Never had an O?

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm in her. Is that actually a thing?
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  • Yup, it is. It can be very difficult for women to achieve an orgasm and for many, it is something they have to learn.
    It's something very mental in the brain, and very different factors can affect it.
    Some women never get an orgasm throughout their life, be it because they never got to learn it, because they simply cannot, or something else is difficult to say.

    It took me a long time to be able to and I still struggle at times with it. But my mentality is a big factor, I can do the same stimulation, and whether or not I'm in the mood and what happens in my head, makes all the difference.

    • I think hers is mental as well? I know she takes a few meds for different mental things. Not sure what they are. I've been told that it can help to have your partner give you verbal permission... do you have any experience with this?

    • I have a close friend who gets a lot of meds due to anxiety and other stuff, where it literally says she might not be able to get orgasms - and she hasn't had any, which is very frustrating for her. But usually, it's not about any mental conditions, just that arousal starts in the brain and it's very important, also to learn to relax, and enjoy it and focus on the pleasure and whatever the person is into and such.

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  • She means with you.

    • No she's pretty up front about her past relationships. 20+ people have never been able to do it.

  • Totally normal.