Not a guy, masculinity?

[johnieohm2]

Would it matter to a woman if a woman is his whole world and he will work really hard to make her happy, within reason of course? I dream of the day that I am able to spend the entire day, from the time i wake up till the time i go to bed, eating her pussy to make her happy. I see this as the only way i can get someone, just one person to love me for me. I am sure i would enjoy this and it would be amazing. Hopefully this would be a way that I can be found deserving enough for a woman to give me a child, so I would be able to have those moments of teaching them not to lie, how to treat a woman right, teach them how to fish, instil morals in them, teach them how to love a woman, teach them how to ride a bike, etc...

[Anonymous]

Is this just like a dream for you on what you see your future to be? Perhaps, you have actually fallen for a girl that you can see yourself being so totally devoted to. I'm not trying to be harsh here, but you sound as if you are looking for a woman to be subservient to. I'm sure there a some women out there that would have no problem with that. Yet, I don't think that it is something that women actually want from a man. Good luck with that... if that is what you really want in a relationship.

[johnieohm2]

How do you get that notion, what it literally says is what I mean. I seek a companion in life, and I would seek to give this woman pleasure in a multitude of ways while we enjoy the little things in life... you confuse me greatly with drawing the exact opposite conclusion

[Opinion Owner]

I will try just a little to clear what confused you, without having to find some crayons to explain it to you. Let's rip what you wrote apart, so I may show you why I see you as wanting to be subservient to any woman. You specifically state that "I see this as the only way I can get someone, just one person to love me for me." and that shows you to be willing to do things that you consider to be a last resort in trying to get a girl to love you... making you look desperate and willing to submit to a girl just to get her affection. Here is the real kicker though, when you follow that up with this statement "Hopefully this would be a way that I can be found deserving enough for a woman to give me a child" Ok, no doubt about it, you are desperate and feel that you need to be deserving by any woman in order to get her to have your child. That in itself shows you to be anxious to subservient in order to pass your genes along. However, as your own question states "Not a guy, masculinity?" definitely shows you to not even consider your self to be masculine or even a guy at all. I doubt most women would ever want to have a child with those types of genes running in them... Just think of more of you running around desperate and willing to do whatever to get anyone to take pity on them and let them reproduce.

[johnieohm2]

The last one is a question regarding societal issues with how men typically are. See if a guy is wanting a life long partner than this is not masculine. People my age only want sex, but I want something more than that. So by society standards I am not masculine because I don't want to only have sex, I want a lot more than that.