Tell her how you truly feel and that it’s a huge turn off to you that she wants another man to stick his dick in her and that it’s a turn off to you knowing you aren’t all she wants and that it will damage your relationship with her , Tell her how would she feel if you asked to have 2 vaginas at the same time , hers and someone else’s and will she be ok watching Your dick go into another Girl? if she says she will be fine with it , then tell her She is not the girl for you , that you didn’t get married to screw other people and that this is something she should of addressed in the beginning of your relationship , When people change or request things after they said their vows or committed to someone , they are selfish people and only really thinking of themselves and wearing their own shoes , not honoring their wedding vows , if she truly loves you , she will understand and wear your shoes and let it go, if she doesn’t let it go , then you have a right to walk away from that marriage and file a divorce and move on and fine someone that doesn’t need another dick in them and knows what the true meaning of marriage is , We can’t force someone to love and honor us but we can show someone how we want to be loved and honored in return , if they choose to walk away , let them go and value yourself worth and realize you deserve someone that wants to stand by you and love you and honor you like you stand by them and love and honor them. it won’t always be perfect but If getting another dick in her is worth losing her marriage over then tell her Good luck with that , and that you don’t want to be with someone like her, I know it’s hard to lose someone we Give our heart to , that we love and cherish but if someone is not loving and cherishing you the same way you love and cherish them. , you are only hurting yourself , why it’s best to stand your ground and value your self worth , Not every girl out there is a slut or whore , most of them are but not all of them. Most girls have the grass is greener on the other side syndrome in them and have selfish personalities that think they are Missing out on something over what’s right in front of them , those type of girls you have to let them go cuz they don’t know what the true meaning of love and marriage is , they only do what’s best for them , little do they know their time will come , when they kick themselves in the ass and realize they ruined probably the best thing they ever had and they are the same girls that will try to come back to you after they been shit on by other guys that just wanted them for sex , your job is not to let them come back to you by you not accepting her back is teaching her that she can no longer be a slut or whore and that you deserve better than that. I accepted 1 ex back into my life thinking things would be better to realize my feelings for her will never be the same , I ducked her and then kicked her to the curb and realized I deserve better than that , from that day forward I have never taken an ex back and I never will. So hang in their my man, I know the pain you are going through but listen to my words , value your self worth and stand your ground
Well... i really understand your concern... I was kinda excited, kinda weirded out, but more nervous before giving this a try. Had a threesome with my fiancée and my best friend for the first time last year. Dp was as amazing for me as it was for her. When we agreed to a threesome, She wanted to give DP a try and I’m typically up for adventurous stuff so I went with it.
The crazy sex made us closer and more open with each other, so my fear of it causing relationship harm was Luckily me just overthinking. Anyways my advice is only do it if you are all into it. If u have doubts you won’t enjoy it
If she was asking to date or have sex with other guys, then I think you should worry that she doesn't love you or wants to replace you. But this particular kinky sex act requires two guys, so you're certainly not being replaced.
I've heard that many guys wouldn't do this because of the fear of incidental touching of the other guy. If that's you, then this won't work.
I listened to a podcast I thought was kind of funny. When the husband invites another guy, he insists that the other guy always remain on opposite ends of his wife. I guess it made me laugh because I was picturing a Plexiglas barrier down the middle of her.
Anyway, it's whatever floats your goat.
If it's not something you're into, don't do it... And that's something she should of been upfront with before marriage... Sometimes, there's no going back... As far as threesomes go, I think it's something best to do when you're single. a lot of relationships don't survive after. Some might, but a lot don't...
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!All I can say is that if you are not into threesomes don't do it. I am dead serious. The honest fact is that your wife is asking you if its okay for her to be with another man... or that she wants another man's dick in side her. You really have to consider how that really makes feel.
For me having junk that close to another guys junk creeps me out. I never do a threesome with someone I was emotionally attached to. Because honestly you never look at them in same way.
Too bad you didn't have two dicks like Vulcans do.
Make sure his dick is smaller than you
Be honest. Be kind.
It would make her a slut, don't agree to that shit.
If you're not comfortable with it then don't do it
It's not just about what your wife wants, you don't have to participate in what makes you uncomfortable
Talk about it. Be honoured that she feels safe to be open about her sexuality.
How seriously does she want to try it? Is it something you could role play with a blindfold and toys? Or is it a really burning desire? How does she envisage it? Does she want to find a guy, or is it something you'd do together? If you did agree but cold feet at the last minute, even once you're all naked, would she respect your wishes? Does she fantasise about being in a dominant or submissive role?
How secure does she make you feel about her love & respect for, and commitment to you? Is it a one off, or is she opening the door for further sex with others?
Have you ever fantasised about sex with others? Or been turned on by this kind of porn? Do you understand why it turns her on? Can you share in the fantasy by talking together? Or are you fundamentally opposed?
I've had lots of threesomes with other couples where I had no emotional attachment. I think couples find it easier to separate love from sex with someone they've met for the sole purpose of sex. In all of those threesomes I gradually got more comfortable being near another naked, aroused man. After a while it seemed fine when a woman put both our dicks in her mouth at the same time. I rationalised it by thinking I would brush arms or legs with other men playing sport and this was no different, but a lot of straight men don't like even the thought of another dick. If you have no experience of this, I don't know if launching into DP is going to work. Your dicks will pop out and whack each other, your balls will be slapping together!
I only once had a threesome with a woman I loved. We'd talked about it a bit over months. I was turned on by the thought but turned off by my feelings. In the opportunity presented itself in a way that felt ok. It was very exciting sex but I didn't want to do it again.
Good luck
If your relationship is strong then it is worth a discussion and be honest with her about your feelings. For her this is just something she wants to try, its not about you, it's about her. She doesn't love you any less its like any other kink that either of you might suggest, its just this one involves another person.
"Does it mean she doesn't love me" No, it doesn't. What harm could it do? That depends on whether you let it. If you aren't comfortable just say so.
You are really considering letting another man have full blown intercourse with your wife... with you right there watching... with some other guy right there?
Are you insane?
Set her damn straight or just divorce her... she sounds awful.
You are the husband.
You are the ONE and ONLY MAN for her... EVER. If that is not doable then she should have never married.
Do not be a cuck. Be a damn man.
Dude … If this MUST happen, may I suggest to YOU: For Your own sanity, hire a stranger!! Do Not Do The Friend Thing!!! I guarantee to you, you will resent that friend and regret the entire event!! A stranger, you “Pay, To Go Away” and “Pay To Forget”!!! I speak from experience my friend
Why is this question coming out, after few posts about DP...
They like to paraphrase each other's questions. Or maybe it's a form of "ditto"? I jsut figure they are trying to reach the "Double penetration" question quota for the week. After that if you ask it again you get a double penetration from two elephants.
@Daniela1982 :D :D :D
You should do it
Says the girl with a photocopied profile pic
I personally will not share. My wife got me to do a lot kinky stuff the last 40 years, but, no strange men in my bed no matter what.
Well at least she’s telling you her fantasy and I would at least try it or let her try it then if you maybe want two girls at once she might let you have that to but you might really both enjoy the mmf I did it with my wife and I found out it made me really horny and get off so much harder than ever and she enjoyed it to a lot that don’t mean she doesn’t love you but you must have some thoughts that’s why you used your cock and a dildo on her
Buy a strap-on.
Grow a second dick.
I've done DP before, it's great. If anything they'll like you more because you are helping them fulfill a need that is not possible with two people. Can always talk it out, mutually select someone together. This could be an avenue to see if exploring more sexually is a possibility like more partners, or 3somes, like that could be MFM and maybe could get an FFM too.
Okay. Calm down. It doesn't mean that she doesn't love or that you are inadequate in bed or any of that. It means that she has a fantasy. After all two men with four hand and two mouths and two cocks can do much more than any single man can do by himself.
I have been the third wheel in this many times. Usually the husband is just a regular guy with an irregular passion for seeing his wife get pleasure and the wife is a regular woman with a very loving husband.
Having said all of that, it's not for everyone and it doesn't mean you love her any less if you can't do it.
It's really about your marriage and what works for you. I would suggest you at least think about it and discuss it with her and go from there.
Go for it.
Ask her if she's cool with you having a threesome with another woman or with you fucking another woman, because she's going to be fucking another man. She better be cool with it, it's only fair.
If I was married I sure as hell wouldn't want to share my wife with another guy, or rub ball sacks with him while dp'ing my wife. The only difference is she gets the mental thrill of knowing she's fucking 2 guys, but it's not going to feel much different to her pussy or ass than you and the dildo.
Call me a traditionalist, but to me the whole point of getting married is to not fuck other people.
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