You know how a lot of women complain that their men won't be rougher with them during sex? Not that they necessarily want choking or bodyslamming, just that they're frustrated with what they see as excessive gentleness, usually expressed as "he's not going to break me"? It's the same thing here.
Testicles are extremely sensitive, as everyone knows. But most people only know that in the context of pain. That's a shame; they can be so much more. The two big rules are: 1. ask before you start playing with them (not every guy is into it, and we don't all like the same stuff), and 2. err on the side of being too gentle. It's much better to go too soft and have him ask for more than to go too hard and risk hurting him.
So it's very much a case of "it depends on the guy". If you're just looking to get him off, it's probably not necessary, especially in the first few encounters, as you're getting to know each other's bodies and desires. If it's something you have an interest in, talk to him- even if he doesn't think he'd enjoy it, he might be willing to experiment a little.0 0 0 0
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Oh yes, towards the end is really nice, just rubbing them with an open hand gently brushing them and along the perineum as I'm building to the crescendo makes it more spectacular, I'm not into squeezing thought.
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(41)Yes I love having them played with! To me it's the best, it's way more sensitive than the penis and it just feels amazing. During sex or just for fun, a girl that plays with balls is the best. Cup them, rub them, suck them. But you should ask your boyfriend what he likes. Every guy is different. Some don't like it, but it's my favorite.
0 0 0 0Personally I love it. Touch my balls rub under them a little. I get harder the more my balls are played with. So many nerves in that area that when stimulated can put me over the edge in no time.
0 0 0 0I don't want that. They're very sensitive. Don't touch them at all, girl!
0 0 0 0My lady loves playing with my ball during sex she love sucking them and yes I love her even more because she makes me feel so good in the bedroom
0 0 0 0Yes, cup them, hold them, put your mouth on them and suckle them gently. Kiss underneath make love to them.
0 0 0 0Yes and it's often neglected. But every guy is different also so best ask your guy what he likes/wants. Some like it more than others.
0 0 0 0But think of it in the same way as your vagina, you wouldn't want him only focusing on your clit all the time right? You like the entire area touched, same with us.
Yeah definitely.
I always massage my balls while I stroke my penis, it makes me cum easier.0 0 0 0Everyone is different, I don't like it. It makes me very relaxed and it makes me soft lol
0 0 0 0gently yes... kissing them... lightly sucking on them... and the spot just below is the perineum feels great... i also like my butt played with but maybe that's for another question :)
0 0 0 0Yes, maybe just a little. Be gentle though.
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