Not sure what to do?

I'm a virgin at 23. All the guys I've been with have been distant with me after they found out I was a VIRGIN, some have even cheated on me. I'm starting to question if me being a virgin will be the reason I'm alone forever. A friend of mine advised that I break it that as long as I'm a virgin I'm not gonna find a guy who is willing to wait for me but a part of me wants to wait for the right guy. Should I wait or is this hopeless?
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  • I really fail to see how being a virgin creates so much ruckus in relationships. I personally think of it as a desirable thing.

    It's a very personal choice to make and it is ENTIRELY up to you on what you want to do. Don't give in to the peer pressure.

    Guys do exist who treat virgin girls better. Really sorry you had to go through such experience but I really hope you find someone worth it. Keep strong and all the best! :)

    • Thank you I'll keep that in mind

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  • Dont listen to anybody else on what you think is right to do for yourself. Have sex when you are ready because if you are forced into it and you get a disease or pregnant, they aren't going to care. Its your body and there are a lot of men who dont care about a woman being a virgin. If a guy cares that much about you being a virgin and cheats then good riddance, you know he wasn't the one for you. Find someone who respects your boundaries and is not going to force you into sex.

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  • There are plenty of virgin men or sexually inactive men in their 20s these days. I think it a man has a problem with your virginity he’s not the right man for you.

  • you should wait. Anyone who treats you like that is not worth being with.

  • You should wait for the right guy but, if you can't, I'm here. It wouldn't bother me at all that you're a virgin. I've never had one, yet. 2 of the 3 girls I've had already had babies before I met them!

  • Don't you ever have sex just to have sex. You have a plan sort of. Stick to it. Find someone you trust to take your V-Card. Don't need to be true love, just someone you trust and find atractiv. Or wait for true love. But if you are looking for true love then cut the bullshit, don't accept shit people into your life. Go for gold.

  • Guy meets girl.
    Guy girl hang out together at night.
    Guy learns girl is 'virgin'
    Guy flees.

    Yeah it didn't happen.

    • Yeah that's cause he told me he'd wait till I'm ready then slept with his ex constantly

    • Virgin girl for virgin boys, I guess if you want him you can revenge fuck others.

    • Disclaimer, I am not encouraging anything.

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  • rather than telling guys you are a virgin, just tell them you wanna take it slow. When you are ready for sex then you should tell him tho

  • Thats nonesense I have a femsle friend who is 27 and also still a virgin. But not ashamed at all, she just set her priorities that work and uni goes first and that there is just no need for annoying love hustle

    • She sounds lonely

    • She is. She is kinda shy but its similar to me. I also didn't have had any love partner yet.

    • You seem to care about her a lot y haven't you asked her out yet

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  • One girl I went to high school with and one girl from Instagram both told me they didn't have sex until 27

    • Well in my high school before I graduated I was the only virgin left by the time we were in the 10th grade

    • 14-15 sounds like when they had sex the first time

    • Most of them some waited till 16

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