Women's rights have come a long way not only in the rights part but in the significance behind it. Women are enrolling in college at much higher rates teenage pregnancy is down and while rape is higher than ever, women are currently experiencing a culture that celebrates their independence and self esteem as traits great for the gender.

-And for some guys it sucks. Women don't, as much, want to be quiet, to cook and clean, to be respectful of men, or to even prioritize their dating life over their careers. Man, the good ol' days...-
But look quickly at what the truth of a "subservient" or "low self esteem woman" truly is. You don't know what a woman who keeps her feelings to herself really thinks and feels. She could spend her entire life not really in love with you or even basically happy. A woman who cooks and cleans not because she wants to but because she thinks its her role gives up on thing she's passionate about. a woman who's respectful of men isn't genuine. The men who recieve this support get it blindly without actually being admired. And women who prioritize them in their lives because they think women should have boyfriends don't do so out of love but out of self image and identity.
It will save you because now in order to truly get a woman to want to be with you you have to earn it.
-And some guys say well its a two way street why should we have to earn it and they not have to earn us?-
And to an extent that's just the way it goes but then in a way this is the last bastion of male privilege because we generally created the relationship and so if it happens we are its founder and that is a reason to be proud. You get to make the initial choice do i talk to her and only then she gets the choice do i talk to him and again you will be saved because you will not end up with the wrong woman.
The wrong woman isn't worth the new things women put you through. she isn't worth the sometimes rude comments, she isn't worth having to not only clean after yourself but also clean after her sometimes because she just hates cleaning so much. she isn't worth the fear of rejection to go talk to her. she isn't worth the incredible amount of time that a relationship takes. she isn't worth your best self. she isn't worth your full effort. she isn't worth anything to you and that's ok because to many women you aren't worth anything either.
and our attempts to dupe them into sex by putting up a false image or their attempts to train us into believing that they're worthy of the above things by withholding sex are what hurt us and the fact that its not that easy is what saves us. you can't get away with lying with a high self esteem woman and so you're forced to move on and end up with the woman you truly believe is worth everything...

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0 1I only care about respect not love. If they respect me out of fear then so be it.
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