On Average, how many times a week do you have sex?

According to VeryWellMind (.) com & Insider (.) com, & other sites, studies have shown that people in their 20s (whether coupled or not) have sex about 80 times a year (about 6 times a month), while sex gradually decreasing with age (on average a person in their 50s has sex once a week). This average varies from person to person & different circumstances surrounding them.

My boyfriend & I, on average, have sex 3-4 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less.

We get so caught up with comparing our lives to others, that we sometimes find that people over exaggerate the numbers. The perfect number of times to have sex is whatever YOU are happiest with. You can always talk to your partner & ask for more sex, or a break for the night.

Are you happy with having sex once a week & that works for you? AWESOME!
Do you want to have sex more & liven up the bedroom? SWEET! Talk to your partner! They might be inclined to give you EXACTLY what you want!
Whatever works best for you & your partner (s)!

I'm curious to see what the poll will show...
I'm a Virgin
Vote A
0-1 Times a Week
Vote B
2-3 Times a Week
Vote C
4-5 Times a Week
Vote D
6-7 Times a Week
Vote E
+7 Times a Week
Vote F
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Superb Opinion

  • Depends on if I'm single or not and if I am curbing hookups due to Covid.

    In relationships has been between 2 times a week and daily.

    While hooking up, twice a week is average. But dropped due to Covid.

    At 50 I still masturbate at least once daily and up to 5 times. So no loss of libido yet.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Those numbers may be accurate, but they don't match with what someone in the relationship wants. The biggest complaint I hear from most men of all ages is that they don't get it enough.
    In my opinion, that is also why a lot of people cheat. (mostly men)

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't live with my boyfriend, so right now it's 1-2 times a month, whenever we have time to meet at his place. If we did live together though, I'd probably guess almost every other day

  • We have sex about 3 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. I guess it averages out to about 3.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • 7+ ATM. Hasn’t always been that way.

  • Currently, 2-3 times per week because we live in different cities and see each other only 2-3 days/night per week.

  • It used to be a good 7 plus.

    there days, unless you count my naughty and flirty melon, that winks at me... then zero

  • 2 or 3

  • Zero times unless you're counting sex with myself.

    • Oh that's really sucks, I'm sure sex with yourself isn't counting unless you are enjoying it lol


  • 6-7 Times a Week

    • I bet you have high sex drive, me too if we consider it by sessions i can say 15 to 20 per week lol

  • My husband and I sex addicts so sex can happen every day and multiple times a day

  • Not enough.

  • Last year, I've almost had sex 4-6 times per week. Then quarantine came and we broke up cause we couldn't see each other. It's been 5 months since the last time I've had sex.

  • 3 possibly 4 times a week.

  • Sexless marriage so zero.

    it would not be accurate to say this "works for both of us". talking however has been not productive.

  • I guess 2-3 times a week

  • Zerooo

    • Because you are single or is there a reason for it to be 0?

    • Yeah, I'm single

    • When you were in a relationship?

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  • Well, you're the boss, eh?

  • We usually have PIV sex around 3 times a week.

  • I’m a virgin. My girlfriend and I both are.

  • Well, right now it's zero but I guess I would like to have sex 5-6 times a week maybe more?

  • When I have a girlfriend, usually every day.

  • I guess I would say 4 to 5 times a week but with a diffrent girl right now since I lost my friends with benefits. My friends with benefits would have sex almost every night of the week may be twice a day sometimes. I am in my 30 so I might be slowing down a bit too.

  • I haven't had sex in years. When we did have it, it was 3-4 times a week.

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