My View On Sexual Harassment Against Women And Why I Believe Most Sexual Allegations Against Men Are True.

My View On Sexual Harassment Against Women And Why I Believe Most Sexual Allegations Against Men Are True.

Introduction:

After the heaps of sexual allegations took the celebrity world by storm this year and the #MeToo movement I decided to share my thoughts on why believe women are telling the truth about sexual harassment by men and how to avoid being accused of sexual allegations by women.

You Know You Did It.

My View On Sexual Harassment Against Women And Why I Believe Most Sexual Allegations Against Men Are True.
My View On Sexual Harassment Against Women And Why I Believe Most Sexual Allegations Against Men Are True.

Being accused of sexual allegations is a serious and embarrassing thing to go through, for one you feel humiliated before your family and friends and being viewed as a sexual pervert who can't control himself, thus, having your reputation ruined.

Moreover, you can be looking at prison time if convicted of the sexual misconduct.

I understand as men God designed us with a strong sexual attraction and urge towards women, without it Cain and Abel wouldn't nor the billions of people that will follow be born.

Moreover, just because you as a man find a beautful woman to your liking doesn't mean you have a right to touch anywhere on her body nor say explicit sexual stuff to her.

Furthermore, even if the woman consents and lets you touch her in a sexual manner if she at any point says "Stop" or "Don't touch me no more" then you must stop. Period.

You see, a lot of women accuse men of sexual misconduct because at one point she was letting this man make sexual advancements towards her, but for some strange reason in the middle decided to pull the "No Mas" thus, leaving these men in a highten level of testosterone and horniness to which sometimes can cloud a man's judgment and force the woman into submission to fulfill his sexual urges.

A lot of guys wheather they admit it or not are guilty of sexual harassment one way or another.

I for one am guilty of sexual harassment while in college.

A female buddy liked me and wanted a relationship with me while I attended college, but I wasn't interested, but I did desired oral sex from her.

I caught her in the computer room in the library doing her work around 10 PM, so I went to sit to next to her and started chatting with her and I eventually turned the conversation sexual with her.

I asked her if she was interested in oral sex to which she laughed, I got the feeling if I press a little bit harder she will crack and agree since she already likes me, but she wasn't haven't it since she was a Christian and I wasn't religious at that time.

So she got up to leave and went through the stair cases and as I went with her I tried one more time to convince her to have oral sex and as I pinned her against the wall she kept refusing kinda laughing to which at one point she trying to get away kinda not hard kneed me to the groin area and kinda grazed my balls a bit to which it kinda hurt. Lol

I later said sorry to her and since she was my buddy she forgave me and we stayed cool with each other after that.

My whole point is if my friend would have gone to the police about what I did to her, her sexual allegations of me would have been 100% true.

Women don't randomly out of the blue make up sexual harassment allegations, 9 out of 10 times the man deep down knows he did something wrong towards that woman.

Sure their are 1 or 3 horrible women out of 100 sexual misconduct cases out there that make stuff up for their 15 minutes of fame or seeking law suits, but that is the exception to the rule.

Most men know they are guilty of sexual harassment towards women.

False sexual misconduct in the Bible if you're interested. Poor Joseph did 13 years in prison as a 17 year old being falsely accused of sexual misconduct.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.biblegateway.com/passage/%3fsearch=Genesis%2b39&version=NKJV&interface=amp

How To Avoid Sexual Allegations.

My View On Sexual Harassment Against Women And Why I Believe Most Sexual Allegations Against Men Are True.
My View On Sexual Harassment Against Women And Why I Believe Most Sexual Allegations Against Men Are True.

Iike I said 99% of women don't randomly make sexual allegations out of the blue.

You need to understand as a man that even if you're good looking or have money some women are not going to like you for whatever reason. Period.

Here in the USA lots of women are not like other laid back, fun women in other parts of the world, where women generally don't get nervous around men or think every man is the devil.

In the USA lots of women seem edgy, nervous and always seem to have a stone face with no emotions around men. Its like they are on drugs or hate men talking to them.

Here are a few steps to avoid sexual misconduct.

#1: Don't touch women unless you're going to shake her hand.

Some guys are the affectionate types that like to hug, or touch the shoulder area of people.

Don't do that to women unless you know she is super cool with you.

#2: If you're going to compliment a woman, don't say creepy things like "You have juicy lips".

In other parts of the world like Brazil, women might laugh with you and take the compliment with grace and humour, while here in the USA she will be calling the news station for being sexually harass. 😏

#3: Stay away from the stone face kinda woman, these women always seem bored and have a tense vibe with them, by being around them they make you feel nervous and like you're the bad guy that is waiting for his opportunity to attack women sexually.

So to avoid any kinda confrontation or some sort of problem with these women, always avoid them especially in a area where you both might be alone, because a simple look or Hi from you, she might interpet it as flirting or sexual harassment.

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  • So this was waay TL;DR. But I did skim through it and read the last paragraph, which read: "So to avoid any kinda confrontation or some sort of problem with these women, always avoid them especially in a area where you both might be alone, because a simple look or Hi from you, she might interpet it as flirting or sexual harassment.".

    Which seems a bit ironic given that you seem to be saying women do not falsely accuse men of sexual harassment.

    Look, I'll agree that most accusations of sexual harassment are not false, but I am aware of way too many that were proven to be false over the years to agree with you here. And I am also aware of several instances where a man did do or say things that could be considered inappropriate but the woman essentially invited it by encouraging his behavior before deciding for whatever reason she would try to take him down.

    It does happen, and far more often than you seem to think.

    As far as your suggestions about how to avoid being accused of sexual harassment... spare me; most of us on this site are not 8 years old.

    • Apparently many still have the mind of a 8 year old if they don't have discernment how to avoid getting into trouble.

    • Any guy 18 or older is already well aware of every point you made. So yeah, it comes off as if you're addressing a grade school class. Maybe that was your intent.

  • In general, you may be right. However, If you are referring to the recent Supreme Court nominee, I am disappointed you cannot see the obvious political hatchet job launched at the 11th hour and 59th minute.

    • I'm not referring to no nominee. I don't know what is going on there.

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  • If you only see the faux side of femininity that is flashed to men when dating, you need to see how capable of lying women are. It's actually a bit sexist to think women are incapable of being just as vindictive or dishonest as the worst you can find in a man.

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  • The thing is boys do this to women. a man would not. But its still just as wrong. Unwanted attention is just that unwanted and should be talked about. "bill " please don't touch me like that again." Bill the next day. waves at "her and moves on. Or you can just let him touch you and complain to your self or other people. If you don't speak up how will he know !! .. Don't bother with "he should know not to do that in the work place" . Just as much as a teenager having trouble at school will he tell his parents.. If your having problems vOice them like there doing today. DONT WAIT 30 years.. <3

  • Thank you

    Can't think of an appropriate Biblical quote

    • What Biblical quote?

    • Maybe one of the Beatitudes

  • I always say this, and I'll say it again. Man these days whine about how they have to think twice before approaching women now, when in fact they should have been doing it as people in the first place.

  • Maybe but having watched feminist video 10 hours in new york I'm convinced it's by mostly non-white males lol

    https://youtu.be/b1XGPvbWn0Ahttps://youtu.be/wyrpN0uIaaE
    • It was also over TEN HOURS and being as provocative as possible. Sure, it's a bit pathetic to make a fool out of yourself when you see an attractive woman, but this is so exaggerated and just another cringy thing that other women complain about.

    • @A_Bell I agree completely.

  • And use the Billy Graham rule when meeting with women (always have your wife present).

    • Stupid rule.

    • Your choice. Go alone but don't blame me if you get falsely accused. :- )

  • well, I did not agree with you and I think that only evidence are worth of believing.
    What can be say whitout proof can be rejected whitout a proof
    The only thing that can protect guys from this harassement accusations is sadly to avoid women

    • I bet you won't be singing that tune if you had a 16 year old daughter if she told you her teacher sexually touched her and tried to make her do something sexual?

    • sorry white knight, you just lost your bet here. If I gat a daughter first I'd teached her to not lie... witch cut 70% of harassement accusations. Then, The fact she's my daughter did not change facts or the charge of the proof. I listen to her BUT I be very careful with action to do.

    • Funny that you will probably assume she will be lying, but whatever..

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  • We are all human so we just shouldn't think about each other like "you re woman and I'm man" It should be like "You re human and I'm human"
    When people understand we are equal in humanity then these harrasments will be finished

  • Interesting take.

    The safest way to avoid automobile accidents is to avoid driving.
    The safest way to avoid sexual harassment accusations is to avoid the opposite sex.

    • Just avoid white women in their early 20s and you will be safe. If you really want to be safe, stick to prostitutes.

  • Good take
    ...

  • Its really sickening this day and age where a guy can touch her and rape her and get away with it. They say accusations ruin mens lives. I call bullshit. It ruins the victims life. They just wanted justice. They had to retell their trama over and over and over again. Their friends, family and work know and gossip. She gets torn apart. She already feels hopeless, weak, and fucking disgusting and. wants to rip her skin off just so she feels clean again. Her self confidence plumets and she won't wear anything slightly revealing. Now she scared , paranoid , and looking over for the rest of her life. When she sees or hears stuff that reminds her of that horrific event people don't understand that. Its with her for the rest of her life. The rapist/ assaulter just gets people gossiping about him and then they move on. If you have money you can get away with anything. You can even become President. This world is fucked up. Our justice system is fucked up!!

  • Pass the sick bucket here is a white knight out to accumulate brownie points.

  • Women have made themselves toxic in the workplace and virtually every place else. Men are going their own way. That's why we see all of these news articles about "where have all the good men gone?" They've gone to get the hell away from toxic women.

  • I have a question. If someone avoids women like you said here, how would men be able to have a relationship with a woman?

    • I clearly said to avoid specfic women or to say specfic inappropriate things.

    • I mean is avoiding doing these things. They show that the man is interested.

    • If a man can't hug a woman without being accused of sexual harassment or rape, then there is clearly something wrong.

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  • I'd say the majority true but society REALLY needs to come to grips with how much women lie their asses off. As you get older you start to seriously realize how more and more it seems like lying is almost a lifestyle for women. It's because of this that #metoo has caused such a rise in mistrust of sexual assault allegations. It's sad but it's a natural reaction on the part of men who are simply scared at this point. Women have two very dangerous traits that are leading to this - they're liars and they have a drug-like need for attention.

  • I just avoid women wherever possible. They're needy, stupid, they start fights over nothing, they cont contribute and they're lazy.

    • Sir, you can be the next Confucius with your way of expressing things. Beautifully said. Dumb ass scholars with a PhD in psychology write 500 page books on demystifying a woman's mind, but a genius like you summarizes women in 2 sentences. Brilliant, absolutely brilliant.

    • @newPython Not sure if this is facetious, but I appreciate it. Be gay if you can.

    • @drdudebro69 I guess it's true.. no good deed goes unpunished.

  • Every post I've ever seen you make, I've hated. I don't hate this one though.

  • well...
    This may be the first time that I am in agreement with most of what you say. good job.

  • "Most men know they are guilty of sexual harassment towards women." I find this statement very misleading, clarify it please.

    • You must not go to the club or out much... Dude's always be touching or saying inappropriate sexual things at women not only in the USA but around the world..