn't an emotional attachment, it's still sex with another person. I know she could just as well cheat on me with another guy but they are only half the population, which cuts the odds in half. Plus, I have confidence I can compete with any guy out there. When you are dating a guy, do you ask for threesomes or crave sex with a woman?

    • No being bi doesn't mean you need to sleep with women too like how you surely are attracted to other women but her but still dont cheat on her sure if you're bi you're often more open to threesomes and so but that realy depends on her personality it might likely be she's only interested in monogamy but with either a man or woman I did have two threesomes with my boyfriend but we both wanted them but I dont crave sex with women

  • Really so that way with my hubby! I never get serious feelings for girls or my exes! But omg the sex is so more amazing!

    Really talk with her cause she will want a 3 some sometime or a pass to sleep with her girlfriend!

    Not over thinking and really my hubby is fine with it we do parties 3somes and couples swap!

    She won't ever be happy with just your dick! Let her have toys and a fake pussy to grind on!

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