Well first, you need to remember you are his mother. Kids cannot and should not be able to get away with things like this.
Don't listen to all the ones saying to leave him alone and let him do what he wants. He is a child. The last thing that should be on his mind is porn and sexuality. Let him think about it when he has a driver's license and can vote.
Trust me, I'm speaking from experience as someone who got hooked on porn at the age of nine. I too was conflicted with my "sexuality," but I'm way over that now.
Also, I saw you mentioned to a user that you wanted your son to have a phone in case of an emergency. Well think of this as an emergency. Switch him over to a flip phone.
If you can't do that, then cut the internet off, put a password on the Wi-Fi and don't tell him what it is, or even look into getting a parental lock that will block porn sites, chats with random strangers, and will notify you when he tries to access anything of the sort.
There's still enough time to nip this thing in the bud.
Talk to your son and explain the very real dangers of porn and hookups. And again, you are his mother. This is your responsibility as such.
And please, don't come to this site for advice on something like this. It just isn't worth it.
It is obvious that he is at least experimenting, with a clear inclination towards his own sex. The bigger issue here is his age, so he should refrain from having sex with any adult, gay or not. If he finds out that he's gay when he becomes an adult, then all the power to him. But, now is a little to early to be physically involved with anyone.
How do you have a 13 year old son when you're 25-29.
First take away his computer. But tell him it's not cause the porn but because of talking with strangers on the internet. Explain to him how it's very unsafe. As far as exploring, you might as well let him. he's going through a confusing time but if you deny him something that'll be all he wants.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!How to u have a 13 year old when your age is like 25 or a little older... u had him at 14?
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@buttcrackjoe why are you like this
@tyepo like what? Im just a passerby not the OP
You should stay out of it. Gay or not it shouldn't matter
Uh, she's his mother, and he's a young and stupid kid. The last thing see needs to do is stay out of it.
@SoulfullWanderer she wasn't suppose to see it in the first place. So why would she dig deeper into this situation
That argument is extremely poor and extremely flawed. Parents are supposed to guide and correct their children. That's literally their job. Whether she was supposed to see it or not is irrelevant. In fact, if he was hiding it, that's all the more reason take action against it.
Could be exploring his sexuality
Should i allow him?
Why not? While he might be young, it beats meeting up with a girl and getting her pregnant. If he's gay there's nothing wrong with him and nothing you can do to change him. Support him regardless of his sexuality, but if you have issues with his age then tell him that it's not that he is meeting other guys, but you feel like 13 is too young.
Your age and your sons age do not agree. What are you afraid of? Straighten him out so he will know the right thing latter. I know all you gays will object but you are gay and how would you know what a man does unless he is taught. Its time to talk about dicks in pussy and tongues on clits. As well as women who suck cock. Is he already afraind of girls. Oh yeah, teach him about condoms.
I think you should take away his internet access immediately
Can't i work all day so he needs a phone in case anything happens at home
Ok i just dont like the idea of him meeting up with another adult or am i crazy here?
Give him a flip phone
Probably experimenting or bi or whatever.
Possibly faggot
Yes. I was also 13 5 years ago and I never had the slightest inkling to try out gay porn.
Bad news, there is no "experimenting". However, he could be bisexual. Remember, if a guy likes cock, it doesn't mean he can't like pussy.
He maybe just curious. Why don’t you ask him.
ask him do you want dick or pussy?
Gay I think
he might be gay. Nothing to be ashamed of :l
Watching gay porn is a thing and hooking up with a guy is another, he might be curious and it's ok to be curious, but you shouldn't allow him to hook up with anyone no matter girl or a guy he is still a minor, ask him to just deal with his curiosity in his bedroom alone like any other teenager
So at most you had a kid at 16? You both need help hon
Good point.
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