Girls, on a second or third date, if a guy. . ?

[Anonymous]

Ladies, on a second or third date, suppose you are out with a guy and you feel some attraction to him but you haven't really considered getting sexual yet. Late in the date, if the guy stands behind you, puts his arms around you, and places gentle kisses on your neck and your ear lobe, how do you respond?

[AsaKyo]

I'm always wondered this..
Why do you have to sleep with people you go on dates with that aren't even your exclusive partner? Is there some kind of rule that says, "After date *insert number here* you must sleep together"? I'm just genuinely curious is all because I've never understood this.

[Asker]

I think it's something that guys make up t create artficial peer pressure on girls to cave in and have sex early in a relationship. . . and plenty of girls are so insecure that they fall for it.