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This is going to piss lots of people off therefore I will warn you.This is my OPINION not a FACT!!
Today I was at the bus stop when I saw a girl giving a guy a blow job.In public.
INTIMACY stays IN. Please don't stick your sex life in my face.This got my mind going and now I am going to vent.
Girls should not be slutty because they should realize they have some value.Girls you are not just your body.You are more than that.Girls should have some respect.Don't cover up because of shame cover up because of pride.
Seriously if your boobs are showing I don't he is going to be looking you in the eye.Besides what is wrong with a little imagination?
I heard it said be attractive not attracting.Make yourself look nice don't sell yourself short.Get off the clearence rack.
Look I am not the jealous type however if a girl dressed very scarcely were to talk to my boyfriend I would be uneasy.Why ? First of all I don't need him checking out your boobs.He's mine not yours.Secound of all I am worried how much restraint you might have.
I am not asking you to wear a burka or a hijab.I am asking you to have self respect.Men don't objectify women.Women objectify themselves.
A true mentch and a man worth your while will admire modesty and if you respect yourself he will respect that.
What I heard one guy say is girls should be modest in public and crazy in the bedroom.
Now I am not a fan of guys who dress imodestly or always do sex with multiple conquests.
Yet guys don't get pregnant.
I am not talking about rape or anything like that.
But I see girls saying oh I had sex with 20 guys I am 21 seriously?
Ok if it's your boyfriend that's one thing .But why brag about all the dudes.
Guys like easy girls.Yet they respect girls with class.
And yea it is slutty to steal someone's man.
Let's make it clear girls labled as sluts do the same stuff as guys .Guys should also be labled as sluts.Guys are not innocent.
But i find it degrading to me when I see another woman defile her body.
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14 28I've not reed something stupid as this for a long time
Slutdom is a mindset. I've seen well-dressed sluts, and almost naked un-sluts.
Un-slut: not a full slut, but not not a slut, you know.
It's the fact that they make bad decisions with men.
Look at the blonde from Sex in the City, she was a stupid hoe. She slept with guys to figure out if she liked them. Man, fuck that bitch. The whole show was stupid.
I think the terms hoe/whore/gold digger are more appropriate for what you're describing as a slut. A slut is a girl who is easy and sleeps around and doesn't really get anything out of it besides the sex.
Sex in public, I really don't like it. Instead I would go lengths away just to abolish this. It is a back down to the younger generation and there also comes the concept of respect. How can you be respectful for the rest of your life if you did such a work and plus, you must feel really shameful for this. There is no way that incidents like this could be forgotten.
Nigga you gay? Otherwise how is a dude suppose to get laid without a hoe?
"Guys should be called sults too. They are not innocent."
I mean do you really think like this.
I tell people to not use the word slut or anything related at all but, you seem to be wanting it to be used for another set of people (guys).
Naw i don't mean it like that i mean its not ok in my mind for girls to be called sluts for sleeping around and guys get away scotch efree
"Look I am not the jealous type however..."
You're insecure?
I thought about it you are right... it did come out wrong I gotta thinj about this
Lmaoing at virgin sloots in comments, They are so bitter.
What do you mean?
just lol @ sluts. I always respected genuine hard to get girls, not that fake shit.
I just wasted 4 minutes of my life reading this dribble.
Get a life girl...
Seriously...
And live it;
Or become a fucking nun
Nuns can't fuck 😕
i fully disagree with Anonymous concerning sex, it's become a plague. sex was designed to be a sacred bound between a married man and his wife... now? not so much. we got homosexuality, beastility, pedophilia, incest, teen pregnancies, numerous std'd going around... am i the only one who see a problem here?
std's
Like i am modest outside with my future hubby i wanna be dirty in bed
every man's dream.
I see the same problem. These are old vices that nearly died out centuries ago. Political death cults and apostate theologians kept them alive. And then, 19th and 20th century political death cult revival movements fed on the instability of those times to seduce entire societies into a tireless propaganda campaign to breathe new life into these vices, and to portray them as "normal" or even "good." Yet, it is telltale the contrary when these vices still bring death, hypocrisy, inability to read Scripture unless it's morbidly out of context or twisted somehow, political corruption, extortion of ma and pa bakeries, demands to be worshiped, and all other manner of violence and lawlessness and delusions. Floyd Corkins was not just a fluke.
@ObscuredBeyond well said.
Very very few girls are against being sluts
value of someone is not related to number of sex partners. you are just very purotonical
Having sex in public is just inappropriate, I don't know how the hell people get away with this. One of my friends managed to get stuck and take a piss on a street that happened to be in a school zone and now he's a registered sex offender... Anyways, I don't think the girl would be a "slut" but would just be impolite just like the guy she's doing it with. I wonder if that whole "slut" business disappeared and girls became sexually liberated and could have sex with as many guys as they want without shame, maybe society will have way less angry frustrated guys, less cheating, less "nice guys" less white-knights... etc or maybe it will stay the same since it's only a small set of guys that get all the girls and all what that would serve would be making life easier for them? I'll have to think about that. :P
I know what you're saying. It's like women don't have to be prudes but at the same time, they shouldn't be using sex as way to validate themselves and boost their self esteem.
For example, a girl I dated who used me as a rebound had a very low self esteem and sent me nudes to "keep my attention" or else she'd worry I'd ignore her and also sent me nudes when I told her I had to go to sleep because I had work in the morning and couldn't talk when she wanted to. It's like she would have had my attention at hey or any other type of question. It's like the fact she had to resort to that is sad. I even found out later she posted nudes of herself on reddit to fish for compliments. Yet this girl would complain when guys would disrespect her. Yet she would pass up guys who saw her more than just a piece of ass and go to the abusive guys only to complain she can't find any decent guys.
I mean some some people said it's a women's choice to act that way and while that is true, it also other people's choices to not respect them because they figure if a girl acts like that, she may not be serious about anything other than sex. Without sounding sexist, it's like a guy expecting to be treated seriously when he goes up to a woman and makes it clear he just wants sex and makes dirty comments
But both genders are judged differently. A girl acting like a sex object will be called a slut and a guy acting like a sex object and making dirty comments would be called a perv or creep.
Men and women both objectify women, and your actions are your own responsibility, not anyone else's (I'm using "you" in a general sense, not you specifically). If a girl wears a shirt that shows off her boobs, it's still your fault if you stare, and it's still your fault if you decide that means you're going to treat her like an object rather than a person. If a scantily dressed girl is talking to my boyfriend and he's ogling her, that's still his fault and he is to blame for it.
I just really don't like the concept that low-cut tops excuse bad behavior from other people, because they don't. And I don't like the concept that dressing in an exposing way is seen as a lack of self-respect. Maybe she just likes how she looks. Maybe it's really hot out and she's trying to stay cool. Whatever she's doing, if she's not hurting anyone, I don't think it's anyone's business.
Agree 100%
Had a few spelling errors, I'm not sure if English is your second language. You make good points, except no body owns anyone just because they are in a relationship.
You seem upset. Giving someone a blowjob on a random bench is just nasty and inconsiderate to the other people around. However, why is sex such a bad thing? I've seen so many myTakes and questions about sluts, but nobody ever has an answer to why having lots of sexual partners is bad. If you are practicing safe sex and std free then what is wrong with a consenting adult having sex? We treat sexuality, especially female sexuality, like a bad thing when in all actuality it's not.
Yes!
Nobody should be a slut unless theyre messing up other peoples relationships.
Girls being slut shamed is just left over sexism from the older racist and sexist society. It used to be girls were arrested for prostitution if seen in a bar. Then if they had premarital sex they were arrested while the guy got off free with nothing. Then girls couldnt wear shorts and skirts that showed 6 inches of leg above the knee. Then girls who wore regular shorts were labeles sluts and rebellius. Fast foward to our time, what your shaming girls on is our times version of that sexism. So i disagree and think this slut shaming is a phase our socitys in that will die out in generations to come.
Amen to that. Nicely said.
Thanks had to make it so only guys can answer lol
I think our generation is too caught up in that people shouldn't judge me on my appearance and dress however they like. But really everyone is gonna judge how you represent yourself yet our generation thinks everyone will look favorably on us even if we look ridiculous.
Yup but I love my boyfriend enough to respect myself. I think respecting myself in the end respects him