!!! NSFW!! Why does my boyfriend prefer MMF over FFM?

This is kinda Nsfw. My boyfriend and I have been talking about threesomes lately. We haven't had one, and we aren't exactly planning to have one. We are both straight. He only talks about 2 male and 1 female, and he seemed to really like the idea that he brought up. I eventually bring up the possibility of a FFM, and he shoots it down and says he only likes MMF. This is very odd to me because he used to love lesbian action and he used to imagine me with other girls. Now all of a sudden he doesn't want the possibility of FFM? I'm also not sure if I should have put MMF, MFM, FFM or FMF What do I do? Should I talk about it with him? I'm afraid I'm going to make him upset if I do. If you need more detail, let me know. Thank you in advance
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This can have all kinds of reasons. This can range all the way from a cuckold fantasy where he wants you to be very dominant to him to a fantasy where he wants to have an extra guy to dominate you. Of course it's also possible he doesn't care about power dynamics at all and simply has a curiosity for bi-actions. There's nothing wrong with that either.

    Personally, I'm also a tad more into the idea of doing MMF threesomes with my wife, though I enjoy the idea of a FFM threesome too.

    • He likes to think about them both dominating me, but he also likes to think about us dominating him, as in tying him down and the guy fucking me infront of him. I don't feel comfortable with that, and I'm not sure how to tell him.. it's kinda worrisome.

  • I do think it's kinda odd. But if you search on here more and more men are developing a fetish of watching their SO fucked by another man or to participate to double penetration with another guy. I don't ever want to do a threesome, but if a gun was pointed at my head obviously I rather do FFM because I'm straight and wouldn't be comfortable with another dick involved.

    • That makes sense.

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  • It’s almost like different people have different preferences.

    • I never knew people could have preferences.

    • Crazy, right?

    • Who know?

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  • He's gay...

    And, he doesn't care enough about you to want you all to himself.

    Either way, you're better than that closet gay, get out and find you a man who actually cares about ya.

  • That is a bit strange. Only thing I can think of is perhaps he's worried it if you went bi he's have more competition? Even though he's open to straight up sharing you with another guy. I'd be very wary of this kind of fantasy because if it ends up not being what both of you envisioned it could ruin the relationship.

  • You seem to be distinguishing between MMF and MFM. Does he actually want a mmf That would mean guy on guy.

  • This is my preference, as well, because I enjoy serving a woman and her male lover as a personal slave, etc.

  • Not sure, i'm not interested in a threesome, but if I WERE to, i'd imagine I would prefer a FFM.

  • Cause he wants to touch penis

  • He likes watching u get dicked down! Performing like his personal porn star!

    • I supposed that's a good way to put it. :)

  • Cause he got a little sugar in his tank.

    • Nothing wrong with that!

  • Too. many abbreviations

    • Lol so true!

  • He probably is just turned on by the thought of how hot you'd look with 2 dicks in you

    • He said he wanted me to tie him down and have the guy fuck me infront of him?

    • I don't know I guess some guys must like watching their girl getting plowed by someone else

  • I've done both,
    During MMF we were just at either end of her and swapped occasionally, so no penis touching lol
    FFM was better cause everyone got into everyone plus 2 vaginas are better than 1 obviously

  • actually these two kind of threesome have own taste and own pro cons, he may try to test the mmf before ffm, you should know the pro cons of both and decide which to go. dont do if you not want to.

  • I like both either would not bother me but then again it will most likely never happened for me.

  • Don't know really but u can try foursome

  • 1. Cause he gets most turned on by pleasing you. or
    2.) He is bi or
    3.) Sick of the ffm or fmf cliche

  • I guess you two should alternate between MMF and FFM

  • He wants to suck cock

  • My first thought would be that he is worried you'll get jealous if you see him with another girl. Personally I have been very nervous that I was showing to much interest in the other girl in this situation. It could be a lot of things but that is where my brain goes first