On a scale of 1-10 how important to you is sex in a relationship?

On a scale of 1-10 how important to you is sex in a relationship?
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  • 10 , very important , if a girl constantly
    Makes excuses as to why she isn’t in the mood when it was never an issue before , kick her to the curb , When a relationship starts off with tons of intimacy and affection it needs to continue that way unless they have a valid reason not to , if they don’t have a valid reason then they are just using you as a convenience, don’t ever be a convenience to someone , if someone truly values you and loves you they will fight to be by your side not make excuses , value yourself worth and realize you deserve someone that wants to be by your side no matter what , When a girl loves her man he will be her number 1 priority over everyone else , don’t settle for less , you will only be hurting yourself, Treat her the same way you want to be treated that’s all you can do , if she chooses to walk away , let her go and value your self worth , there are plenty of girls out there that want just one man only

Most Helpful Guy

  • 10.

    what kind of question is this?🤣

    women will destroy relationships with a good man over bad sex ( this is also another reason men don’t want women with big body counts )

    men will cheat if we don’t get enough sex

    this is a motto that all young monogamous couples should live by when it comes to sex

    “PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT”

    • Men won't cheat if they dont get enough. lol

    • @turnpost then marry a man, not have sex with him and watch how fast he cheats

    • I am a guy lol, I am not going to cheat on my wife under those conditions.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • An 8 or 9

    There are other incredibly important aspects of a relationship. A meaningful relationship can't just be sex. However, it can't be sexless either. In fact, I think that the minimum amount of sex (for me) is once a week. Anything less than that and there's a relationship problem. The quality has to be good too. I have to be sexually satisfied in my relationship. If the sex isn't great at the beginning that's fine. Sex can be improved. However, I have to know that it is going to get better.

  • Not much. I'd say 5. Then again, I'm a virgin. Do I'm probably downplaying this.

    I used to date an ace guy. I didn't care much. His hot trait was he read a lot, which is more important to me than sex itself.

    I'm one weird lass.

    • No your not... we are normal by a long shot.

    • @turnpost thanks

    • No not weird. There's always something you like about a person that make you want to be with another person even though there's no sex.

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  • Sex is important to me in that I don’t have it. I would much rather have a sexless relationship than anything with sex in it.

  • 9.

    I don't need sex everyday, but I need to be with someone who enjoys sex like I do and whose kinks work with mine.

    A satisfying sex life is necessary for me.

  • Very much 10. But there are other factors which are equally as important as the foundation first. Once the foundation of love, trust, and commitment is in place, sex is then the glue to solidify and consummate the bonds of love. Sex is such a beautiful act between a man and a woman.

  • 4 out of 10 while unmarried. 10 out of 10 if married

    • When just dating/in a relationship (but unmarried), I care more about the sexual chemistry when it comes to kissing and touching but not so much in terms of sex. However once we’ve had sex, i can't stop

  • 7. It’s an important form of intimacy for me, but if the relationship was sexless, it wouldn’t break the relationship aslong as other forms of intimacy needs were met.

    • 7 is a high number to say it won't break the relationship

    • I prioritise other forms of intimacy over sexual intimacy, it’s a 7 in terms of importance if other intimacy needs aren’t met.

  • I'd say 7. There are other things that are more important to me in a relationship.

  • 8 bc u hardly need it bc your there for the relationship not the sex butt u do need sex from time to time to keep that connect still going or actually feel validated.

    • that would be friend not relationship

  • 9, very important

  • I reckon its an 8 , pretty dam important , if you are not together sexually you are not together.

    • not together? then why only 8?

    • @strateguy632 8 is a high score , its not " everything " so I came down 2 ..

  • A much wiser than me person, (don't know their name) once said of the importance of sex in a relationship, "If the sex is good, not very important. If the sex is not good, very, very important."

  • Definitely a 10

  • For me it's a 10

  • 6/10.

  • If say for me personally 8 or 8.5

  • Not that much actually as long as there are other ways of intimacy. To me it´s not that important because I emphasize an emotional connection more than that.

  • The sex she's having with her boyfriends is a 10 on a ten scale, but my sexual interaction isn't important at all, other than when I'm servicing her orally.

    • So you share your girlfriend with other guys?

    • @Hn665 No, there's no sharing -- sexually, she's his, and all I get is a mouthful of cum when she makes me lick her clean after he's finished fucking her.

    • My pleasure is derived from serving others, without any concern whatsoever for my own wants m needs, preferences or sexual desires. The most exciting event of my entire existence is when my mistress' boyfriend is enjoying sex with her, and that unbelievably thrilling moment when he begins to climax inside her.

  • I’m tryna die with a diq in my mouth.

    I’m not saying it’s important BUT I’ve always told myself that tomorrow isn’t guaranteed so live for today and today seems like a good day to get my cheeks clapped. Basically, it’s important.

    • I hope your dude notices, and takes to heart. I'd be looking at him right now, and I'd say to him: "Marry that one."

    • @ObscuredBeyond 🤣 I hope so too.

  • Five, I got more important things that I want to do with her than just laying around in bed all the time.

  • a solid 8,8

  • Probably 8.
    Sex in a relationship is important. It’s one of the ways to feel connected and close to each other.

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