My RA has been sneaking into my dorm and raiding my underwear drawer and stole two thongs and my favourite bra, what should I do?

[lilylangley]

So I’ve been at college barely a month and I’m already caught up in drama. It started a couple of weeks ago when I noticed that my favourite bra had gone missing. I searched all over for it and even my girlfriends came over to help but to no avail.

Then a few days later, the same thing happened to another girl in my dorm. Luckily we’ve got a tech savvy guy in our dorm so after that he rigged mine and the other girls in my dorm bedrooms up with discreet cameras in the hope to catch someone.

It only took 48 hours for the cameras to catch something. At 10.45 am while I was in class, my RA unlocked my door and came into my bedroom without permission and raided my underwear drawer. He sniffed and licked many pairs of my panties and stole two of my thongs before leaving again and locking my room back up so it appeared like nothing had happened.

What should I do?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If it’s happening to you it’s happening to other people & instead of sitting back & doing nothing with your evidence you now it’s time for you to rattle chains.

Set up a meeting with your school’s dean & request that campus police or local police be there as well & after you have the meeting show them the video & bring the panty licker to justice. If the school fails to do anything take your story to the news stations.

[Nik1hil]

If you haven't reported him that means you do like him..

See for a negotiation you have proof in camera, get the recording Leverage it.

You can get cops involved or manage on your own.. Having your RA on your side wouldn't be bad.. 😉

[cheeky_starfish]

That’s super creepy and you don’t know what else he could do or how far he could go. I would say take the video evidence to a higher authority! You don’t want to spend your time there worrying about what he might get up to next.

[MaddyJ]

Go to the police. Immediately!

[ImHere22]

File a police report and make sure that clown loses the RA job and is arrested for burglary.

[OlderAndWiser]

You have indisputable evidence. You should go to the director of student life or Dean of Students to make your complaint. As soon as you show them the video, they will take action.

[Gent207-2]

Take this to the dean of Student Affairs, file a formal complaint and hooe that he loses his job.

I promise you creeps rarely stop there before they escalate to rape. Protect yourself and every female on-campus

[RingOfFire]

I wouldn't do it through the school. They have an incentive to hush it up. I would report it to the police.

[DryGermanGuy]

I don’t believe a word of this story. Didn’t you steal the Instagram pictures of someone else for your last account here only to post other outlandish stories? Now this?

[lilylangley]

I don’t know what you’re talking about, this is my only account, I haven’t been on here previously. The situation is not made up and if you really think I’m fake then do a reverse image search on my picture. All you’ll find is a Facebook profile in my name, I’m real!!!

[jshm2]

Firstly get a copy of the footage onto a USB. Secondly get a couple of mouse traps in the drawer to really catch the geezer out.

[dreamstar72]

Are you sure you are college material?

[exitseven]

Set up a video camera and get her on video stealing your underwear. Put it up on You tube.

[Anpu23]

You have video, file a Title IX complaint.

[stratford]

I wonder what was caught on camera?

[RedInnocent68]

Report it to their supervisor. What are they doing with them. That feels worse than having a relationship with a student from the same dorm, which is a big no no

[Alex-Snow]

I would talk to campus police about it

[RingOfFire]

Call the police and report them.

[gorydetails]

I don’t think RA’s have that kind of access. This smells like BS. But on the off chance it’s not, you call the housing office and report the RA.

[lilylangley]

All the RA’s have a spare key which is meant to only be used in emergencies, but this guy is using them to be a creep.

[gorydetails]

You’ve been told what to do, then.

[jeffend888]

Ok, you're not 18. You're at least mid 20s.

[brownup]

How are they allowed in your dorm and why wasn't door locked

[lilylangley]

Door was locked, our RA’s are allowed a spare key to only be used in emergencies, but this guys using his privilege to creep on girls.

[LunarEclipse433]

He should be fired and jailed

[brownup]

That's a terrible rule to allow opposite gender to have a spare key.. regardless of emergency.. it should only be a female

[lilylangley]

They can’t really enforce that rule, not in my dorm anyway because Im in a co-ed dorm. 3 guys, 3 girls.

[brownup]

Hmmm.. well that sucks. So u guys have attached baths then

[lilylangley]

Yeah we each have our own bedroom and bathroom and share the kitchen dinner, living room, study room and laundry room.

[brownup]

Ahan... and the other girls had no such issue?

[lilylangley]

Oh yes, Kaitlyn had one of her bras taken as well before we put the cameras up.

[brownup]

Maybe his wife is poor and needs them

[lilylangley]

I doubt that because I’m a D cup and Kaitlyn is a B cup. Besides if that was the case, it doesn’t doesn’t explain why he took my thongs.

[brownup]

Well.. she could be a different size on left and right.. and thongs are pretty expensive right.. maybe she couldn't afford on her own and wants to look sexy for her hubby

[lilylangley]

At the expense of having some other girls bodily fluids in the thong she’s wearing? I don’t think so. There’s a reason why underwear can’t be sold secondhand.

[brownup]

Lol I'm just teasing u :p tryna make u feel better after the theft

[lilylangley]

Oh I’m not that upset about the theft I’m more concerned about him creeping into my room while I’m asleep and doing creepy stuff to me.

[brownup]

Well.. next time wear ugly full length PJ's lol

[lilylangley]

Lol nah… can’t! Not even being asleep is going to stop me looking fashionable!

[brownup]

Haha what so u sleep in dresses lol

[lilylangley]

Nah… I normally sleep in a baggy crop top and pyjama shorts with a thong underneath.

[brownup]

Dude.. hit a follow back please:)

[LunarEclipse433]

@lilylangley I would bet your thongs have some new DNA and body fluids on them now

[shortster]

Send the video to the college administrators; and demand he be kicked out of the college.

[Guardian45]

Easy peasy. Report the perv! His ass will be fixed. Unless, for some strange reason you like the guy!

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