My parents were too strict with me when I was a kid/teen, and so now my idea for revenge is choosing to die a virgin. Is this a good revenge?

People say success is the best revenge, but my parents WANT me to be successful, so success would not be a good revenge, sadly.
And just to be clear, by die a virgin, I mean live a life of celibacy, and then when i die, decades from now, I will be a virgin. I don't mean killing myself, I have no desire to end my life.
It's a good revenge
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It's an okay revenge, there might be better revenges
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It's a terrible revenge
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  • Your parents want what's best for you. Trust me, they had good intentions with schooling. You don't want to be nowhere 10 years from now.

    If you want to be an incel, especially for petty reasons, be my guest. You're only hurting yourself. You have a whole life to live

    • Intentions mean nothing to me, and I said nothing about schooling in my original question, so at this point, you're just engaging in baseless speculation

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  • The best revenge is happiness, not success. Would dying a virgin make you happy? Spiting your parents feels great now, but when you look back over a lonely life spent on anger and hate, you'll regret that you let yourself be so petty.

    • It feels great now, and that's all I care about. I don't care if I'm unhappy with it on my deathbed, since I'd rather be happy for the next 4 or 5 decades and unhappy on my deathbed, then be happy on my deathbed but unhappy for the next 4 or 5 decades

    • Well, if that's how you feel, then go for it. But do it for your own sake, not just to get back at someone.

    • OK then

Most Helpful Girls

  • If that's how you want to live, that can be an ok revenge. But do you want to die a virgin? Your feelings are more important than theirs in the life you choose. At the end of the day, live the life you want to live.

    • I want to die a virgin as a revenge. This is my revenge to my strict parents. My desire to die a virgin is motivated 100% by wanting to punish them for being strict.

  • What makes u think they will care about you being a virgin?

    • I don't, but it feels defiant and countercultural, and thus good

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  • There is no logic in destroying your own life just to get back at your parents.

    • But how is that destroying my own life?

  • Shitest idea I have heard fuck yourself up to spite you parents instead of simply cutting them off

    • How is this fucking myself up?

    • Ensuring u don't become successful in anyway to get at your parents when u are the only one that will feel that effect

    • But it will hurt them too since they want me to succeed

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  • Have you ever heard the phrase cutting off your nose to spite your face?

    • Yes, but it's not like I'd be cutting off my dick

    • Thats not the point of it. You'll be ruining your life just to spite them. Why deny yourself the life expereinces that comes with relationships just to punish them? If you dislike them so much then just cut them out of your life.

    • Because it wouldn't have the same positive defiant feelings

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  • Sure do what you want.

    • Thanks :)

  • In my opinion, I that's not great revenge as your parents still are basically controlling your life. Instead, you should do stuff you wanted to do your parents didn't let you do.

    • No, it's not controlling my life. My parents were strict in other ways that had nothing to do with virginity or dating.