Need some opinions?

[Anonymous]

How do I get my husband to want more sex we only have it 1-2 times a week and it’s very annoying. He will get me going every day and then say no we’re not having it. At this point I need it 😂

[RoseySarah]

So understand!

My husband does the same thing especially in early morning!

Just gets me so excited then says we need sleep... drives me crazy! Sometimes I think the snuggling is what he needed not sex.

How does he get you excited?

If you both have time and are able to don't listen to him often my hubby loves me just getting what I need.

After teasing him if he gets me going I won't stop. Makes him stop his teasing helping me go less crazy! Needing it.

[Asker]

We have the time but he doesn’t want to. He will play with me get me going so bad to the point where I could just jump on him and go at it. Then tell me he’s too tierd. We cuddle all the time and don’t get me wrong I like that. But we used to do it every day until I got pregnant and now I have to beg him for it. I’ve used my toy so much the past year abd a half that I’m numb to the sense of it.

[RoseySarah]

I'm so sorry! Time for a new toy! My sucker penguin is amazing and won't leave me numb after like a vibrator. This sounds so much worse! Like why stop? I'd say don't start and glad there are still snuggles! Has the baby changed his mind? Some guys don't want sex cause it might hurt the baby! New job? Jump him! My time comes and I'm way more needy then I can't and I just give in. He is your husband so jump him he started it 😉 Least grind on him if he can't help. Make him give you a knee to enjoy.

[Asker]

The baby is now almost a year old I’ve been dealing with this since we found out about her and she was born last September. He got a new job like 4 months ago now. That he’s now working with him 3 best friends so I know it ain’t the job. He loves it and the boss loves him.

[Asker]

I’ve gone on him and he’ll push me off and get mad. And I know he ain’t getting it anywhere else. That man is at work and then straight home. He has a gaming problem 😂 and can’t wait to go off work to come home and game with his buddies.

[RoseySarah]

O no then he is just enjoying torturing you! Here is a big hug! 🤗 No excite talk with him and tell him that if he starts anything you will finish it! Maybe try a time that you don't normally do it? When is he teasing you? Do either of you do surprise time? When she is locked in her room with frozen on? Do sexy clothes work? So feel your pain 😔

[RoseySarah]

Gaming issue! Those can be so hard. My friend her man had one and she would do everything but he just stayed on. He even took her while gaming! How long has it gone on for? What game has him so ignoring you! Men are idiots with games! Any way you can join him? Hehe break his headphones on accident?

[Asker]

I’m guessing he does but it’s making me resentful. I have and he says no. He teases all day every day. I try too but he doesn’t want to. He doesn’t let me touch him especially after he says no Sexy clothes don’t look good on me I’m very flat so they look very bad on me. I do everything for him and the 2 kids while I sits on his butt. He’s gamed the whole relationship which wasn’t a problem till the kids came into the picture he plays gta He gets mad at me when I play bc I’m not very good

[RoseySarah]

Ouch I'm so sorry I'd be so mad at him and resentful of course your missing it! I'd unlesh the kids on him all the time! Like your home you take care of them! Break time but he won't. Does he say you make them look bad? So awful 😔 yuck GTA What are you thinking of this goes on? Course your want is high especially teased!

[RoseySarah]

Make the internet go down randomly when ever he plays just say it has been messing up... get it fixed and still make it go on and off! Don't let him fully enjoy his game! Don't let him get a new Xbox either! To expensive...

[Asker]

You have an evil mind and I love it!!❤️😂

[RoseySarah]

Thanks give me a follow and you can see more of my evil mind! 💜

[BoopBoopBeep]

Are you back in the shape you were in before the baby?

[RoseySarah]

@BoopBoopBeep @BoopBoopBeep rude add that to your own comment!

[Asker]

@boopboopbeep actually yes I weight less then I did before the baby

[BoopBoopBeep]

Has HE had any significant health changes in this time period?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@roseysarah nothing rude about it snowflake she asked a question i'm trying to determine what the root of the problem may be. if, like many American women, she got pregnant, but on 80lbs and her husband lost interest, we could get to the bottom of the issue real fast. she didn't want an echo chamber or useless "everything is great" comments or she wouldn't ask a question on a forum with men here.

[Asker]

@boopboopbeep he’s had the same back pain for years but that’s all. He’s an extremely healthy guy that’s why him and I got together we both liked the healthy life style.

[RoseySarah]

Thanks for mho

[Apple1996]

I was in this same situation a few years ago. My best advice is to ignore him and don't ask for sex. He will start wanting it more just cause you aren't acting as needy. I don't know why but that type of reverse psychology works on men

[Asker]

won't he just go cheat if I stop. And how do I ignore him if he does my turn ons I can’t help if i get horny 😩

[Apple1996]

If a guy cheats just cause you stop having sex for a bit is a really bad sign. And just go masturbate instead if he makes you horny

[Apple1996]

You only need to hold back a little bit and he will realize something is up

[Asker]

I’m numb to my toys. I have to uses them 4-5 times to even get off properly now it sucks. So I just continue to be horny non stop

[Apple1996]

He needs to step up but maybe just fake it with the toys and play in front of him to make him jealous

[Mystery1900]

I would be happy to get it even once a week, it's so frustrating.

[Asker]

Im not he gets me horny and leaves me till the weekend 😩

[Mystery1900]

I feel for you

[Gent207-2]

I'm in the opposite situation

I have no cure

[Asker]

I’m so sorry! This shit is frustrating

[Gent207-2]

Yes incredibly What excuse does he give for not having it?

[Asker]

Too tierd

[Gent207-2]

Reading your comments Sounds like we are very much the same Wife just gave birth to baby #2 Saturday before last. So I'm not expecting any action for at least6-12 weeks. But even long before the kids we were struggling and honestly I've ran out of ideas

[Asker]

We were good before the 2nd baby but I got pregnant the second time and all of a sudden he wasn’t even my husband but didn’t wnat to leave. And it’s gotten better. It was once a month when I was pregnant so 1-2 times a week is better but not what I want. When he’s getting me going and I’m numb to my toys. I’m completely lost just like you. I was asking him to do it 3 days after giving birth bc I was so sex deprived

[Gent207-2]

Wow that's crazy But I feel you We should talk more in messages

[Katie1964]

That's not my problem, Hubby (almost 60) wants some form of "relief" most days of the week.

[Asker]

I wish

[Billlewis]

Make him jealous.

[Asker]

Nothing works on him. 😂

[Skull_Anon]

Sex drive mismatch is annoying I guess

[Asker]

We used to have it every day till I got pregnant and now I have to beg to get it.

[Skull_Anon]

I am sorry about that.. I think it's good to have a sit down and talk session and reach a conclusion and decide the apt frequency of sessions weekly which would be suitable for both of your sex drives

[Asker]

He agreeed on 1-2 times. I asked for 3-4 he won’t do it it’s 2 max or non 😩

[Skull_Anon]

WHY though? Any valid reason of is he just lazy lol

[Asker]

He’s too tierd but he sleeps from 9pm-7am works 8am-4pm then games till 9pm.

[Gent207-2]

None of that makes any sense

[Skull_Anon]

@Gent207-2 Well, take lessons

[Skull_Anon]

@Gent207-2 Oh I am so sorry, I thought you were being mean to me

[Asker]

What doesn’t make sense he only wants it 1-2 time. That’s all he wants a week. He’s too tierd to do any more. Yet he barely does anything 🤦🏼‍♀️

[Skull_Anon]

Tired seems like a bad excuse ngl... Who would prefer gaming over this lol

[Asker]

That’s what I’m saying lol. I take care of both kids 24/7 the one is teething so I’m up 4 hours for sure at night every night. Getting about 3 hours of sleep. Does everything for him laundry dishes cooking any snacks he wants. And then all that for the kids and I’m exhausted but I still want sex 😂

[Gent207-2]

You are amazing A extra rare gem

[Asker]

Many people have told him that. And he says he knows. But won’t help keep the relationship okay

[shades777]

no opinions to give

[Jmmmfi4]

MAKE YOUR HAIR BLONDE

[Asker]

It is 😂

[Asker]

Natural dumb blonde here

[Gent207-2]

My God 😲 I got so many questions

[Asker]

@gent207-2 ask away

[Gent207-2]

I tried messaging you

[Anonymous]

Make him cuckold