My wife and I sleep in separate rooms. I asked her for sex and she rejected me and said until we sleep in the same bed. Now she keeps mentioning divorce a lot. I told her it's only the kids that matter not her or I she says it's my fault because I emotionally neglected her. Why are woman so difficult?
That's an emotional distance you have there, and you'll have to resolve that.
My last nesting partner and I didn't mind sleeping in different rooms from time-to-time. If she got up late at night to eat something she might just go back to sleep elsewhere, so it wasn't like it was going to bother me. We had discussions if I came home late from a business trip if she prefer I sleep elsewhere to not wake her up because she suffered from insomnia. Basically you should talk about the reasoning, do you have logical reasons to not sleep together all the time, not getting enough sleep, etc.
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I’m only able to provide my viewpoint here. Often times my husband will sleep in the guestroom because one of us is getting up earlier for whatever reason. It has no impact on our sex life at all. It seems that you need to address whatever issues you may have outside the bedroom first.
You need to decide if you want to stay together for each other, because that’s how most relationships start. If you are only staying together for the sake of providing an example for your kids, think of the example you may be setting. I’m not ridiculing either of you, I’m just trying to provide a starting point for fixing the problem if you both would like to mend your relationship.
0 1 0 0She so clingy and wants attention. Later she tells me If I am so miserable in this marriage we need divorce. I don't want a divorce.
If the only reason you are staying with her is for your kids, then sex doesn't matter either and you should stop asking for it.
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You guys have to get to counseling. Women are emotional before physical and that’s the way it is. Sleeping in separate beds is perceived as punishment AND she should not have to live this way. I’m not surprised thst she wants a divorce. How can you expect sex when perceived you as an Abuser ⁉️
The only people that I know that sleep in separate bedrooms are ones where affairs have occurred. How did you end up in separate beds to begin with ⁉️0 0 0 0
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2 6Why can’t you sleep in the same bed?
0 1 0 0You guys are gonna have to work out your differences
0 0 0 0you dog shit she should matter as well
1 0 0 0You don't sleep in the same room. It's not a surprise that she feels emotionally neglected. Also saying that only the kids matter isn't full of love for her.
0 0 0 0Why do you sleep in separate rooms? Which one of you has sleep apnea?
0 0 0 0So, the only time you want to be with her is to have sex WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT PICTURE or are you so dumb you can't figure that out
0 0 0 0i don't sometimes things just don't work out , guess you have to decide if there is a credible pathway to solve this one
0 0 0 0And you can't see that YOU are the problem here?
0 0 0 0Why? How? She so clingy.
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