My wife and I went to the swinger club. What happened there is confusing. Do you think she disrespected our marriage?

Everything was fine, we had a lot of fun. But it was kind of annoying for me to see her do double penetration between two men. We hadn't talked about DP'ed before. I was surprised that he experienced that there. Why do you think she did this?
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  • "I went to the pool and I was surprised that I ended up getting wet."

    What did you think was going to happen? Did you not think it through at all?

    My last girlfriend, who was bi, suggested a threesome with another girl. We literally talked about it for FOUR MONTHS before I agreed to it, because I wanted to make sure we'd thought through every possibility, and understood how we would likely react.

    If you want to learn to diffuse bombs, they don't give you a live bomb on Day 1 and say "go for it" - it takes months of training and testing and practice in safe environments before you ever see live ordnance.

    in my opinion, this one is on you, bud. That doesn't invalidate your feelings, of course, but YOU need to realize that the CONSEQUENCES are YOUR responsibility, and don't blame her.

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  • because she was at a swingers club. it may have been something she always wanted to do, so going there was kind of a green light for her to go have fun.
    I'm not sure what you were thinking would happen there, you have fun, she exchanged chili recipies?
    That can become a big issue with 3 ways or going to places like that.
    1 person has fun, the other is less than thrilled because they did.
    As far as your marriage vows, just going to a place like that is pertty much disrepecting your vows no matter who did what.

Most Helpful Girls

  • This is amusing. So, you go to a place and she has more fun than you (that you weren't a part of) and now you think SHE did something wrong. You literally went to a swingers club and what, expected her to sit on the sidelines and watch? Did you have ANY conversation leading up to this trip?
    No, she didn't disrespect your marriage. If anything, this shows that you need to man up and have a conversation with her BEFORE you do something that could potentially make you feel upset.

  • I feel like if you go to a swingers club you probably need some ground rules before going in. I can see anybody being swept up in the moment and the environment.

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  • always good to go into something like that and talk about it first... your limits, what you want to get out of it, etc. then there are no hurt feelings or surprises

  • How do you go to a swingers club and not be open to most things.

  • You went to a swinger club. I'm not sure what you were expecting.

  • She needs to build up her stamina to her ultimate fantasy of a triple penetration?

  • Let me understand this. You two went to a swingers club, she enjoyed herself with a DP, and now you're upset at her? Don't you want her to enjoy herself? MMF DP at a swingers club is very common, and I'm sure your wife enjoyed it.

  • I think you just need to set better ground rules.

  • You disrespected her by offering her up as a piece of fuck meat for strange men. you're both disgusting terrible people as far as i can tell.

    Everyone knows people dont respect slut women and here you are destroying her reputation and value. Smh.

  • I think she did it because you weren't to a swingers club and it's kinda "anything goes" there. It sounds like you guys didn't have everything figured out before you jumped in.

  • because she never had the opportunity before and you agreed to the swingers' club, it sounds like she had a good time, be happy for her... if you had the chance to be with 2 women you would have Jumped on it...

  • So you stood there watching your wife get double penetrated and fucked real good by two men and you didn't go stick your cock in her mouth? Sounds like you wasted a trip to a swingers club

  • Sometimes women get carriers

  • What's wrong with you. your wife has needs and clearly you don't satisfy her needs enough so at lest be supportive to her instead of being annoyed by people doing your what you fell to archive you should be happey for her as she is between the two men having her both holes fucked well you should be there for her checking if she getting fucked well and checking on the one who was fucking her asshole if he needs lube as her hole might get a little bit dry and that will hurt her and then after they finish with her. You should resive her happly and clean her up and kiss her and tell her that she did a great job and help her to dress her up as she might be tired after all that fucking and take her and go home

  • If you didn't set any rules before going to the club she didn't disrespect your marriage.

  • Your wife needed it. You can’t satisfy her so she got what she wanted.