Nudes or Number?

more directed for guys, but I welcome all reads and shares:

scenario:

you meet a "cool" person or attractive person, at least,

at some... let's say a diner/ restaurant.

Would you rather, they ask you to exchange numbers?

Or exchange nudes?

(I'm not getting into specifics. Answer based on what you think I'm asking, how it reads, and which you'd prefer).

:D

Nudes or Number?
Nudes or Number?
Nudes or Number?
Nudes or Number?

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Exchange bills lol
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Basically anyone within physical reach I'd take a number since we have a chance to be physically nude together.

    Someone far away or in another country I'd take nudes but honestly I never ask for them it's not something I need it's just something that people do sometimes

    • Very smart

  • Uhm yeah I don’t meet “cool people” where we’re exchanging numbers and I certainly don’t get nudes or dms unless it’s spam.

    • Lol this is all too realistic; relatable at best.

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  • Exchange nudes. Even though it seems more meaningful getting a number. Even though it seems more logical. In the end, is it worth it? People tell you what you want to hear. Regardless, how much they deny it, in the end, it's all about "Me, me, me".

    At least if I'm exchanging nudes, I know the person is comfortable enough to show me that part of themself. So, they're showing me somewhat that they trust me enough. People a nice person gets you nowhere. How do I know that? I once was a good deed doer. Girl's don't respect guys who are "Nice". If a guy is nice, he's putting himself second, which means he doesn't respect himself. I had to learn that one the hard way! So, nudes is more logical.

    • this was scratchy to read, <3 but after making it through, I'm glad you're okay and I like the logic flow. Thanks for the share!

  • I’d exchange numbers. Thats way more meaningful. Take the time to talk, get to know each other, etc. That guarantees far better sex later if everything works put. Sex that is actually meaningful and based on a foundation of knowing and adoring the person. Thats way better than some nudes on a screen

    • so you'd ask for the number with hopes to get something physical and more intimate down along the road?

    • Not necessary. Not with the intent to “get something.” I guess ultimately most people want an intimate connection. But the idea isn’t to try to get down a girl’s pants. The ultimate idea for me is to actually fall in love. Everything else just falls into place as a result. Asking for nudes instead of a number is just cheap and shows no respect.

    • yeah, true, but aren't people from birth to death always trying to get things? food/shelter/dreams accomplished/transportation/understanding/ peace of mind/ etc?

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  • Ok so tbh if i wouldn't have feelings for her so i may ask for her nudes but if i truly loves her and acknowledge her i would definitely ask for her number. For me i won't let go that person

    • I like the flow of this logic!

  • Exchange numbers, because I'd rather not send naked pictures of myself to anyone, lol.

    Plus, if I could meet up with them sometimes, we could see each other naked in person or tease each other a little like that.

  • Well this will immediately put you in either the group possibly worthy of more than sex, or just sleep with her until she starts asking for anything

    • I see 👀

  • Numbers... the nudes can come later, hopefully in person.

  • I start with email, so I can gauge what kind of person I am dealing with. Exchanging phone numbers is never a good idea.

    • okay, but this is wisdom lol 100%

    • Yeah, I play it safe.

  • Number…suggests more trust and access to their mind and personality.

  • I'm down for both but long term, numbers are the best option

    • fair answer

  • Picture is worth 1000 words as they say. But I would only be nude from Neck down 😎

    • Hilarious lol

    • @rosex-x why do you find that hilarious? 🤔

    • Because when you hear neck you (well I did lol) expected you to be covered and say something like, “nude at the neck only” but you finish it off with nude from the neck… Down… All over lol So the unexpected twist and the quick surprise makes it funny. To me anyways. Pair that up with being understandable, and also unexpected in the sense some people wouldn’t usually say things like that, or even so in public lol

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  • I mean logically you would need a number or email id to share nudes and number with social media id etc so you need to talk first.

    Why would somebody be nude in front of someone without knowing them a little bit first unless they have only fans Page

    • nice logic

  • Yeah I gonna ask for her digits before I ask to see her bits. I don't really ask for nudes but if she does that's fine but I might give it a quick look than delete it.

    • Seems fair

  • Exchange numbers if I’m interested in them

    • Seem only fitting if that were the case

    • Seems*

  • Exchange numbers if you figure something serious could result.

    • if nothing promises to be serious, you'd turn down the number?

    • I'd accept the number. But I'm a guy. It all depends on what you are looking for, as well as personal security. If both of you agree it's something casual then maybe just do the nudes and have fun. The number exchange can come later if you are comfortable.

    • I see... so significance and the basis/ degree of shared priorities. Seems fair.

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  • I want their number, it's better long-term.

    • Valid

  • If they text me nudes, I get their number. Therefore nudes give me the number, the number may not give me nudes.

    • Well said 👏

  • I would rather exchange bodily fluids.

  • Number first nudes later

    • interesting

    • Patience is a virtue

    • agreed

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  • Well technically you require number for the nudes but either way I would choose number cause I need to know the person first.

    • lol nice logic

    • Thanks 😅 But seriously knowing someone is important first

    • I agree! In the right scenario or objective in life/phase of life

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  • numbers first, nudes later 😏

    • This sounds like a burger commercial 😏👌🫶 the smoothest But I vote we have Morgan freeman say it lol

    • 😂😂😂

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