Alright that's called "death grip". It's a psychological thing that can happen to men and sometimes women that basically means, you got too used to porn. Relax on it for a while. Don't watch any porn for a month, masturbate all you want though, then try again.
It seems like a disfunction. You should see a sexual psychologist
maybe u want the person that u are having sex with to do the same thing, that the porn actresses do
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Cool it with the porn. It sets an incredibly unrealistic standard.
And this is a perfect example how porn is polluting people's minds these days
Bring on the down votes. It's a sad world
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