Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
These are my personal opinions you can disagree with if you want but again my opinion.
1. Having a high body count, doesn't mean you're a sex genius: I have mainly male friends and most of my female friends are their girlfriends. One of my best friends claims that he is a "sex god" becuase he has so much experience. However, his girlfriend has complained to me that she has only finished 1 or 2 times since they started dating and they're been together for almost two years now. My point on this is that you could have a body count of 900 and still be very average at sex. Experience and practice are the best when it comes to learning how to be good at sex in general but if you are just smashing away and not learning anything from it... you're just clapping skin, which is why communication is key
2. Raceplay is fine, just not outside a sexual setting: Personally, I would never get into raceplay. I'm pretty sure it would haunt me for life. Nevertheless, some people are and if you are it's fine but remember that your partner deserves respect still. If you're outside the bedroom or not in a sexually setting calling your partner some slur is going to look so bad, especially in public. I've seen some people on here saying how much they love calling black people the n-word in bed and yah, that creeps me out but I guess what gets you off getting you off but you might when to think about why that turns you on so much, but hey enjoy as long as you're partner is okay with it.
3. BSDM is completely normal: I like BSDM and most people do, it's one of the three top sexual fantasies people have. I saw a post saying, "If a woman like BSDM, she's not wife material". Personally, I think the opposite I don't mind vanilla sex but if it's always vanilla, I couldn't marry someone like that. BSDM is about sexual adventures with a sexual partner or partners, wink wink. I think maybe 20-25 years ago it was pretty taboo but now most people have at least 2 or more kinks. From hair pulling, spanking to even electric shocking (yah I was surprised that was a thing). In all honesty, I see BSDM more as sexy dress up for adults, then some taboo anymore. Besides, who doesn't like a good spank every once and a while? It's a great way to get to know your partner and it can also bring you closer together as a couple.
4. Porn isn't bad as people think it is: Porn, Porno the whole thing the reality is most people have seen porn before their first time, it's something I personally think it normal to see it's normal to be curious about sexuality and trying to find things that could explain it. Now the problem with it is that it sometimes gives people unrealistic expectations for what sex is meant to be like and their own sexual skills. In porn, you have "18-year-olds" magically able to take 10-inch dicks like it's nothing and him lasting for 40 minutes long. My first time he was maybe 6 inches and nutted in 3 minutes cause I was "too tight" ( like duh bro, I'm new at this). My point is the concept of porn a way for people especially young people to experience porn or have some understanding of how it's meant to work is getting. The reality causes a lot of unrealistic ideas for people especially young people like myself.
5. Bigger doesn't mean better: I've seen the "is 5 inches enough questions a lot", I've come up with this as a reply would you prefer to be completely in her or have an 8-9 inches dick that could possible only fit in halfway, which leaves the other half cold for the cruel element in this magical journey to completion!!.... Okay, okay I'm sorry for the dumb joke, but as I said in point 1 body count doesn't equal sex god but neither does dick size. I feel like another drawback on porn is the unrealistic sizes of penises on there. Let's look at this scientifically if bigger means better always then more men no matter the race would have bigger dicks becuase women would only flock to bigger sized men and don't get me wrong some girls do this but most women don't becuase the world average size is about 6 inches so you're fine you don't need a "monster cock", one like no woman has ever seen before (.... dexter's laboratory, beautiful show). Seriously, man rub her clit, ask what she wants more of, ask her about her kinks, keep a good rhyme and honestly, lower your voice a little works magic.
6. Ride him, it's only fair: I will attempt that sometimes when I am tired or sleepy, I am the starfish girl. However, you gotta ride him sometimes or at least if you know you can. I've had guy friends tell me that women don't do anything in bed. So, I've taken notes and tried to improve myself. On the other hand guys, sometimes you need to understand she has no idea how to do that... legit no clue, I didn't know how to do it perfectly for about a year. But personally, I feel like it's only fair you ride him or try positions where you put in the effort.
7. Lesbian porn online is more for straight people than gay people: I'm bisexual maybe a little pansexual and I've never watch lesbian porn as in a whole video, but from what I have heard from my gay friends' lesbian pron is directed in a way that it's attractive to straight men mainly, sometimes women too. It's not surprising the concept of a woman being attracted to other women does turn on some guys becuase a lot of them think threesomes or they want to watch and I have to say. Most lesbians wouldn't be cool with that, I'm not even a lesbian but I've had a guy ask to watch me do stuff with a girl when I was dating one and I have to say. Gay relationships are not made for sexualization stop it. Also, apparently, some women are the same as gay men which are again very gross.
8. The person you having sex with deserves to finish too: now unless they have a fetish for edging or something else along those lines. If you are having sex try and make the other person cum. Sex is great personally, I support the idea of a healthy sex life however if you are in a relationship with someone or even just hooking up. Try and make sure they get their kicks too.
9. I have no idea why having daddy issues correlates to people thinking you're a freak: Now, I know the whole DDLG or just the overall BDSM aspect of the concept but it creeps me out that it such a thing now that I see 14-year-old girls on the internet saying they have daddy issues. If you are interested in the DDLG thing it doesn't necessarily mean you may have daddy issues but, again I think it isn't weird that popular culture has translated that into "I'm a nymphomaniac". Daddy issues in my dad doesn't mean she's freaky but if she overly expresses that she has these issues, she's trying to look like a freak.
10. Can someone explain to me what cuckolding is? This isn't even an opinion I just see posts about it and I don't understand why it's so appealing
But those are my unpopular opinions. I hope you liked it and I hope nobody is too pissed off
What Girls & Guys Said
8 25You don't have a problem talking about it. Someone told how do you expect to do it if you can't talk about it
Nothing weird or unpopular about your opinions. Very normal and rational.
If a dude gets an erection and he can still see color, His dick isn't big enough. If a man can't do a back-flip off the ground prone, his dick isn't big enough. If a mans can't gag a Burmese Python, His dick might as well not exist.
It's just my opinion, I dont really think dick size is the end-all to be all, most of my partners have been average and I was happy with that. I just think the 10 inch dick tall is over hyped
It mostly a joke response. The real deal though is that marketing and society has told a lot of men that if you don't have the world inseminating cock of power, your not really that much of a man. It's like the psychological validation so many seek from Twitter or Facebook. As a Man, If you don't have the Thundercock, you might as well kill yourself
which say a lot about society, I think the patriarchy has helped ruin many men's self-image in that regard. It has that weird association with the concept of the "alpha male" and your a "lesser" man if you can't mage sure cum with one stroke of your lol thundercock and also sorry I didn't get the joke before it's just when guys on here say "Is my dick small" or anything about penis size and I reply "no it's fine", they flip out so I'm just automatically defensive.
Speaking for myself, I still get calls from years back, but for younger dudes, I can see the apprehension. Not sure why those guys never just go into the Biomedical field and just science all the penis anxiety away. I have suggested some questionable advice, merely because I thought it would be medically and psychologically fascinating. Although I thing Hydrogels would be the best route for shlong lengthening.
I always heard if you did that it could break, trying to length it I guess
I mean if you add length to it, it's going to break. Dick is like a crazy sponge balloon combo full of pressure, and there's dudes with snapped dicks. No one really questions the physics of having too big of a dick. There are other physical demands that having big dick will simply not adequately address.
Also as a woman I still believe that the average is 6 inches for a reason if a dick is too big it honestly sometimes just hurts, but men did evolve to 6 inches for a reason
It would be kinda funny in a Shakespearean fashion if some dude sundered his super shlong whilst in mid coitus. Also not many truly consider stamina and physicality as key components of the act.
That is true or in ancient Greece how small penis's where a symbol of wealth and status but also intelligence
To a degree, it's more true that they say big dicks as a hallmark of barbarism. Big dicks were seen more as a joke.
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I still find that hilarious but it'll now
11. Face sitting should be mandatory
Great MyTake
thank you and lol
Well said, this was something different, in a good way, loved to read it.
I do share some of your views, and thing you make good points 🤗
Awn thank you :D I try to make more positive mytakes there's way too much negative on this site at times when it comes to mytakes
4 is good
How about men finding sitting to pee to be more pleasant and enjoyable than standing.
Agree with most things except penis size. When people say that big dicks sometimes don't fit in the vagina, how often is that actually? "Sometimes" and "possibly" can mean anything from 1% to 99% of cases, let's not use vague words like that.
Most studies that day size doesn't matter are based on women who haven't even experienced a big dick, which would clearly lead to biased results. However, when the study involves women who have experienced big dicks, the results always show that more than 50% of women prefer it big, at least over 7 inches. So check if the study is biased.
And people don't have kids based on fuck size because for most of human civilization (that's ~6000 years), sex was done before marriage, and marriages were arranged based on social status, power, reputation, etc. It's only in modern times (~200 years) that marrying for love or having premarital sex has become common, and even then it's only common in the West. Which means that for most of history, and in most of the world, men's dicks weren't being inspected before they got a chance to get married and pass down their genes. So that's the real reason why big dicks are rare, it's not because the women got to sample a full buffet of dicks and pick their favourite to have babies with.
Sir you're allowed to have an opinion but I can tell you I've had sex with a man with an 8 inch dick and it was the worse sex of my life, but again shouldn't you just know size doesn't mean you'll make her cum besides if it's too big it can be extremely uncomfortable and painful. Personally, I wrote that bit for the boys, I don't really care about the size of the man and you'll find a lot of women don't usually care either unless there obsessed with it. Regardless, your opinion is your opinion
Agree with about half of this. Bdsm sounds fun but involving a third person is fucked and idgaf what anyone thinks, that’s not normal or healthy and it will always lead to issues
also i dont want to be ridden. Im a man I’ll do the fucking thank you very much. Bjs and hjs are where she can lead when it comes to her pussy tho she is dependant on me leading and that’s only natural
Great mytake.
I agree that banging randoms doesn't give you much sex experience.
You really learn more in long-term relationships where you're having sex daily and you're comfortable to experiment.
I like raceplay too.
I like that I can call black guys niggers and white men can't. It's as if only white men are responsible for racism.
It's awesome to get away with stuff.
Cuckolding is just more raceplay, but to the extreme.
It's bringing a white man in to humiliate him and he takes it because after all, he's the devil and I'm innocent as a white woman.
Your clearly a disgusting individual I don't know why black men and I'll choose people like you over black woman or why black woman will choose white men with the same mindset over black men
@MLGbreezy They want to be either degraded or feel superior to white men. I just say what they want. It's hot to me and doesn't affect me.
As a black man I enjoy it.
@JohnBlue32 That's exactly right. I wouldn't call them racist names if black men didn't want it. They also want me to make fun of white men.
It not just black men who enjoy it. White women do too. It's sad for white men, but not my problem.
If the person is okay with raceplay I just choose to accept it and mind my business personally I'm not into it
Ya are sick except nerdy
To me raceplay is bullshit. It's just away to try and get away with racism.
Great but i dont agree that guys like "vanilla" girls. It is the opposite. If you are not into bdsm , you are seen as prude and so no guy like vanilla/prude girls. That is why tend to prefere submissive guys since non submissive guys literally except you to deep troath, to get chocked, to let yourself have cum on your face, to have anal sex, to get slappedetc. which is for me is too much and abusive.