My wife loves sex with a extra well hung man?

My wife for the last 6 months has taken a well hung lover, sometimes I join in and some times she spends the night with him, always sending films and photos. do you think this is a problem long term? for know this seems to have really given our relationship a boost
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To be clear this is something that we had talked about for a long time, it was me that made the first suggestion. why is this such a big Taboo for most guys, by giving her the freedom to try this it has mad our relation ship closer and more intense
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Most Helpful Girls

  • After being married awhile sex becomes less frequent and less exciting which I guess is normal. My husband is eight years older than me and his libido diminished over time. While my desire for sex remained the same or I think got stronger.

    He was aware that our lack of sex lay mostly on his side and I can't remember when but it began slowly with a hint, then suggestion of me having sex with another.
    I did not take it seriously and it became good bedtime banter but over time our discussions grew.
    We covered everything and decided to give it a try.
    I am unsure why as my husband is a decent size but he insisted that they be well hung (his words - "a very big cock")

    I would be a liar if I said it wasn't good, someone new is always going to be exciting and I found a larger penis to be better and the sex was amazing.
    Fact is that because of the infrequency, it was never going to fix my sexual needs.

    However, our sex-life went crazy, my husband became possessed, rejuvenated, reborn.
    We were doing it at least as frequently as the early days of our relationship and we both couldn't be happier.
    I want to add that sex is a small part of your relationship in a time frame.
    He became more attentive, appreciative of me, compliment me and I could go on but I'll just say a wonderful husband.

    As for problems long term? I asked him and we both had the same view; If there were going to be any problems, they would have been at the start or early on.
    If you communicate really well, completely honest and open about everything then you will not have any problems.

    I hope this answer helps and that it is also of some value to others that have pondered on something similar.
    x A

    • Well answered, I was going to say if you have any problems going in, you are pretty well doomed.

  • Sounds like a healthy arrangement! ...Nothing to worry about at allllll.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It does have long term outlook applications but cuckolding as a lifestyle is something that must be taken seriously. It is not the safest nor always the most guaranteed method for maintaining passion or a healthy relationship. Your wife must be truly dedicated to you and act with your interest in mind, if it is only for her pleasure this will eventually crumble.

  • I'm sorry, I don't mean to make jokes, but there is no way in fucking hell would I ever even be slightly okay with what you describe.

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  • You must just worry about every little thing.

  • How pathetic western people can be. No value for relationship. What a joke..

  • if it works for you good

  • That's really fucked up man. You must really be a masochist and have no self respect at all. That's not normal and not okay. Do you bring him with you to family reunions? Lol

    • lmfao. "Hello this is my wife, and this is the guy my wife bangs" AWWWWWWWWWKWARD