So I've noticed when i give my partner a handjob i don't see or feel any precum but when i give my other partner a handjob i see and feel precum. Is there something wrong with me for my main partner to not have precum when I give him a handjob?
Nothing wrong with what you are doing. Precum or pre ejaculate, is just a precursor to him shooting his wad, which I'm sure you knew. Try this with the partner THAT YOU DON'T see or feel pre-cum with when you are jacking him off: take your index and thumb, and squeeze the tip of his penis, at the opening in the head, and you should see a drop of pre-cum ooze out when you do that. Depends on a few things, 1) how long he has had a hard-on, 2) How HARD is penis is, 3) how fast and hard you are jerking him off. Also, if you know him well enough, ask him if when he jacks off, does he have a lot of precum?
In my teens, if I was even sitting with a girl, I thought was hot, I would get a semi-hard-on and be oozing pre-cum by the gobs and it was embarrassing.
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That’s weird. Pre-cum is a sign of arousal, much like his girls get wet. I don’t know much about your sex life and so I can’t comment too much. I know that many sexually actively guys don’t get much pleasure from handjobs. Personally for me, I hate it. I don’t receive any pleasure from it at all and so I don’t get pre-cum if and when I receive one.
Things are different during sex and blowjobs though. Maybe talk to him about what he likes. Maybe he isn’t a fan of handjobs too.0 0 0 0
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0 10Very rarely do I have pre cum. Some guys have more than others
0 0 0 0No, it doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. One guy is different from another.
0 0 0 0Some guys just get turned in more and stuff comes out while other guys may not.
0 0 0 0You shouldn’t be doing that stuff at all
0 0 0 0Nope, that is on him and if his body feels the need for lube... That is what precum is for...
0 0 0 0That can differ a lot between guys. Even within the same guy it can differ depending on how turned on he is and how strong his orgasm is.
0 0 0 0Do your partners know about each other
0 0 0 0the volume may vary, the hornier men gets they produce more.
0 0 0 0Mhhm you give a lot of handjobs, can I have one? I promise I am a fountain of precum
0 0 0 0Would you give me handjob too?
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