My son is turning 23 and he is still a virgin?

[Anonymous]

He is 23 in two months and he haven't had sex yet. Should I be worried?

[Daniel3035]

I'm 23 and a virgin by choice although I'll prob lose it this year for sure. It largely comes down to preference I was hoping it would go with a girl I was in a relationship but nope and I don't want to wait any longer to be honest otherwise my youth will go where I could have explored with multiple girls.
It's not an issue for him in this day and age things are extended people used to leave house at 18 now my recently wedded cousin moved out at 27. But there's no harm in giving a few hints.

[Drumlin2001]

He's an adult. It's his life to live how he wants. Not your need to worry.
He's a little late but he can still have a happy life. I was a 35yr old virgin. Since losing it in Jan 2018 the relationship with ex didn't work out. But i met someone else, we've had a child. We have a healthy sex life.

[Cynicaldreamer]

No. You should be very happy he's not running around sleeping with random girls, getting some girl pregnant, or stressing over an std!

You should be glad he's waiting for the right girl or isn't rushing things. As a mother I figured you'd be more supportive of him.

Instead of stressing out, how about make sure he's happy with his life and support him, virgin or not...
He'll lose it one day, when the time is right.

[mrfoox]

Short answer: no.
Obviously there's a ton of: unless... Which could be added on, but I think your son's whole life would have to be laid out, so...
But honestly, it isn't super uncommon these days for people to still be virgins up to mid 20s.
Maybe your son just don't have an interest in it. Has he had any girls home? How does his social life look overall?

[Asker]

He doesn't have a social life

[mrfoox]

Like... No friends? Not even online?

[Asker]

Online yes

[mrfoox]

Okay, then that's something. Does he go out and overall... Function normally in our society? I mean is he studying or working?

[Asker]

Studying, looking for work

[Asker]

He goes out shopping, to town... That's it

[Boppy]

Does he have any close friends? I think that lacking social ties is probably more dangerous than not having sex.

[mrfoox]

I agree with Boppy. Are you close to your son? Like do he come to talk to you about things willingly?

[SouthernLAguy]

Where the heck were all these virgins when I was that age? Shit, get out of the house and go do things. I read what you wrote that he really doesn't go outside, or hang out anywhere, just always at your house. Not good.

[lightbulb27]

no, there's lots of guys who haven't and mature diff ages, and it's difficult dating environment now with the moral decay being accepted. but question may be why.

[Apple1996]

I would stay out of it. Nobody wants there mommy worrying about their virginity for them

[Shamalien]

as if it even had to be said yeah

[markscott]

If he is getting involved with girls, that is, has friends that are girls, and dates some, and doesn't seclude himself, etc., then I would not be concerned.

[thatguy1559]

Hell no don't be worried. Be happy all these STD going around and scandalous woman it here. Tell him good job and wait for the right one.

[EmbraceThePain]

Well, it depends on why he’s a virgin. Plenty of people are virgins around that age for reasons that have nothing to do with who they are as a person. If your son doesn’t go out at all or interacts with women, then he can be the most handsome, amazing, and smart man and still not have sex with anyone. Now, if he’s just unhygienic, antisocial, hostile, etc. then that is a problem. Being a virgin has both negative and non-negative explanations. Find out which belongs to your son.

[Asker]

He never interacts with girls. He doesn't go out

[EmbraceThePain]

Then that’s an easy fix. It would be worse if he actually tried everyday for years and still couldn’t get anyone. Being a virgin isn’t good or bad, but the reasons someone is a virgin can be good or bad for sure.

[Asker]

Easy fix?

[Twalli]

Habe him head out more and he'll talk to girls more and eventually find a girlfriend. He can get one, but he hasn't tried that hard/much. It's easier to get a guy to try (harder) than it is to get him to succeed if he's put a lot if effort into trying to get a girl.

[DevikaButts95]

If he wants to clean my guys cum out of me I'll take it from him. Lmao.

[Asker]

? What

[DevikaButts95]

If he wants to lick me after I have sex with another guy, I'll take your son's virginity. Lmao.

[Asker]

Really?

[Asker]

Why?

[DevikaButts95]

It's hot for me to do that exact thing? Lmao.

[Asker]

I see

[DevikaButts95]

Do we have a deal? I'd love to make it happen! :* ;)

[Asker]

He would want to

[DevikaButts95]

Really? He's going to be okay with swallowing my guy's cum out of me? Lmao. Fine by me, if he can handle his face getting ridden too.

[Asker]

Getting ridden by you?

[DevikaButts95]

My pussy riding his face/ his face getting sat on,

[Asker]

He'll prolly be up for it

[DevikaButts95]

Sweet, you can pm me if you want. Lmao.

[Asker]

Where are you from?

[DevikaButts95]

The United States.

[Asker]

Lol we are in UK..

[DevikaButts95]

I mean it's still not impossible. Would be willing to do it if y'all came down for a vacation or I just so happen to be taking a vacation there.

[DevikaButts95]

@Shamalien Nobody asked you. Lmao.

[Shamalien]

yah I just thought I'd let you know anyways

[DevikaButts95]

@Shamalien You can't let someone know incorrect statements though. Lmao.

[Shamalien]

incorrect? You're literally a scum fucking goblin on the heel of my shoe. You are DEEEEESGUSTTTTING like not just in a bodily fluids way, but at a SOUL LEVEL. You putrid, fucking filth. Really just take a look in the mirror. You are gunna try and manipulate some dude into their first time being sucking your boyfriends cum out of your filthy fking cunt? Like seriously, you need therapy. "Heeey beebeee if you suck my bfs cum from my cunt ill let ya stick it innn" I mean holy fuck. Just go away, just go away forever from everyone, please. Go into nature and let it take you.

[DevikaButts95]

@Shamalien Ah something to report, thank you very much. Still an incorrect statement by the way. Lmao.

[Shamalien]

you think I give a flying fuck if this account gets deleted? I've go through 10 of these things a year slut you can't stop truth.

[DevikaButts95]

@Shamalien No but I can stop objectively wrong statements like your's.

[DevikaButts95]

@Shamalien Nah dude, it's just funny I'm trolling you by existing. Lmao. I could care less, like I said, your words aren't true.

[Shamalien]

rofl you call what you do existing? You wouldn't know the half of what it means to actually exist. You are unborn, dead.

[DevikaButts95]

@Shamalien Lmao what does that one even mean. Was that even an insult?

[Zorrak]

You shouldn't be worried lmao

[IHateMondays]

No! Let him wait til marriage if he wants. Virginity is all about when that person wants. Which is of course different for each person. Let him be and make his own choices. He’s an adult for crying out loud!

[WhiteShoulder]

None of your business

[Just_a_human]

No. You shouldn't be concerned with his sexual habits. That's none of your business.

[cicchis0]

You don't know that. Boys don't typically boast to their mothers about their sexual adventures.

[slatyb]

About what? Worry implies dear of some future possibility. What's the worst that could happen?

[wankiam]

so 12.6 percent of malees under 25 are still virgins so whilst it may seem odd to us there has been a steady rise in that number over the last few years so you dont need to worry too much that he is the odd one out

[ghostqueen]

The fact that your son's dick hasn't been inside of anyone really isn't your business.

[foxrider77]

It’s time to buy him an escort or find a cleaning lady to help clean his situation.

[LiamSawyer]

If you're worried you could always have a younger friend seduce him.

[Asker]

Why?

[LiamSawyer]

If you are truly worried then... Why not?

[LiamSawyer]

There are plenty of Dad's out there that have made sure their sons were properly introduced to sex, unfortunately a lot of them use a whole to introduce their sons to the pleasures of sex.

[Lemia]

And this is a concern for you because?

[catj9999]

Well me and my boyfriend only recently lost our virginity he is 21 and I'm 20. Also I have an older brother who is the same age as your son and he's still a virgin. Being as like your son doesn't go

[Dargil]

Not about sex necessarily, but if he isn't interested in girls (or boys, **gulp**) there may be other problems like depression or autism.