MY TOP TEN - Am I the only one that can't stand certain things that some guys do when dating?

Question

GIRLS AND GUYS - Here's the chance to vent that you've been waiting for!!

This is a small sample of my list, but fair is fair, so guys give us your list of things you can't stand that some girls do, OK?

Girls, what have I missed? ... lol

MY TOP TEN - Am I the only one that cant stand certain things that some guys do when dating?

Here is my list of things some guys do that I can't stand...

1) Spitting

2) Hacking

3) Constantly adjusting themselves in public like a perv, I mean occasionally I can understand, but you don't have to play with yourself in public, it's embarrassing... or are you just happy to see me today? lol

4) Walking in front of us and letting the door close in our face for us to open our self... subconsciously punishing us for the radical feminists that they don't like I guess

5) Constantly pressuring you to do things in bed that you don't want to do just because it is a long strongly desired fetish of theirs

6) Going into their bedroom and seeing their dirty clothes piled up all over the floor... like yuck! ... only girls are allowed to do that... lol

7) Throwing garbage out the car window of the car... really?

8 ) Constantly putting you down and treating you like all you are good for is sex

9) Spanking you too hard on the butt because they like to hear you scream... another one of those fetishes

10) Bragging about themselves and their accomplishments continuously but not showing any interest in you and yours

I could go on, but I'll soon run out of allowable GAG character space... lol

OK guys, now it's your turn to roast us with your list! ... lol

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

First of all I'll agree with over 90% of your list but would like to point out that this list applies to the template of guys that are usually introduced as "assholes" and not all guys in general.

Second I never had a "long strongly desired fetish" until I saw that photo so thanks for giving me one.

And now with my list on women:

1) A passive woman who expects me to take care everything, from asking her out to chosing the place to setting the mood. Like show some initiative.
2) A hypocrite who dresses all slutty but would still scold you if you compliment her or even check her out. Either own it or drop the act.
3) A crowd pleaser who has to get signed approvals from all her friends before going out with me.
4) A girl who confuses being feminine with being weak and can't stand to get her hands or shoes dirty. A worst level is the one who expects me to hold an umbrella over her while getting drenched myself.
5) A girl who has a bestie that always tags along on dates. I mean unless they got a threesome in mind I don't need the crowd.
6) A girl bound by the rules of society even though she clearly wants to live freely. Ironically a free unapologetic girl is precisely my type.
7) A girl a sees sex as something she's doing for me and will use it as a mean to ask me to do things later. Who is she kidding women enjoy sex even more than men.
8) A girl who puts on too much makeup and dresses like she's going to a graduation everyday for no reason.
9) A girl who claims to be "old fashioned" when it's time to pay the check but then claims to be "modern" when it's time to do the dishes after dinner at home. It's either one or the other make up your mind.
10) A girl who is somehow stuck in a Disney princess story and wants to be treated like a queen and overexpose our relationship on social media

And a bonus just for you.
11) A girl who only wants a platonic relationship, like no sex no kissing not even a hug.
If I'm gonna be with someone I actually like I wanna be able to show affection and get it in return.

ImagineSketchy · Accepted Answer

I have never done of what you mentioned...

Only things I know for a fact that I dislike would be:
1. Acting as though you're more important than you actually are
2. Stop thinking we know what you want without telling us.
3. Don't have these long drawn conversations or arguments internally with a made version of us in your mind AND THEN hold it against us like WE actually did anything
4. Learn to stop being so indecisive. When offered a set of 3 choices and then you turn all 3 down, best believe you're going to be choosing something or we aren't going.

That's really it as I've never dated but these are things that I can remember my few guy friends complain to me about as though I actually cared about their relationship... I don't have time for the small stuff...

Desconhecida · Accepted Answer

1. When they flex their arm muscles to show you how strong they are

2. When they change their personality completely as soon as their friends are around

3. They look directly at your boobs when they talk

4. They own the remote control and never stop changing the channel.

5. They check some girl out in front of us.

6. They get lost but never ask for help.

7. Having a cold for them is a Greek tragedy.

8. Inability to remember towels when they take a shower.

9. Electronics hypnotize them

10. They take us for granted.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

❤❤"brains" luvsit 😅😂most of em on your list, but here's one more: points out all the things they "do" for you forgetting all you"do" for them 🤷‍♀️

MrOracle · Answer

I'm occasionally guilty of 6 and 9 (but lots of girls are okay with 9), but I'm with you on most of the others. I may be a dominant, but I'm chivalrous, and littering is just absolutely classless.

kymberz · Answer

dirty clothes piled all over the bedroom and only girls are allowed to see that? girl are you living in my head or something? that was so freakin funny!

DizzyDesii · Answer

#1 i found spitting oddly attractive under age 12 and would try to make my spit skeet across the sidewalk like they did 😂 but yes now thats a turnoff
#2 hacking what? Devices or wood? Devices would be unattractive
#3 its a bit unsanitary but funny and i usually call em out on having to adjust it haha
#4 if im in front then i’ll hold the door back for whoever is behind me. But yea if theyre in front and we’re on a date like dang at least hold it back for me to catch it
#5 i break up over fetishes
#6 just dont invite me into your room. Lets take it to the couch 😏
#7 I've only really seen people throw gum out. Not a big deal since its not trash
#8 i wouldn't date someone who just expected sex OR expected sex so soon
#9 who spanks them like a parent? Just squeeze and grab thee bootyyy, hold on to it 😏
#10 i talk about myself a lot so i won't comment on this one 😂

Daniela1982 · Answer

Wow, someone has dated some pretty lame men. Mostly all men I have dated never did any of these things. Of course there are usually more than one bad apple on a tree. I can't wait to see what the guys have to say about girls.

Lliam · Answer

I'm trying to think of some things that would be obnoxious, not that I've dated women like this.

1. Chewing gum, especially with her mouth open
2. Having a really annoying laugh
3. Being either a bubbly air head who talks too much or a humorless, cold fish
4. Acting like her shit don't stink and treats others rudely
5. Either acting like a spoiled princess or a radical, bitter, rather butch-type feminist
6. Having bad taste in clothing and makeup that make her look like a transvestite
7. Isn't a good kisser and shies away from touching, hugging, holding hands, etc.
8. Thinks that really sloppy blowjobs and spitting are sexy
9. Keeps her tits covered and doesn't like them stimulated
10. Isn't an eager lover and is shy about communicating/talking dirty during sex

NightFlirt · Answer

I think you pretty much nailed the top 10 list of bad male behavior.

Apple1996 · Answer

I agree with most besides number 3. I find it pretty interesting when a guy is touching himself in public

Paulaanderson · Answer

Seeing one vote on here.
I see teen boys in trackirs and hand on their privates
Had debate with a policeman about it. He said there was nothing wring. I said if a woman was walking along with her hands on her boobs would he say something
He said that was different

waaromniet · Answer

Haha some on those list are kinda hypocritical, like 4, 6 and 8

4: I've been made fun off for holding a door open for a girl, got that look then the 'never gonna happen, loser' she murmured to her friends, just loud enough so i'd know why theyre giggling. nowadays i do that 4 thingy and if girls point it out i call them strong independent women :D
6: even need an explanation?
8: stop treating men like walking wallets the first few dates, and they won't treat you like walking vaginas afterwards :p

Ok i just reread it and i sound really sour and pissed :p sorry guess i got defensive from the list, still gonna post the opinion cuz even tho i sound whiny, there are still some valid points there

normalice · Answer

My god, I'm getting old. I can vaguely remember a time that I had the energy to be like that if I were to have been raised with enough confidence to be conceited, but I wasn't. The closest I've ever came was (5), and even that was just not thinking a girl was really into me if she wasn't into oral and anal.

that said, i guess my top ten would be something more like this:

1 ) lazy
2 ) insecure
3 ) liar
4 ) prude

that's kind of it, though..

Jjpayne · Answer

All yours a good except clothes on the floor :) that's any bachlors right :) my top ten... Well not a top ten but... in no order.. 1. When girls are too selective while dating 2. Girls being too vain, even talking the whole time is fine, just don't act like you are the only person in the world that matters. 3. Disrespecting or not be kind or considerate to others 4. Girls being fair and realistic with food and clothing options, while shopping and eating at the most expensive places might be classy it gets old real fast. I like a girl that's practical and wise with her spending. 5. Not saying what you mean. An example, "the floor is dirty" just tell us to clean it up, guys need to be told things directly if you are with your girlfriends fine, otherwise just be straight forward with us guys. 6. Don't bait us while on a date... Let things happen, you can watch for signs but give us the chance to surprise you because we may not pass the test but that does not mean it was a perfect test 7. Dressing lazy or unclassy, I'm not saying I'm picky, but just pick an outfit that fits you without falling off and or look like you did something other than roll out of bed. That's some ideas at least :)

msss98 · Answer

Everything u listed is a big no for me

Gatman34 · Answer

Modern women like you are so high maintenance and nag so much are so annoying you know that’s why men prefer hookups now. You women aren’t worth dating

Finchie40 · Answer

1 . When she is selfish
2, when she compares her life to others, and acts like her shot doesn’t stink
3. High Maintenance
4. Nonsense of humor , always taking things seriously
5. Her Period lol
3.

Robertcw · Answer

I guess I can be guilty of 9. Or similar things. But my parents raised me that way.  Sometimes I don't realize I'm doing something until afterwards.

TCredo · Answer

lol great pictures and points - I hope I am not guilty of any of those :)

holidaze · Answer

Can't argue with much on that list, but just had to say, the pic you attached to #5, LORDY, ... just, ... I don't know what to say, lol.

Nessygurl · Answer

Your list is perfect, the only thing I would add is checking out other girls while he's on the date

loveslongnails · Answer

Frankly Laurie, with the exception of "hacking" because he might be sick, in which case he shouldn't be out with you, the entire list sounds like deal breakers to me. To even get to #8, you'd have to put up with that shit for a long time for it be "constant". Right?
Most of these are bad personality traits, not just bad habits, and reasons to STOP dating a guy, I would think.

To reverse the question, I was thinking along the lines of annoying things girls do, not deal breakers. Those would be things like not being willing to shut off their phone, playing with their hair all the time, talking too much, talking too little, interrupting others, being late constantly, things like that.

If I were on date #1 with a girl and she spent most of it bragging, talking about herself, and throwing shit out the window, criticizing the little she knew about me... there would be NO date #2. In fact, I'd probably drop her off where she wanted to go or put her in an uber in the middle of date #1 !!

lucas262 · Answer

My mom told me as a kid its rude to spit km front of a lady.

My dad told me treat a woman like a lady till she proved she wasn't one. And if anyone hits you hit em back.

There are manners hacking, adjusting, spitting i guess i wouldn't. Maybe i wouldn't give a shit. If i hold a door open on a date it means Somthing, if i act chivalrous on a date at all it means Somthing, it means hey, your my girl your not like anyone else and I show this to you in this way.

In this modern post feminist era if your not that girl you can open your own fucking door, that said im still a southerner and open it for most any one.

Id never pressure any one into anything I would tell her if she expects me to do things for her she will for me.

6# That's is what hampers are for.
No littering.

8 this is a good one.

In a day where the , nice guy, is shit on. You can't show or tell her how much she means to you many women say they get ,, board,, with their guy if he's too loving and too nice. These people want assholes so they get them.

A little pain can be good too much is classless.

Bragging is a sure fire way to see a fool.

Really though feminism took traditionalism out back and put a bullet in its head,
,, who killed chivalry?,, the cry goes women did is the answer.

You want a man to treat you right? Treat him right and make it clear what you expect from him them its on him to perform if he Dosn t move on to another guy.

MY TOP TEN - Am I the only one that can't stand certain things that some guys do when dating?

Most Helpful Guys

Most Helpful Girls

Related Questions

What Girls & Guys Said

Latest Questions