Normal for guy to want dildos in his ass?

So my guy likes it for me to put dildos (big ones) in his ass. He moans like crazy and will actually get off to this. Is this normal or is he bisexual? Honest answers pls. This is ruining my sex life and drive.
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  • It's unusual, but not necessarily a sign of bi- (or homo-, for that matter) sexuality. Remember that sex isn't JUST about bonding; there's a whole lot of sensory pleasure in it, too- and supposedly, prostate stimulation is absolutely wonderful for that. Think of it this way: the human penis doesn't have an internal rotary motor, or anything granting it those capabilities- but that doesn't stop women using vibrators. Does that mean they're not into men? No, it just means that they enjoy additional stimulation. Your man could be just the same way.

    Of course, he instead could (or also could, as they're not mutually exclusive) be into men; I don't know. You'd need to make a more in-depth analysis of his behavior to have an informed judgement on that. But if he's into YOU, and loyal to you as well, then what does it matter if he's also attracted to other people? He has CHOSEN to be with you, and *every* man out there is also attracted to people beyond the one they're with, unless he's asexual, in which case he wouldn't be with anyone to begin with. Meanwhile, you've not only got a way to enhance his pleasure, but if he can get off on it, even a way to see to his needs if his penis doesn't want to cooperate. I can see why it'd make you a little uncomfortable, but why not look at positives of his eccentricities?

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  • A lot of us like ass play. It's actually the easiest way to stimulate a prostate gland. For me, even a finger is enough to move me from a great orgasm to mind blowing. I've never had more than 2 fingers. Nor, have I wanted more.

    Hmmm, so your guy is obsessed by bigger and bigger penetration... To the extent that it's effecting your enjoyment. Sorry, that's not normal.

    Try this... indulge him one more time... Afterwards when he's comfortable, happy. Ask what he's craving. He may make himself vulnerable and answer honestly.

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  • Definitely not normal for a straight guy. While most straight guys may have tried anal play once or twice, I don’t think they GET off to having dildos in their ass. After all, dildos are shaped like a male penis. I believe it would be different if a man enjoyed having a finger in his ass while receiving a blowjob or receiving a prostate massage. I’ve received prostate massages a couple of times and they are indeed very pleasurable - especially the orgasm. Let me know if you have further questions.

  • There is nothing wrong with anal stimulation. Men who have tried it probably all agree it’s great, those who haven’t would probably like it if they tried.
    however your story sounds like it’s not a part of sex with you, but it has become his only way of getting off. If he prefers that to having sex with you, then it sounds like he’s addicted to the wrong thing. Lure him back to having sex with you as the primary focus and have a talk with him. I don’t think he’s gay or bi, he’s just addicted to prostate stimulation. I have tried it, it’s great, but it’s not better than having sex with my fiancée

  • Yea he likely a queer, it's not normal.

  • Both are possible. While he might be bisexual he may just love anal play... it feels great and is intense. You have to communicate: his want is valid but so are any hesitations you have. You both may need to compromise.

  • Just ask him if he wants to have a bisexual 3sum. If he gets excited and says yes then you know he's bi. If he's taking big ones then he probably has had a few dicks in him.

  • Lots of guys love anal stimulation.

  • Give him a final present of a really big toy.

    And look out for a man who will be excited about YOU :)

  • No, thats a thing only gay/bi guys like. I think it's gross tbh.

  • I’m definitely attracted to women and I definitely like the feeling of big dildos too. I’m really nervous that the person I find is going to be weirded out by it, but I know just hiding it would just cause problems later “why didn’t you ever tell me, you must be keeping this secret for a reason” but you can’t just Boom be forward with it either 🤷‍♂️ But regardless I’m attracted to women and it’s not like I’m going to cheat with a little human dick

  • He’s got gay tendencies. Yikes!

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