Nerdy Girls, I've learned enough about my body to basically choose my weight and easily maintain it, so, what weight should I pick?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Some women say they like buff, others like "dad bods", others like thin, and others like a pillow in person form, So what's your preference?

I'm trying to see whats more likely to get extra female attention to maximize the odds of finding someone I like, and I know everyone's preferences are different, but this is one thing I'm not picky about, so I might go with majority opinion on it.

That said, I'm only looking for answers from geeks/nerds/gamers/otakus, because I want to know what that sort of brain likes in guys.

[wheresmrcunnunglis]

As a fit nerd, geek, and gamer, I would say a healthy body, as shown below, would instantly garner a lot of attention. More so, if one is out and about walking wearing a good quality short-sleeve crew-neck shirt that fits just right. Seeing their biceps and broad shoulders would make me do an instant double-take. 🤣

Two pieces of advice, while you go on your fitness journey, is to not skimp out on working your glutes or legs. As well as not fall into the trap of comparing your body to those super fit bodies you see on IG or online too much. Since the way they lie with how they overly 'flex their bodies are intense. Like, no one's abs show blatantly so unless they're flexing it all the time or have a very low level of body fat which is unhealthy. The way people exaggerate their fit bodies

[WonderBell99]

I’ve been called a ‘nerd’ plenty of times. I believe I’m eligible to answer this question.

Im not a fan of stocky guys or guys with huge muscles. I’d like a guy who is fit, hugs the gym regularly and takes care of his health. That being said, it doesn’t matter even if he’s skinny, but not underweight. I wouldn’t date an obese guy though. I don’t find obesity attractive.

Eh, dad bods can be a cool, but it depends on whether the said guy can pull it off.

I first notice a guy’s facial structure, eyes and smile. Body comes second.

[TheSpaceGnome]

As far as facial structure goes, I have what most people refer to as a baby face, in that my features stayed largely the same my whole life, and most people mistake me for a teen, so the one I doubt I could completely pull off is ripped, but thin and fit is easy. Also, after reading that, I just imagined some guy going up to a gym building and hugging it and yelling LOVE MEEEEEEE in an unusually deep voice, and then the police come take him away for being a weirdo even though it was funny.

[WonderBell99]

Ah fuck, I apologize for the typo. It’s “hits the gym regularly” lmao. But seriously though, it’d kinda funny and weird ngl 😂 I’m not a fan of ripped guys, but that’s just me. Skinny and fit guys are cute. I’m into ‘cute’ guys than ‘hot’ ones tbh. The hot ones are the guys who spend most of their time in the gym and have huge muscles and stuff, that’s scary as hell

[WonderBell99]

By “hot” I meant, that’s the beauty standard these days, right? I’m not a fan of it.. and those guys look intimidating. I’d run the other way, lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

Skinny, fit, and cute is the easiest to pull off for me.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Also never apologize for typos in a world where urban dictionary exists xD

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm actually hoping the opinion you made is the standard for female nerds.

[WonderBell99]

By skinny, I meant healthy skinny, not underweight though. And that’s really great.. be comfortable in your own skin, and take care of your health. Besides that, almost all girls love confidence. Confidence and charisma are two very attractive traits

[WonderBell99]

Lmfao the dictionary with crazy slang words 🤣. It has anything but the real definition of a said word lol. And I apologise a lot, lol. Old habits die hard

[TheSpaceGnome]

I am, but it's more an issue of wanting better odds so that at least one of the women who likes me, I like back. So I'm trying to increase the number of traits that attract nerds without changing myself as a person.

[WonderBell99]

that’s good.. I’m glad you’re not trying to change yourself as a person, a wise move.

Well.. take this guy:

https://pin.it/2sTlqKQ

He doesn’t seem to be ripped, but he’s attractive and seems to be in shape. Would I date him if I liked his personality too? Absolutely.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can't say that name without phlegm, so I'm calling him phlegm broschshsegc. Wait... is that how the nickname "broskii" is spelled?

[WonderBell99]

I think it's ‘broksi’ lol. And phlegm? Why phlegm? You did him dirty 💀😂

[TheSpaceGnome]

xD my bad

[WonderBell99]

It was funny lmao.. but I don’t think I can look at that guy the same way again 😂

[TheSpaceGnome]

And with that, she could never say broski without phlegm ever again. My work fulfilled, i slowly walk back into the sea, back to my natural habitat, back to the abyss.