My own fault but still?

I fucked up and looked at my boyfriends search history. He had cam girls from chaturbate and lots of porn. I knew he watched porn but didn’t know about the cam girls. I know I should’ve have snooped but still. Is it ok for me to be hurt? Is that a normal response even tho I snooped
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Superb Opinion

  • The way you feel is normal.


    But you have to realize that this is normal, both sides of it.


    Almost all men will continue to watch porn regardless of how happy they are in their relationship.


    It doesn’t mean that he finds those women more appealing than you, it just means he likes to masturbate to unrealistic situations.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Talk with him about it. He's going to be pissed that you snooped on his phone and it might lead to a breakup. If you have a good relationship, you'll get through it.

    FYI... most guys watch porn, and on chaturbate you can watch the cam girls perform for free but you can't interact with them unless you pay, so it's really the same as watching porn.

  • There is no "but still" - you are being an asshole here.

    A) you have no business in his stuff
    B) men watch porn no matter what, just fucking get over it already, we like to stroke our schlongs

    • And don't even start the camgirl stuff. It's just porn with an extra label.

    • I didn’t totally snoop. I just wanted to look up what time the bowling alley opened tomorrow and I saw it. Then I looked to see if it was just a pop up from pornhub and I saw it wasn’t. Also it’s all about boundaries, which I have tried to set countless times

    • Also I saw that he paid to talk to them or whatever. I’d say that’s more than porn?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'd say that his porn habits are private. It's not something you should shun him for.

    Perhaps it's time to buy some lingerie and become his own "cam girl"?, 😄

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I’d be hurt too

    • I’m laying next to him and can’t say anything so I just want to kms

    • Just tell him. He’s the one in the wrong, not you.

  • And he's too dumb to clear his browsing history.

  • I personally hate cam shit. And no crappy porn can match a real girlfriend unless that guy has sexual deviations that are fulfilled only watching there.

    • So no, you didn't fucked up anything. A relationship shouldn't have secrets between partners. Otherwise it's just a partnership with benefits.

  • Porn is okay. Cam girls are not.

  • Truly it is nothing more than needing an orgasm and releasing sperm. We have zero feelings for the cam girls. I promise you, nothing to worry about.

  • "but still" is how we justify every cockersukerish act in this entire world

  • Why its just cam girls... Not real girls. No different then porn.

    • Cam girls are real, you usually just have to pay for them to do stuff

    • Yes they are real but they are still on a screen and not in real life.. I think you are over reacting.

    • I didn’t think I was overreacting, it bothers me and I thought that meant something in a relationship. It just hurts he would need that when I’m next to him every night and most of the day.

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  • Those girls are so cheesy and porno-like I really wouldn't be threatened by that at all

  • Watching porn in a relationship is something that's bad. It's completely normal how you feel.

    • It’s past porn bro. It’s liveee girls

    • I know what cam girls is sis

    • Well obviously. I’m just freaking out

  • You should be glad. Why? Because your
    boyfriend is not gay.

  • Ok watching porn is normal when watching it together or not and depending on the guy a guy will follow girls nudes accounts but doesn't have to mean anything. Now talking to girls is another thing not right at all