Nervous about anal?

I plan to have anal sex for the first time Monday. I've been practicing with a dildo I got a few weeks ago and it's been fine. I ordered special lube just for anal. But I'm kinda worried about the mess... if you guys know what I mean... I mean it's a butt. I'm clean and I wipe myself off well. But a few times I've used the toy with a condom on it a little poop was on it... and it's embarrassing. What can I do to ensure this doesn't happen as he won't be wearing a condom... he wants to finally cum inside me... but I'm nervous about it maybe being messy...

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  • If you're really nervous about it then I would suggest using an enema a couple of hours beforehand. Doing it that early will allow plenty of time to let any residual liquid make it's way out. The enema will give you peace of mind that things will be clean for him. Don't use any kind of commercial enema. Just water is best. I have a douche "bulb" I used to use and it worked fine.

    Having said that, I stopped doing enemas before anal a long time ago, for a couple of reasons. First, they are a hassle, can be messy, and I just find them uncomfortable.

    And second, I found they aren't really necessary. Unless you feel the need to poop, your rectum will be empty. Any poop will be up in your sigmoid colon or higher. If I'm feeling healthy and don't feel the need to use the toilet, I know I'm good to go.

    Listen to your body. We always do anal in the evening or at night because I know my body's schedule and that is the time when I'm most likely to be clear. We have done anal countless times and poop has rarely been an issue. On the rare occasions when it does happen, it has always been minor and my fiancé is always great about it. He just laughs it off (and wipes it off) and gets back to having fun.

    If a guy ever makes you feel bad because he encounters a little poop during anal, he's an asshole who doesn't deserve to do it with you again.

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  • There should not be any fecal material close to your anal sphincter until you are ready to begin the process of elimination. That movement into he lower bowel is what triggers the sensation that you need to use the restroom. Many people will eliminate shortly after rising in the morning. So they have some fecal material waiting when they awaken, but after elimination, the lower tract will be empty until the next morning. If your habits are regular, you simply need to be aware and take advantage of the timing.

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  • Enema can clean you out, but honestly any guy who wants to do anal should be ok with a little poo, like, I'm well aware of what comes out of there.

  • Does it feel good

    • Haven't tried yet. Did you even read the question

  • Do an enema, wear something sexy, use lots of lube and TAKE YOUR TIME.

  • good luck! so who u trying it with?

    • My boyfriend

    • does he have a thick dick

    • Yes.

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  • Have an enemy before doing it or shit shortly before doing it.

    • "Have an enemy!" :) :) :)

    • I got an enime to use that morning... I'm just a lottle embarrassed I guess. I don't want anything to get on him and he thinks it's gross...

    • @OlderAndWiser hey older

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  • if he got nervous from a little of poop u dont let him do it again cuz it doesn't give you pleasure, its like he is using u to ejaculate

  • Having a condom is a good idea. Special lube great. Some mess ok. Douche.

  • Are you curious about it or what?

    • Worried

    • Don't do it then, if you are not feeling comfortable about it...

  • If ur practicing with a dildo then getting ur ass fucked shouldn't be a problem. Get that ass pounded

  • Word of advice; Only allow him enter you anally once an hour or two after you empty yourself. If your boyfriend knows you long enough must know this.

  • Get an anal douche and clean that shit well in the shower. Don’t eat for a day if you can

    • I actually ordered one and plan to use it Monday morning