No longer the friend-zone

[Anonymous]

So you got to know her and grew to like her, and then you put your ego on the line, only to find out she doesn’t feel the same way. Sadly this is the case for many bros stuck in the friend-zone, a place where you want to be more than friends and she just wants to be friends. While searching for the solution for this age old question, I came across an article entitled “Why the friend-zone is dangerous for women” in the article Daniel Radcliffe was promoting a new movie of his in which he gets “friend-zoned” by a girl. When asked his opinion on the friend-zone he replied “I think it’s just a bunch of guys saying this girl won’t have sex with me.” And “You’ve never heard a girl talk about how she got friend-zoned.” I whole heartedly disagree with him because first everyone knows that unless the girl is a prostitute or just easy, it’s usually the female who decides who she will have sex with, all the guy does is simply persuade; the decision to act is solely on the girl, so the “all guys want is sex” argument doesn’t apply when discussing the friend-zone. Secondly you never her girls talk about how they got friend-zoned, why is that? Because no matter what the girl gets what she wants ATTENTION, no matter whether if it’s from her boyfriend or her male friends auditioning for the role of boyfriend, she gets their undivided attention. If you think I’m wrong, try ignoring a girl that calls themselves your friend and watch how pissed or upset she gets. Women love to say that the “friend-zone” is full of men who whine about how can’t get into a woman’s pants. Do you know how many times I’ve heard a woman whine about not getting able to get a guy to commit after having sex with him, they were neck and neck with the guys in the “friend-zone”! I recently read in one myTake written by a girl where she said that the reason why a girl might friend-zone a guy is because she respects the guy unlike the guy she is willing to have casual sex with; to a male this might not make any sense what so ever but to a female who uses her emotions way too much this make perfect sense. To a woman sex is like water, whenever she wants it she can have it, but a meaningful relationship is like finding Platinum, the rarest metal on Earth. But to a guy it’s the exact opposite, I can walk outside right now and make a thousand new friends without even trying but finding a girl to have sex with is going to a whole lot harder (I’m interested in more than just sex, it’s just an expression). As a guy I wish it wasn’t so, but as a guy who has a lot of female “friends” it appears to be true, when I asked a girl why she friend-zoned me but chose to have sex with a guy she had only known for two weeks she replied “Because he wasn’t actually my friend but you are.” As a male friend you provide two things; a meaningful relationship without demanding sex or anything in return and two an ego boost. So to all my bros in the friend-zone in the friend-zone are you willing to be there for her? Free of charge.