Ok guys seriously?

My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and I always want sex, he likes having sex as well (duh he's a guy lol) but he wants me to give him a blowjob at times as well. I don't mind giving them but I always wondered does a blowjob feel better than sex? Does he want them because he doesn't feel like putting in the effort? Lol
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  • Both are awesome, but they do feel different and they are different experiences. Sometimes it could be something like 'not wanting to put in the effort', as sometimes I guy just really wants to get off and continue his day, and he figures sex could turn into a much longer event than he is wanting at the moment.

    It can feel better, in some ways... compared to some positions, anyways. Though not as good as other positions.

    To be honest, it's probably a little bit of both. It feels good, and he just wants to cum nice and fast and be done with it. As long as your needs are being met other times, seems like a pretty standard situation.

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  • BJs are interesting. For him, it might indicate dominance, that he likes you on your knees or otherwise serving him. Most gals have a bit of a submissive streak so they like it as well. BJs are somewhat symbolic in any event. He likes whatever it is it means to him. I seriously doubt it's his preference over sex unless you give one hell of a BJ.

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  • Sometimes a blow job or even a hand job can feel better than sex but you must respect your partners needs. If she services you you must return the favor. If you give him a blow job you have every reason to get serviced orally too! Sex is nice but something quick every now and then is really nice to. Mix it up.

  • It's just an alternative. Feels great too!!!

  • No a Blow Job does not feel better than being inside a woman at least for me. Making love there is intimacy there is eye contact there is a connection and when there is that moment when we cum at the same time it is the best feeling looking into a woman's eyes and feeling her pussy contract around my cock it is amazing.

    A blow job is all about me and my pleasure they are fun but there is no connection I prefer making love over a BJ

  • I'd compare it to you rubbing your clitoris with a lubricated finger vs a tongue.

  • Well that is not a black and white question.
    It can feel better then intercourse.
    but it is just what does he feel like at the time.
    I like intercourse but I love blow jobs (as long as I can cum in her mouth)
    so there will be times I want to finish that way... then there are times I just want to be inside her.
    Sometimes the woman I am with will be blowing me and thinking we will finish that way then I just get the urge to cum inside her and I tell her I want to fuck her...
    so really it is just a matter of what he feels like a the time.

  • A really good BJ can be better than vaginal sex. It's got to be a really really good one though. Full depth, lots of steady deep stroking, lots of firm tongue manipulation of the frenulum and taint tickling... Lots of suction and saliva too.

    Put all of that together with a pretty face on a horny girl that loves going down, and it's the best thing ever.

    A sullen wench reluctantly going down half heartedly is no good at all though.

  • They both feel good.
    A BJ, can be interesting, as the girl can vary the action, with her tongue and how hard she sucks.
    Just like when he eats you (I hope he does) the mouth can be very arousing.
    I always return the favor, and lick my girl to finish.

  • blow jobs are water and sex is air (and anal sex is food). We need both, and you can't really distinguish which is 'better,' because they are both necessary.

  • sex is better but hey both feel good they are different feelings and sensation and depending on the girls "skill level" the BJ can offer a verity of different sensation

  • All seasons food.

  • Sex is much, much better.

  • I just consider it a normal part of foreplay "gotta lick the ladle before stir the pot"

  • In a way it does, because you can control your mouth better than your vagina. Plus it depends on how skilled a women is doing it. It's just something about seeing (and feeling) a girls lips around your dick.