I view it as she trusts me to be as gentle as possible so as not to ruin the moment. So I do my best to make it as enjoyable as possible.
Especially, if it is her first time. However, it is not something I need in a relationship, I would only do it bc she brought it up. I never ask for something like that or bring it up bc it is not for everyone.
Guys: Just a little advice, you should never bring something like this up, as you put her in an awkward position of having to choose. "Yes" could mean she is doing it reluctantly just bc you want to and a "No" could make her feel she is not not living up to your sexual standards.
If you let her come up with the idea, you know she either already into it or is very interested in it bc it turns her on.
It is obviously a huge act of submission and trust. When done properly, it is actually enjoyable for women as well as men. (My ex would actually ask me for anal sex instead of wating for me to initiate it.) It's a way to broaden the horizons and challenge some inhibitions. Yes, I can see this making a couple feel closer.
And, no, in response to those who hate it, you don't get your dick in shit. (It is POSSIBLE but only if you don't know what you are doing and choose the wrong time to go exploring the back door.) That is a stupid assumption and misunderstanding of GI physiology. You little boys that hate it need to go back and resolve your issues from toilet training.
Back door is still close i wish one day it will be open :)
If you want to some day open it then I would suggest you start on your own. Get a butt plug sample pack or try out kit or whatever and a boat load of lube pic a day to be alone and sexy and have fun. Do your research.
@Wish4UrB00ty I want someone come and open it I don't want to use toys
That is fare but a lot of guys are more rough and inexperienced with back door play and it helps your pleasure in it if you know what you need and want. The back door isn’t as vertical or forgiving as the front door. A lot of girls have allowed their boyfriends to open that door their way and regretted it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I like anal sex but i dont get that emotional feeling like i do with vaginal
Poking your dick in shit, isn't "love". But kudos to the lady letting you go at it.
It could be true.
I think it's disgusting and so are the people that do it.
I like anal, but I have never heard this before.
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