Older men (30+) : what do you crave for in a woman?

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  • 1: Emotional support. i don't mean a yea-sayer but someone who critically reflects my actions back to me so that i can know better, whether i'm doing right or wrong. i will of course offer the same for them
    2: Company. i highly value just being around a person that can make me feel less alone to spend quality time with and also provide me romantical and sexual fullfillment, which of course should be mutually reciprocated.
    3: A Friend. someone who is besides the romantical and sexual involvement always there for me, like my best friend would.
    4: a coworker that i can do work sharing with, so that the every day mundane chores are spread between me and her in a way that in total reduces the workload that either of us would have if we were single.
    5: eventually a nurturing mother of our children.

    i think that covers the major things in no particular order.

    • i forgot a thing that plays into point 4. i expect her to also be somewhat independend, so that there's more stability in times of crysis. so if i for some reason lose my job for a time, we won't suddenly be poor and without income. 2 people generating an income is more stable than one doing that.

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  • Probably my answer is more akin to men in their 40s. But I’ll answer anyway.
    Though the physical aspect is super important, I’ve become more aware of personality traits that I look for. I want to engage with smart women and I really look for maturity, women who can see and act through bs.
    Physically I like women who are fit, I am. I also like a beautiful face, and by the way it doesn’t have to be a top model face, but a face I personally find beautiful. In regards to body, I want a body that is harmonic, not necessarily a particular body feature but one that goes well together. Of course I like a nice ass or nice boobs but that’s secondary.

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  • Someone that is confident, intelligent, feisty, trust, sense humour, her own person, independent.

    also decent level of fitness, able to happily run 10km, doing mountain biking etc.

    I've found a lot of women even in 20’s lack decent stamina and fitness levels.

  • Working brain, decent looks, sex drive, no children in tow, a job, her not being an annoying bitch.

  • A woman that has the following traits

    • Short (5’0-5’4”)
    • stocky (150-160lbs)
    • busty
    • big assed
    • pale
    • brunette
    • Usually wears corduroy pants
    • has the same interests as me
    • has the same religion as me
    • has the same political views as me
    • has the same fetishes as me
  • I like gentleness and compassion.

  • Their arousal and orgasm (s)>the only th=ggodlooking ing sexier than getting a good looking woman off is getting her off many times in rapid succession

  • Good communication and intensity.

    And a decent sex drive.

  • Compatability

  • Assertiveness, sexual confidence and Ready courtesy

  • Maturity, intelligence, conversation, happy life, jokes, independence, commitment, communication, traveling

  • kids. im not getting younger, and im an only child and male

  • Intelligence a good personality loyalty and submissiveness

  • Imagination

  • honesty, long term, sexuality, good heart and more

  • Just a sex

  • Sexy things. I want to be her slave daddy and her to be my little sexy slave wife.

  • i'm 27, but i'm 100% shure i will not want any woman/relationship whit any kinde of woman.
    i will change in a puritan one and give up to sex forever.

  • Loyalty and down to earth nature

  • Somebody not so complicated or evil for once.

  • soft skin, smooth hairless body :)