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Nervous about receiving oral?

My boyfriend wants to give me oral. We've already had sex and I've giving him oral, and he seems to really want to give me some. But the thing is, I'm nervous about receiving! I'm clean and well groomed, but I'm just afraid that he won't like how I taste or smell. Also, I'm not even sure guys like oral sex. So questions: why does he want to give me oral so badly (it's not to get some back because I'm giving it to him), do guys like giving, and what can I do to be comfortable enough to let him?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • First of all, men love our pussies. Being down there and to have a full view is apparently awesome in and of itself. I don't know why, but I guess since they don't have their own to play with, the only chance they get is whenever we let them. ;) Secondly, men believe that we love it so much and want to be heroes and give us outrageous pleasure. Think of how you might feel, pleasing your man and experiencing how wild he gets with what you do to him. Men want to do that for us too. So I think a combination of having it in front of their face to play with and getting us all aroused is what HE wants.

    Some men really don't like it because they've had bad experiences with women who didn't take care of themselves, or they have a preference of shaved or unshaved. Other men are afraid because of a bad experience from a woman (or women) who expressed they didn't enjoy it or they didn't react to his technique in a way he had hoped. A lot of men are shy too, and get self-conscious about what they're doing, so they sometimes refuse.

    I would wash up and make sure you're just soapy-clean, dust on some nice talc, and that should just be heavenly for a man who sounds like he wants nothing more than to please you. If you aren't enjoying it, ask him to do things to make it better for you, and I promise he'll comply -- he WANTS to please you, and likely will do whatever you say so that he will achieve that goal. :)

  • I understand where you're coming from totally - I have a lot of issues "down there", so I am always worried. You can test yourself out beforehand (use your fingers to determine the odor). Sometimes I am not having a good week so I will tell the guy not to go down there. Don't be afraid to speak up if you're not comfortable - trust me, they'll appreciate it!

  • He likes giving. It feels great if it's done right.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Some of us especially older love giving oral. I have heard and I was one when I was younger younger who diddn't care much for it. I really don't know what has changed in me, but it has. Now Id rather give just as much as receiving it and I can cum from giving very easy.

    I would not worry about the taste or smell as I am sure you taste and smell just fine.

    If you worry about this during, you will not enjoy it and you will make it boring for him.
    Please don't worry about what does not need worring about. Just lye back, spread em and enjoy hun.

  • Don't worry about your odour or taste because it's different for everyone and you won't know if he likes it or hates it until he tries. Also, I can tell you that guys do indeed like oral so you can throw that misconception right out the window. Just stop worrying about it. You already know he likes sex so, if for some reason he doesn't like oral after trying it, you can always go back to how things are today.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Lucky girl you are. Indeed hmm enjoy ;)

  • I love it, I you're clean then you shouldn't taste that bad but I'm sure he just wants to pleasure you and there's something about giving a girl oral that just gets a guy going

  • Giving oral to a girl is great, and girls' worries about their vajays are common but almost always without any good reason. You should just trust that your boyfriend really wants to do it.

  • Guys love giving oral, taste or smell doesn't matter.

  • Yummy yum yum que Rico

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