Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Nudes before sex?
LilyoftheLake Xper 7
I was recently given the advice that before embarking on a new sexual venture, that nudes might help with getting us more comfortable. Is it better to know before hand what they look like naked? Or to be surprised at the time?
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 56He's probably just trying to run a scam on you. He probably just said that because he wants nude photos of you.
I think nude beforehand is good, but that shouldn't be a deal maker or breaker.
B. Its always awesome to receive nudes, but unless you are long distant, I say wait till after sex. Doing so, makes the first time more exciting and memorable.
I want to be surprised. :)
I would not send nudes unless in a committed relationship. Its hard to trust people.
I sent my boyfriend nudes and we haven't had sex
Each to there owns by be careful,
Unless you want on the internet for every
You can sent pictures if you want too
I would rather be surprised than ask for nudes. . If u won't ever see the person then nudes is the only option.
I would rather be surprised. I want them to want sex because of knowing me and wanting that connection. Not because they are attracted to my body
Personally I like being surprised. I enjoy some flirty/teasing pics beforehand but if we're talking nudes I'd rather wait until the main event.
I wouldn't do it, kinda ruins the surprise you'd have with him/her IRL.
But after you already saw each other naked then yea, why not.
NEVER SEND NUDES
Honestly it's better to be naked together before, but if that isn't happening
Sure you can share nudes but I would suggest after a first date. You wouldn't want a scammer to get a hold of your nudes.
Just know if you send them you can't get them back. Piss him off and you'll be all over the internet.
Id rather get her naked and open the present personally
Depends. I DON'T think there is a set protocol for this. NO one should do ANYTHING they're uncomfortable with. Nudity and sex should be consensual & arise naturally, NOT forced!
Before hand. Sometimes the surprise is not a good one.
Well its okay to want to check out your partner what they look like naked. I dont see anything wrong in that.
Just make sure you have a very close-knit relationship. With that person.
Once clicking the submit button the pics can't be undone