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One night stands: yay or nay for you? Why/why not?
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33 69Yes of course
Tried it before, not my cup of tea. Pros are that you get the sex you are looking for possibly with someone who is attractive and get the itch scratched, downside is it is one less person you form a bond with and the potential to receive an STI or pregnancy.
It doesn't feel as personal or meaningful.
Oh heck nah
No thanks. I could give a million reasons. Being a man whore opens you up to STD’s, a higher risk of penile cancer, prostate cancer, testicular cancer, etc. The risk of getting a girl pregnant.
Ummm…. Sleeping with a girl you hardly even know can open all kinds of doors. She’s probably low morals and can’t be trusted. Yet she’s at your house or you’re at her house. If she has a boyfriend or a husband you don’t know about (or do) and he finds out then it’s all kinds od troubles.
It’s just not worth it
Sometimes they happen
personally think they're okay and can be good but dont really want them. prefer having friends with benefits/sex p/multiple-night stands person type of stuff than fucking a bunch of different people once then never again. i just think its kinda of a waste to have sex with someone just once and also if that's your way of getting sex when you're single you're going to pile up the bodies quickly and as a girl dont want that too much.. and besides its just more convenient to have people you've already had sex with that you can just contact and do the dirty instead of having to find new people all the time. also for hookups you can be stressed out, insecure a bit, and uncomfortable, plus also generally the sex isn't as good cos you/they dont know what the other person likes and you can be both awkward and uncomfortable
Definitely a yay for me.
How often do you have them?
i get nothing from them. never have, never will
Well Ya cuz I am getting laid , but nay because my intentions weren’t just to bang her once , My intentions is to see her again and again , that’s why it’s always a 50/50 chance
They can be disappointing, and have been for me in some cases. Did not know they were going to be a one night stand, in the beginning.
After a one nighter with my insurance agents, secretary, she informed me that when she got home she had a call, from an 'old flame' and wanted to see if there was 'still anything there'. I was pissed, and then went on with a relationship with a college woman friend, and later the 'one nighter' called me back and wanted to start up.
In retrospect, after the way it turned out, I should have kept them both, without telling them.
Sounds 'crude' but a woman 'friend' here in California told me, after I told her the story, "You should have kept your mouth shout and then fucked 'em both" ... and I should have.
I would not and have not. For me, sexuality with someone necessitates a degree of fondness. To have an ONS I would have to fake an emotional connection. When you got home, You know that you took something under false pretenses. You would know it wasn't the right thing for you.
That doesn't mean that in some setting you can't develop an infatuation with someone; a crush, that feels a lot like love. I think that is what a fling is for women. Even then, you have to think it through. Is it a good thing or not? Does it help you build your future or is it just a temporary distraction?
If it is going then yes. Better than the alternative. But as others have pointed out first sex can be poor sex. I'd rather have short term affairs to use an old term.
They serve their purpose.
If 2 people are just looking to get laid it is fine.
Both parties need to know it is a short term thing.
So as long as you don't lead someone on about your intentions and they are fine with that I am fine with it.
I have had a couple of relationships develop out of what was to be a 1 night stand, so things can happen.
Too much risk. No.
Probably a nay.
I'm concerned with safety and security issues.
nah… not my thing
Yay!
Still is and still will be as long as I am single. I itch you scratch or vice versa.
It's free sex. No strings.
Practice safe sex though.
Nope... cuz trashy
No, having sex is not like shaking hands. there is a lot of emotional aspects and at the end of the day it will just result in a lot of confusing and unresolved feelings.
No. I could never use someone just to get off. I want to know them first.