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I bet that 9 out of 10 girls have been asked for their nudes.
You go online, perhaps you find yourself a new community and as soon as you reveal that you're female, guys swoop down from above and ask for confirmation. If you're really lucky, they'll ask for your nudes. (Psst! It means they like you.)
It's like they expect you to have them. You tell them off and get called the worst sorts of things. You're suddenly reduced to a boring old prude.
What exactly is wrong with guys today? The social medias have turned our love for oversharing selfies into a weapon against us. Our privacy is at risk, our lives are only interesting if we have enough followers and we find that our self-esteem depends on how many likes we can get.
If you do not have any pictures on your Facebook page, you're weird and you have a low self-esteem. I've more than once been asked why I don't post pictures on my Facebook and the question is simple; I value my privacy. My friends know what I look like and if they want to see me, they can call me up anytime. I don't have any desire to take a picture of me performing some ridiculous ritual (duckface!) and post it online to see how many people will approve and baptise me into their ranks. I don't want to and if that makes me weird, then so be it!
The fact that society has pushed the male gender into accepting their most basic nature; well honestly it's great that they embrace their gender stereotype, but is it really necessary to stoop down to the caveman level? I thought the time of men posing as women was over. Does it really happen that often? Guys, please stop asking for nudes.
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34 81Or, when he asks for nudes, reply, "Sure ;) hang on a second."
And then send him the nastiest harriest man nude you can find on the internet. I guarantee he will never bother you again.
To rise above that mentality, to love truly and fully, you need to be raised in an environment where such a thing exists. If you are brought up in an environment where materialism and sex are all that is, then that's all you know. And sadly, many of today's men know nothing greater than sex and materialism. So they measure your worth by your boobs and sex organs. They simply cannot or will not think on a higher plain. That would force them to leave behind familiar territory, and explore turf with spiritual implications they wish to deny.
I would just like to say that there is a guy in the opinions who said " I have never asked a girl for nudes. I hate guys like that" and he has a bunch of up votes by girls. that same guy has once told me he masturbated to my picture -_-
haha i know right its like how can all of these guys not ask for nudes if I've gotten multipul requests in one day even though im not like super pretty or anything xD
Because we have a lot of hoes these days so most fuckboys expect nudes. If they ask kindly tell them no, and if they persist tell them to fuck off.
Yeah I kind of hate how everyone puts a premium on nudity. It shouldn't be as taboo as it is. As Anonymous said, you won't have that body your whole life, enjoy it while you've got it. It's your body, so sending nudes or not is your choice. However, I don't really care to hear or read about how a visual of your naked body is sacred or worth more than whatever.
Having never asked for a nude online (and won't), I've got to say I don't know what type of guy does it. However, say yes or say no. I don't really care about whether you do it or not.
Women seem to put a premium on their lady parts and frankly, I find it laughable. In a lot of places nudity is just life. It's not seen as sexual at all, it's simply not wearing clothing. Here in the US, we're trained to believe that nudity is purely sexual, and almost chastised for it. While these guys may be a product of their environment (referring to your last paragraph), so are YOU. Nudity is not sacred or sexual inherently. You think it is.
While I somewhat agree with you, everyone have the right to think of their bodies as they please and that includes nudity. Not everyone flaunt their fannies freely because they don't see nudity as something of value. Some find it natural and therefore don't submit to societies norms and rules. And then there's those who find nudity to be sacred and private and I happen to be one of those. I'm not ashamed of my body, but I value it and I find it difficult to reveal it to others because it's mine. It's the only thing I truly can control and rule over and whom I share it with is completely up to me. In addition to that, I couldn’t strip naked in front someone else unless I had a connection with that person. And I don't think there's anything wrong with that. We are different and that's great.
It isn't "caveman level" to want to see a nude woman. No one should bully anyone into the whole nude thing and yeah its trashy/classless to ask a random chick for nudes but the desire to have them doesn't make men or any gender bad for it.
I think society over plays male sexuality and downplays female sexuality tbh
I think it can be rather deceptive in some ways, the amount of guys who ask for nudes. Cause place 10 guy in a room along with 10 girls. And if 9 of those dont ask for nudes, all the 10 girls will still be asked for nudes. Cause that one guy will ask everyone and everything. Personally I have never asked for nudes, but I still recived them, but I also think the reason they do ask cause it also sadly works too sometimes. Even if that one obnoxious douchy guy get turned down anything from 10-50 times, there is that one girl as well that will send him nudes. Thus he continous, cause works in the end.
You know why they ask for nudes? Because women are stupid enough to send them.
Don't say women generally, but some women.
@LaFemmeFatale "Guys, please stop asking for nudes." Actually, I said that purposefully to point out that just as not every women are stupid enough to send them, not every men asks for nudes either. I sure don't...
@LaFemmeFatale Haha Yeah, I should have thought that women would downvote me. Sometimes I forget that people are not in my head. They couldn't possibly get the sarcasm. Anyway... Female downvoters, you are forgiven...
@LaFemmeFatale A generalization applies to the specific cases identified. A generalization in no way represents the majority so he is 100% correct in his statement. The word some doesn't always need to be used, if a person can't understand that someone isn't talking about every single case, then they're a moron.
I have not downvoted you :) @JuicyBrain
I have and never will ask for nudes, because that's cheap in my opinion. If a girl wants to show skin, she gotta cover up modestly, or I'd faint from the awkwardness if I even as much as catch a glimpse of revealing cleavage or butt cheeks >.<
You are a decent guy which is very rare!
@candyaurora Aww, thanks! I respect private parts and would expect my female friends and future SO to do the same. A few of my good friends sometimes wear revealing tops or bras to show off their assets when they go out, and I would ask them to change into something more modest to protect their private parts.
~More trivial and near non existant issues used to brand all men disgusting pigs...
Oh, and i call bullshit on 90% of girls being asked for nudes.. I suppose you also believe the feminist bullshit that ''30% of women have been raped'' too?
If on a Uber-rare occasion someone does ask you for nudes, Tell them to fuck off. But jesus mate, Dont over exaggerate this shit so much. There is no possible way you, or any other girl gets badgered for nudes so often that it actually becomes a genuine struggle in life... I bet its a minor annoyance once every couple years at most...
Well you can find the answers to all your doubts by doing a few Google searches. But don't let me spoil your "perfect world" picture. :) Have a nice day.
And have fun living in your fantasy magical land where every day is a struggle having to live through your daily 50 nude requests... I bet youve been asked once or twice in your life and have made this take just because your some bitter misandrist. But, Whatever.
Well you're free to think whatever you want. :) You're still quite young I see, so I wouldn't have expected any less from a 17 year old teenager.
Hahaha, Your 5 years older then me. 5 Years !. thats next to fuck all xD. Also, Since when did increased age = Increased intelligence?, Some people i work with, And go to college with who are in their 30's+ Are fucking clueless, Yet people my age excel against them academically in a lot of our tests.
Oh, I'm just saying that you're acting as expected - like a teenager.
These 17-25 year olds that excel in tests and classes over these 30+ year olds I would like to see them out in the real world, because I personally hire and fire a ton of them. They stroll in with their volunteer hours, completed internships, letters of recommendation, and BS or Masters degrees still wet. They sit at their offices or cubicles or on the assembly line masterbating to text messages, Facebook, Twitter, or snapchat. They have no idea what holding a job means they think because they just graduated they are entitled to something. On the over hand the 30+ year olds are never afraid to come up and say I have no clue what I'm doing can somebody help me? It took balls for them to go back to school and when they come to work they are on time they don't smell like last night and show respect. Lastly I've had to fire people for sharing their nude pics on the company email which I got to see by the way. If your going to send nudy pics of you at least learn how to trim your bush!
You're not obliged to though? And the losers will move on. Too bad.
For added fun you can always send them random nude pics, the lovely www supplies plentiful and a lot of girls are happy to pose nude.
Obviously not saying I'd ever... xD
Lol, if I'm asked for a nude I find a really gross one of a man and send that instead
@willow74 yep there's fun to be had with that one lol
Would you send nudes to your husband?
That's the internet, what do you expect? You expect to talk only with high social skilled people? No. Most people online lack that, that's why they're here.
Another reason why many men ask is because so many women give it up so easily that it's rare that they say no. Girls in GAG are 14-15 and sending nudes, they start early. Guys know that and they ask. Sure, maybe you say no, but many others will say yes.
If it never works, no one would ask. Both are at fault here.
Personally nudes are best when it's from a girlfriend/wife. IF you receive nudes from a girl you barely know, she's easy, and sleazy. If you have to ask for nudes then that girl doesn't need you in your pathetic life.
Woops. Doesn't want to be in your pathetic life****
Agree, it's one thing when you're involved with the person and another if it's a stranger. Creepy from a stranger, but like foreplay with your boyfriend or husband.
That just seems so vulgar, like that video where there is a counter for the guy to grope 100 girls breasts. Sheesh, it's like walking past a stranger... of the opposite sex that your attracted to and expecting her to strip right in front of you if you ask her to.
YEAHH! You go girl. Preach.
Now for real though, you gonna send some nudes or nah?
Of course, gimme your numbah!
"If you do not have any pictures on your Facebook page, you're weird and you have a low self-esteem"
i dont have a facebook account or any other social media account (does GAG count as social media?) what does that make me? haha
I have never asked for nudes nor have I sent out nudes... Although some girls have sent them to me without my asking... I delete them and don't engage them. I am not into sexting... But I will go on a date with them if they are up for it :)
It is all dumb though... Why would anyone want to send nudes? Be smarter than that.
Good take.
Besides being boorish and rude, it's also unnecessary. If anyone needs to see nudes that badly, they can just use Google, it takes 2 seconds. : P
Nudes are nudes. They make sense in the right context. Its not the nudes thats the issue. Its you haven't yet found a situation compelling enough to provide you with a positive experience yet.