My wife wants a threesome but I don't think I would feel comfortable with it?

My wife has told me she's always wanted a threesome but I don't feel comfortable sharing her with others an I being silly?
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  • I don’t think you’re being silly. You are well within your rights to not want to share her with others. It’s instinct.

  • They are not as good as people expect, better off just the two of you

  • Yeah a little. But not everyone enjoys it I guess and both need to be into it.

  • U chose a slut for a wife

  • No, but most guys like the idea, especially if it's with another girl.

  • If its a woman... then props. If its a dude... haha your relationship is already over but have some self respect and say hell no.

  • Only feel uncomfortable if she already has someone in mind.

  • If you dont want to do it then just say no

  • No I wouldn't think so. I would feel the same way. I'm kind of skeptical. But if you love each other with a healthy open communication than it wouldn't hurt the relationship to try it.

    • May I ask how old you were when you got together?

  • If you don't feel comfortable with it, then do not do it.

    Trust me, it won't work out well for your relationship.

  • You are NORMAL. No sensible man wants to share his wife. It can only go downhill from there, Especially if its another guy.

  • Then tell her that. If she loves you, she'll understand

  • You are being silly in my opinion, I would jump at the chance!

    • Of having your woman pounded by another guy at the same time you do it?

    • @RemoErdosain Either him going first or both of us at the same time, id rather he go first

  • Well it look like maybe if it a man or woman

  • How she is told you that first time?

    • What?

    • How she is tell you idea?

    • I asked her what her biggest fantasy was and she said multiple men meaning as many as she could get but then said she would settle for a threesome at minimum

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  • you both need to open to it

  • If you don't feel comfortabele with it you shouldn't do it.

  • Just tell her how you feel and if she doesn’t accept it then she needs to have some respect for your wishes.

  • What you have to loose? Four holes forward and backward, four hills to climb if you can't you will be the looser if you can you will be the survivor with golden ink written in your trophy of achiever.

    • She wants another man

  • No you aren't being silly. It isn't in your comfort zone. In some cases it can implode a marriage. If it is something she pushes for it could start causing issues within your marriage.

    • I see that you think she will leave if you don't. Then let her leave. You signed up to be married to her without a third party involved. It would have been different if you agreed to bring in people outside of the marriage before the marriage but you didn't. Once you start this thing it could continue for the rest of your life. Do you see yourself have other people in your marriage for the next possibly 50 years and if you have kids do you want that going on. If not don't start it.

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