(NSFW) Blowjob on uncut guy?

Short background. So I am into this guy and he's uncut. I have only ever gone down on someone once before and he was circumcised. I am really scared but I really want to please him. When giving handjobs I sometimes mess up and hurt him cause I don't know how to handle the foreskin properly. That and the bigger risk of STI terrifies me and I really really want to do a good job and please him. Side note: Can't talk to him about it. Don't want to freak him out or make him think I like him less cause he is already insecure about is since girls before me have made a big deal about it. So help me please! Any tips, tricks or ideas. Anything really. What to do, what to avoid. As much information as possible and in detail would be appreciated! 😶 Uncut guys. Don't hate me! 😳
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  • I think you're overthinking it. It seems like girls think that having foreskin makes it harder or more complicated to pleasure a guy (if anything it's easier), like you got used to playing guitar and now you have to play piano. It's not like that. It's not some alien organ, it's still a penis. You play with it and and suck on it and it feels good.

    Does he have a tight foreskin? Foreskin is generally pretty elastic and resilient. It's not delicate. Pulling and stretching shouldn't hurt. Unless he has problems with tightness, you shouldn't have to treat it gingerly. If it is tight, there are ways to deal with it that don't require surgery.

    As for the STI risk, just the fact that he has a foreskin doesn't make his penis dangerous. STDs/STIs don't come out of nowhere. If he's had risky sexual behaviour in his past, there's cause for concern whether he's circumcised or not. He's not going to give you an STI just because he's intact. Foreskins aren't "dirty" and they won't make you sick on their own.

    As for pleasure, having a foreskin gives you more options. All the normal things you do will probably still feel good. There's just more to play with.

    People (who are circumcised) tend to assume that the foreskin just gets in the way of the good part (the "head"). What they don't realize is that the foreskin IS the good part. Foreskin doesn't enhance pleasure because it protects the head, the pleasure comes from the foreskin itself - particularly the inner foreskin (the outer foreskin is just an extension of the skin on the shaft and has about as much feeling). The inner foreskin is very soft and rich in nerve endings particularly near the opening and around the frenullum.

    I personally prefer foreskin stimulation to glans (head) stimulation but other guys may not. I find unlike the head, the foreskin responds better to tension than simple touch and stroking (which also feels good).

    And that's why I find it hard to give you tips because if you're hurting the guy with your handjobs the things I like will probably hurt too. Until you get more specific about what exactly hurts, I can't recommend anything.

    I will say that the mental game is very important, though. Guys really appreciate compliments about their penises. Especially if they're insecure. It's hard to find a woman who likes foreskin - at least where I'm from. If you like his penis, foreskin and all, tell him. It means the world to us. Just don't say it if you don't mean it.

    • Hi! The fact that I might be overthinking it, may be true. It's not that it's too tight. Poblem is when doing ithe said the trick is to get it to move with the hand motion. Which he didn't tell me til after. So I was trying to not move it or pulled it back so it hurt him a little. It's not that I am scared of the fact that he has foreskin. I was terrified of my ex penis because it was the first one for me. So I only have that to compare too. Ofcourse like vaginas, guys area aldo come in all sizes and shapes. But I don't know how to go about things and I really really just want to please him. As I am submissive and enjoy pleasing, I want to do a good job. I like him and aside from the non sexual aspects. I want to show him sexually, how much I like him. Thank you for your help in the matter. It's highly appreciated. 😊

  • It's funny how people say check to make sure he is clean. First off you should always wash your dick, and second cut foreskin is dirtier than uncut as that skin isn't there to protect you. And circumcised penises has a higher chance of catching stds

Most Helpful Girl

  • Make sure he's been checked first and make sure he's washed down there before you do it. Other than that, you just push the skin down and treat it like a normal dick

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  • If he's wearing a condom, which he should be, it's the same. If he's not, then be careful not to stretch the foreskin too much.

  • I'd say don't do it

  • I live in England. Nobody here is circumcised unless it's a medical issue.