Once a guy penetrates are you morally contracted to let him finish?

I believe that barring serious pain or an emergency that once a guy's penetrated you then your morally contracted to let him finish. You've inspected him and his penis and agreed to let him have sex with you. It is simply wrong to withdraw consent because he's not as good as you hoped, you want to check facebook or you realise you're missing your favourite TV show. You don't give a dog a bone and only let him have half a chew.

It's no big inconvenience to let him finish so would you agree or not that barring a valid excuse consent is for the whole duration of sex and cannot be withdrawn?
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Rape is being forcefully penetrate against will and is a serious crime. Claiming refusal to withdraw in in the middle of consensual sex is rape waters down that seriousness making it difficult for real rape victims to get justice.
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  • Hell no, she's not.

  • Uhm no. anyone can request for sex to stop at any time. for reason like pain or discomfort or whatever. Now... to start having sex and then change your mind and say you dont feel like it... it isn't immoral but it is not very polite at all. super fucked up. but consent is the whole process. however... a woman cannot just let a guy have sex with them and claim rape afterward. that is totally wrong. You can't claim rape just because you are emberrased or feel it was a mistake.

  • Ok. So it is really very simple. Anything you don't want you don't have to do. That's all. I you feel like you want to let him finish, your choice. If you say you don't want him and he does it's rape. Simple.
    The grey area is how this bullshit question might lead woman to not voice their objections, feeling pressured. And that is plain wrong even if not rape

  • No!!!

  • yes...

  • No, consent can be withdrawn and he should pull out immediately.

  • No. You call the shots and can stop whenever you to stop. And don't be shy about it or a guy will see you as weak and we'll, anything could happen. Stop, be verbal, get dressed and start talking about your mom and how you forgot to call and she must be worried.

  • Interesting... I think if the issue is missing a tv show or needing to get online, she could always ask to switch to a position like doggy style to be able to catch up online or watch the show :)

  • No it's your body and if you say no at any time it might take a second for him to realize what's going on but then it's a wrap. He has to be done he can roll over and finish if he wants but he has to get out of you or he risks going to jail. Plus he doesn't know what's going on in her head maybe she's a recent rape victim and you thought you were good but it's too much for you so he has to be done but I guarantee this she better have a good reason cause that's some really fucked up shit to do to a guy just to be a bitch or he's not what you expected I mean give the dude a chance maybe he's a strong finisher maybe throws some Kung Fu in there or something unless she had a real reason I definitely would be done with her

  • Just let him finish his job

  • There could be a myriad of reasons as to why women may withdraw consent.

    Sometimes, it's a dumb reason. Other times, it's because she is hurting or has a problem in her vaginal area that makes it painful for her.

    I guess there has to be a medical reason for her to withdraw consent. If the guy refuses, maybe it should be considered rape.

    If there's literally no reason for her to withdraw consent (and she simply doesn't like it), is he a rapist? I don't know. If I were a guy, it would feel wrong to continue having sex with someone who's not even enjoying it. It seems selfish and inconsiderate, but maybe not to the point of being considered a rapist.

    • Omg it is so hard to pull out but I hh Ave been asked to and have done so once I was able to finish by oral sex another time she just quit I was pissed the fuck off a woman can see if I'm gonna fit being asked to stop is just wrg DONT START

    • @mefirst2020 When you have sex with someone it’s not just about you.

    • Yes ma'am I realize that there are two of us there and I am about mental wellness and wholeness I promise you all I was saying is a woman no good things are going to work out before she starts she should let a man know what front how it is Let's do this if you would be so kind next time you I'm sitting on the toilet going pee stop in mid-stream quickly I change direction all together okay multiply that times 10 LOL I need my start seeing where I'm coming from just be kind is all I'm saying

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  • I don’t think I’ve ever told him to stop unless it hurt.

  • No, consent may be withdrawn (it sucks, yes) for some reason and he has to stop. It can go the other way around too.

  • Once my penis enters her vagina I finish the job. Anything less is an insult.

  • well no but if you'd like that guy to agree to have sex with you again, that is highly advised.

  • No, your not morally contracted to let him finish. If I’m the middle of sex something feels wrong for you in anyway and you change your mind you have every right to. It is technically rape if you tell him to stop in the middle of sex and he won’t. Sorry but it’s just is and could be very damaging to someone if a guy wouldn’t stop.

  • Nope

  • I don't think it has anything at all to do with a "moral contract", but it could certainly avoid a lot of hassles to just let him finish. With most guys, that doesn't take too long. However, if something goes south during the whole thing, like the guy gets rough and starts choking her or hurting her, then yes becomes no in a hurry.

  • I, for one, think that any adult human should have a better self control than a dog.

    And no obligation, sure it might be a shitty thing to do, but that's where it ends, the guy is perfectly able to finish himself if he can't handle his urge. it's no big inconvenience to pull it out and give it a bit of a rub. hell you probably already left him some lube.

  • As long as he fucks me properly :)

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