My wife orgasm’s to soon during intercourse. What can I do?

Just wondering if anyone else has the same problem and how they managed the issue.
foreplay is fine but as soon as I enter her she’s finished in a matter of minutes leaving me frustrated as I would love it to go on longer, any advice much appreciated!
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  • Are you sure she is definitely coming, not just pretending? Because women don't have to stop after one climax, they can have many climaxes in one session normally, so either it's hurting her and she's embarrassed to say anything so gets it over with as soon as possible by pretending to come, or she is too scared of getting pregnant so wants it out as soon as possible to minimise the risks, or she is coming but she's being selfish. There isn't an option where it's your fault as far as I can see. This is on her.

    • Ohh she has a massive orgasm definitely no faking, I’m starting to think she is a little selfish just getting what she wants first, cheers for the input 👍

    • You're welcome :)

  • Women can have multiple orgasms. My wife has two or three during sex. You need to change her mind about stopping when she gets off. For my wife, her 2nd and 3rd are more intense, something she should want. Unless she’s faking orgasm, and then you have a bigger problem.

    • Ohh there’s no faking it sir, it lasts at least a min+ she’s no actress lol, her orgasm just seems so intense that she’s exhausted afterwards, just happens to soon 😐

    • Maybe then she builds you up, hand job or oral before intercourse. We have the opposite problem, it takes a lot to get my wife in “the mood”. But once she’s warmed up, she hot!

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  • Not sure. I wish i had that problem myself though. I cannot get off during sex. I only have maybe twice ever.

    • Does it put you off sex in the first place then? Or is clitoral stimulation what does it for you? She can climax either way but has more stamina with oral/ fingering etc. It’s just over way to fast when intercourse starts 😐

    • No. I still love to have sex. Maybe im weird but its exicting even if i dont get off. Clitoral stimulation is my way of getting off.. but like i have only gotten off twice from sex alone. she's lucky if she can get off either way fast. Lol. Have you talked to her about it?

    • You poor thing :(

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  • Sadly I know your pain well sir, And the best advice that I can give you Is to practice edgingAnd prolonged orgasm denial. And for her to give you lots of warm up oral To you are almost there.

    • Now, based on my experience you are never going to get what you might quantify as enough time, But it will be more. A lot of women don't have the stamina that The stereotypeClaims.

    • I’ll give that a try! We are very open with each other, I know she very rarely masturbates which I don’t think helps, then again I don’t want to encourage that too much incase it stops her needing sex as often, Jesus woman are complicated lol

    • I feel you sir. My second wife was 11 years my junior And towards the end she said I needed to find to 18 year old girls to keep up with my play. It really bruised her ego and Hurt her feelings. That broke my heart but I didn't know what else to do. I really enjoy long-play.

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  • Is that a problem though? I mean women can have multiple orgasms and prefer it.

    You could try lubing up more to reduce friction and sensativity. Or bigger sex toys so that you are smaller by comparison and apply less pressure / sensation.

    • Ohh we have dildos a few larger than me but hurt for days after and have put her off though, into it at the time but sore after. Don’t get me wrong I’m still getting sex 4-5 days a week but it’s just to fast for me, I could literally fuck another woman with the energy I have left when she’s finished and wants no more, could be worse I know but she needs to make it better, I just don’t know how!

  • Have you tried leading off with sex instead of foreplay? Is she able to keep going?

    • I have, if it was just a case of open your legs I’d say she would be done in about a minute, that’s me thrusting slowly (sorry tmi lol) if I was to go at a descent pace it would be over in 20 seconds 😔

    • Lol your good. Have you tried anal? Maybe she'll last longer and you'll be able to go longer for yourself and her. Is she unhappy she doesn't last longer?

    • She’s a bit selfish in the fact she just wants to cum lol, yeah we do anal occasionally probably only every few months when we get away without the kids for a night as it makes her quite noisy but she does last longer but it leaves her a little sore for a few days, I’d be a bit above average down there and wouldn’t want to push for that too often

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  • you could continue... women are not like men and find it a lot easier to cum multiple times

    • Some women can't I know my girl don't like to as she starts to get sore and it become painful even if we are lubricated up

    • @boggboss dont know then not experienced that issue before

    • @boggboss we’re the same, her orgasm is normally so strong that she can barely be touched afterwards 😢

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  • Me and my girl are slightly the same drink makes us last much longer apart from that don't focus on for play with her as much

  • Enter late. Finish fast.

  • Why can't she keep going? I do.

    • I don’t know, her orgasms are intense to be fair, can last a minute or so with her whole body twitching/convulsing, she seems exhausted after it. I’m a bit above average down there and she has said what do you expect on a few occasions when I’ve said why did you cum so soon, sure she should have the ability to hold off a little? No?

    • I think she could let you know when she's about to.. so you can slow down for a minute maybe so she can avoid getting off so soon.

    • @Lilmomma09 please just make me cum, she can get annoyed when I don’t do what I’m told lol

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  • What does it matter? She can do it multiple times, right? She's female. Just let her.

    • No unfortunately she’s a one shot pony, far to sensitive after orgasm for touching of any kind!

    • Switch to oral or anal afterward?

    • Her desire is completely gone after it, she does have a massive orgasm though more so than any other woman I have been with, can last like about a minute convulsing. She simply can’t take much after that or I feel like I’m raping her and that’s a massive turn off for me, gonna have to just try and slow things down a bit I think 🤔

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  • Is that a bad thing? You do know women can have multiple right unlike us men. Plus usually women fail to orgasm before us men and thats when sexual relationships break because women need to feel pleasure first to feel satisfied.

    • Unfortunately she’s ultra sensitive after orgasm, I mean she cannot cope with touching of sensitive areas after orgasm, I’ve been with another girl in the past who was the same, frustrating 😔

  • Get her to suck you off to finish

  • Keep on going and make her cum as much as possible. That is what fucking is all about!