New guy friend wants to cum inside me and I'm not on the pill... why?

A new guy friend want to cum inside me. We haven't had sex yet and I I've told him I'm not on the pill and I can't take the morning after because it makes me really sick. He said "we'll deal with it later" that he'd love to make love and cum deep inside me. I do love the feeling of intimacy but really... he has an 8 year old child and I would think he'd be more careful. Why would a guy whom I have just started to date want to risk getting me pregnant. Confused.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I hate condoms as well. It's also a totally different sensation when a man cums inside of you. 90% of the time, if my husband cums inside of me, it's automatic for me as well. That being said, I AM on birth control. You said the morning after pill makes you sick, what about a regular, every day bc pill? You should also know if you were to start the pill, it won't be considered affective until you're on your 2nd pack. So for the first whole pack and month, you will be considered unprotected.

  • the morning after does make you sick? How many times have you been taking it? It's not some kind of regular birth control.
    It's not designed for being able to be foolishly thoughtless.
    You are over 30 years old and have to ask this questions?
    Have you ever thought about something else than the risk of getting pregnant?
    There are many more reasons to tell this guy to fuck off.
    I'm sorry for being offensive, but this topic touches a nerve.

  • It's easy to get caught up in lust and not really weigh your consequences. He's not thinking logically he's thinking with his dick. Take it from me.. I have been down that road. I now have a 1 year old beautiful baby girl and a world of heartache from her father.

  • I don't think it has anything to do with getting you pregnant but some weird obsession with the thought of cumming inside, a lot of men enjoy this action however yes its a huge risk. I wouldn't do it just letting you know.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The lust he feels has overridden all logic and intuition. It's similar to why men remarry the same woman that divorced them 6 years ago and took all their stuff. Some men become stupid and infatuated when around a woman. I think it's part of what mother nature intended.

  • It is your body and your choice. No condom means no sex... he will have to accept that. I am sure you do not want to be an unmarried mommy who has to take care of a kid forever or get an STD! If he cares about you he will accept your decision.

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  • Why are you even considering letting him do this to yourself? He's just as selfish af and I wouldn't even want to date somebody like that.

  • I'm wondering why you're even considering dating a guy with that sort of self serving immature mentality. He sounds like a teenager.

  • Maybe he want to make you pregnant, don't you thought about that?

  • Why would you do this?

  • He doesn't like condoms

  • cus he think with his dick not with his head

  • He's selfish and does not imagine what are your wishes.

  • Sounds like he wants a kid but the real question here is are you ready to become a mom?

  • There is no logic in that. It just "hits the spot" for him, I suppose.

  • Maybe he actually wants a child. You must be very beautiful and have some very good genes.

  • he's an idiot, and seems selfish

  • that's fine.. he's just willing to do for fulfilling his fantasy

  • It feels 1000x times better for guys to cum inside

  • Because he likes the risk because it is your concern if you pregnant, not his.

  • please take precaution he will have fun and you have to suffer it use preacution condoms or female condoms dont take risk of getting pregnant if you have multiple partners then compulsory use the precaution

  • He's got no money, huh?

  • because he doesn't care the fact that u may get pregnant