(Non-sexual) Is this something one sweats over?

[Rosexøxø]

- Do men ever wonder 💭 or doubt 😰 if their girlfriend/ wife loves them?

Is this a concern some men have? 🤔

*(Also, ‘Anonymous section’ will be made available)*

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[Still-alive]

Pretty much the story of my love life lol. I get anxious that the other person will suddenly lose their attraction for me and ironically it’s that anxiousness that drives them away usually.

it’s because im not acting like my authentic self but more reacting to my own anxiety. It kills attraction.

anyways the answer is yes guys do worry about this. We try not to show it though because you girls like us to be confident always.

[Rosexøxø]

Omg wow that’s a good statement: “Not acting like my authentic self but more reacting to my own anxiety.” I have to say I have related to this on many occasions prior. I wonder if men and women should be more honest about it, forget it (for both), or try to balance the male: work through it mindset, along with the female: let’s talk and console/congratulate the struggles/improvements. I suppose this will be dependent on both parties of every individual relationship, for men and women. 🤔 This answer is helpful, for sure. I figured men did not care much about the other party. Thanks a bunch for this! ✨💯✨💯

[Rosexøxø]

And I do hope you continue to soar in progression ✨🙌✨

[Anonymous]

I am always concerned about this while in a relationship.

[Rosexøxø]

Do you think our concerns show what we care about? Or does it just mean we lack the confidence to be ourselves and let that be enough 🤔

[Opinion Owner]

I think that it is more about what we value.

[Rosexøxø]

I think that’s a good and true answer. It resonates for me, at least. Thank you for this share! ✨💯✨💯

[Rosexøxø]

And I do hope it only gets better for you, me, and everyone with time and the effort put into our friendships/ relationships.

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. And thank you.

[Emiliamazing]

I think how men feel probably depends on the situation that surrounds them. Divorces, insecurity about the relationship, what they see when socializing will likely contribute to what their opinion is on this topic.

[Rosexøxø]

I agree with you on this 100% and appreciate this reminder! ✨💯✨💯

[Emiliamazing]

Happy to contribute! Great question as always

[megabamse]

It can happen from time to time yes, we are humans to you know

[Wise4myage]

Sure, men who are insecure will have this problem.

[Rosexøxø]

But maybe this is only a confidence that comes/ can come from reassurance of your partner? It’s not a self-confidence. They, actually showing they love you would mean, you’d know? 🤔 You can’t be confident and secure, while they don’t “really love” you, but instead lead that on because then, that’s just: a confident person in a false relationship, who’s somewhat elusive to the truth. 🤔

[Rosexøxø]

Are you confident because she’s loving you? Or are you confident because you are confident regardless? All other sectors of life require self confidence But doesn’t the sector of love require a mutually shared confidence? Or do you think my logic is “wild./ and unsound.”

[Staximus]

When I meet a woman that cares as much about me as I do about her, I'll marry her

[Rosexøxø]

Pure ☺️✨

[Juxtapose]

No I don't worry about this because it's pointless to do so. If they don't love you then they will say they will, if they do love you they say they will. Use your better judgment and judge them by their actions.

[Twalli]

At the beginning, you can't know if the person actually loves you.

[EaterPeter]

Always

[Rosexøxø]

Thank you for the honesty! ☺️🔥✨💯

[EaterPeter]

You're welcome!

[EaterPeter]

It always feels like that they are there for themselves only

[EaterPeter]

Shell 🐚 fish 🐟

[EaterPeter]

Purposefully broken into to pieces. I bet you know what I mean