Myths about female sexuality which people need to stop believing

[Logan27]

I'm sure a lot of women could speak for themselves but I'm bored and in the mood to write something. Women are rarely understood due to how complicated they are. Their sexuality is also regularly misunderstood. As a man that's been with a lot of different girls I would like to just share a few things I picked up. Many guys fail to understand a few things and this causes problems.This isn't to say that women don't understand men because they don't. Many girls label guys as animals that would fuck anything and this simply isn't true.

"Girls need feelings with a guy to have sex"

A lot of guys think this for some reason and to be honest this is the far from the truth. Yes, some women put a lot of morals into sex and in those cases they may not hookup but the vast majority of girls are very open to casual sex and regularly do it. Feelings have nothing to do with it. If a girl has feelings for a guy the sex will be out of this world but that does not mean they really love casual sex as well. In fact most girls prefer casual sex to dating when their at college and other wild, party venues. In short, girls don't need feelings at all, though they do prefer sex in relationships.

"Girls don't want sex as much as guys"

This is complete nonsense. Girls crave sex a lot. Actually I think they crave it more than guys. Guys sexuality is somewhat flat, guys always want sex really. However for women, they go from not wanting sex at all, to craving it a lot. It's not flat but over all I think women crave sex more. In relationships guys are usually the more sexual ones but when it comes to casual hookups and one night stands, women seem to be a lot more sexual. Women actually go out with the intention of going home with a guy, hence why they shave down there and bring condoms/morning after pill with them. Most women have more casual sex than most men. A few men get a lot of casual sex. Most men do not. And while most women do not get as much as the top percentage of men, they still get a lot more than most guys. For example, in a college semester, a normal guy might have one or two hookups if he's lucky. A hot frat guy or athlete will have several at the minimum, maybe 10ish. Most girls would have around 5 or 6 in a semester. In short, girls love sex just as much, if not more than guys.

"Girls prefer other things to sex"

This is somewhat true. In a relationship, girls would prefer to cuddle and spend time together rather than just have sex and then go. This doesn't mean they don't like sex. However this changes when women are single. On nights out many girls will only want sex from guys they meet. So it's a correct and incorrect statement.

"Women care more about personality"

I still don't get why many people still think this. It's false. Guys that are tall, confident and have a good body get a lot more girls than shier, smaller guys, When it comes to looks, women are just as shallow if not more shallow than guys. Guys with small dicks can never hold a relationship because the woman feels she's missing out. If you're an unattractive man, be prepared for a life of rejection and cheating, your personality doesn't matter to most women. I think if guys understood that there would be a lot less heartbreak. When it comes to shallowness, men and women are equal.

Men and women are always stereotyped and I don't agree with it. There's a notion out there that women want love and men want sex. This is so wrong. Many, many men want long term relationships but can't get them because....many many women just want sex. Most young women want nothing more than sex and while guys do want sex, who's to say they don't want love as well as sex? Women are evading family and relationships more and more. Women not dating because they want to focus on career, women not having families so they can stay at work. While this is due to how common birth control is, condoms...abortion...etc. It still shows us that women never did want family but they ended up mothers and wives against their own will. The behavior of women in modern society is more accurate to how women really are. It's time to stop believing lies and accept people the way they are meant to be. If that means the end to traditional dating, marriage and family so be it. Women don't want those things so they should stop feeling pressured into those things by social beliefs (which are false). Thanks for reading.