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Onlyfans girl question, is what I do trashy?

I've known a lot of people hate girls who use onlyfans. Especially men. But my boyfriend is fine with it. But I don't sell nudes or do anything naked. Mine is more of a cosplay sorta model and dress up. I wear wigs, cosplay outfits and things like that. Sometimes fans will pay to have me do a certain dance (the zero two dance is a main one they like). Sometimes I'll dress in lolita clothes and take pictures that people like. I sorta fall into a weird category of looking like a child, I'm under five feet but have really big breast... and I know fans like that. But I never have taken pics of myself for fans with no clothes on. So would men still consider what I do bad? As I know men now a days think every only fans girl is a slut.

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  • Yes but it's more respectable in my opinion than nudes, the reason I believe it's still bad isn't necessarily because you are doing this stuff and it's weird but simply because you are still feeding into the negativity, you are still being sexualized, not only that, you are dressing as a child from what you said and these people are sexualizing you for it, feeding into pedophilia, another reason is you have a man, even if he is fine with it, it would be a lot healthier of a relationship if you and your body in general was just for him, you say he is fine with it and that itself is because not only is he being supportive but he has fallen into acceptance of it and I know he would be happier and the relationship would be healthier if this wasn't in the way of it or a part of your relationship, now another negative thing about it on top of these is how many relationships do you think you are effecting, many people are unloyal nowadays and you are being a temptation for them to do their partner dirty, it's not even just sick weird lovers watching these things but it's sick weird lovers that sometimes even have a girl they are deceiving and unfortunately you are in the middle of all of this.

    • I know money itself is a temptation but personally I don't think money is worth all this.

    • I do not dress like a child. Lolita fashion to me isn't that. I'm just small and look like a kid. Not my fault I was born like that. I wear heels and makeup to look older. But if you look up lolita clothes and the models I look around that age. And that's some of what I wear. Completely clothed and not acting like a kid at all. And actually the account was my boyfriend's idea... and if people look at my pictures that's not cheating. I'm clothed and in stuff you could honestly find on the internet. I don't do anything inappropriate

    • The influence is still there tho and none of it is positive, that Lolita stuff was just a push closer to normalizing pedophilia, it doesn't change the fact that they are sexualizing you and that is where the influence is bad, you think they pay just to watch you dress up but no in their mind they are... well you know, if it was your bfs idea then that also speaks numbers on the type of person he is, I'm just stating my opinion tho, it's what you asked

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  • I mean Onlyfans is a site that allows girls to get paid to be sluts. And you are associated with the site even though your content is more “wholesome.” I don’t hate onlyfans girls, they make there money however they need too. I just don’t pay for sex, nor do I pay to watch a girl fuck a dude she likes or masturbate. Why would I pay for shit I’m tangibly not able to touch? It’s a bad business deal for me as the customer. I think guys are dumb as fuck to pay women to do that. Prostitutes would get my money faster than these women because I can’t actually get tangible action.
    Sex (especially sex from a woman) isn’t worth the money since their are a shit ton of women and a shit ton more content out there.
    Now what you do, it’s cool. But I would absolutely NEVER pay for it, like if I’m not paying for nudes are sexual content, I’m damn sure not paying to fully clothes cosplay. I can get a cute girl to do that in real life myself.
    Lastly, bfs and SOs that are ok with that kind of exposure their women get from posting stuff on sites like that are simps at best. You would not be bringing unwanted attention to yourself and me if it was me. Fuck that, all these perverted Mfs on the internet. Nah man, that’s not grown man moves right there.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I used to do OnlyFans and it's nothing to be ashamed of. Anyone can express themselves how they want and be proud of how they look. I actually did nudes 😂 BUT I also do cosplay and make my own costumes in my free time so I did that on there too. I get it and you have nothing to worry about 💅

  • No big deal to make money. As long as no nudes.

    • I have friends who sell nudes. But I'm not comfortable doing so. So I just sell my cosplay pictures and dances and things. I've done some pictures in bikinis and lingerie but that's about it. But never nude

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  • It's not any different than being a waitress at Hooters.

    • Most of what I wear actually covers up more than their uniforms.

    • Exactly... You don't worry about it. Money is green, no matter how you earn it, and if that money is going towards something good like surviving or savings or a mortgage or a loan, then it's doing good in your life and helping the US economy!

  • Eh, it'd leave a bad taste in my mouth, but I wouldn't judge you harshly for it due to the fact it's not nudes. I'd just chuck it up to me being uncomfortable with it and not having thought deeply enough about it being the cause.

    However, if you are intentionally trying to look like a child and sexualize it, then that's fucking gross. You would be replicating child pornography at that point, although that's if you are, but I do not know the specifics of it.

    • I just look young. I can't help it. I'm under 5 feet and have a baby face. So I don't try to make myself look young... I actually try to make myself look older

    • I meant that trying to look younger would be an issue in your situation, but since you're not, then there's really nothing to be concerned about

  • Cosplay modeling is fine, its the porn version of only fans and flirting with strangers that ruins her relationship value. If all you are doing is posting sfw cosplay outfits, nothing wrong with it.
    I personally love cosplay.

    • I'm not gonna lie some of the pictures I've taken have been in bikini or lingerie versions of the outfits characters wear. But they cover everything and doesn't show more than lots of swimsuits you'd see women at the beach wearing.

    • Thats also fine so long as you are not talking to your viewers in a flirting manner.

    • Oh no I definitely don't do that at all. I actually have on my profile I'm in a relationship and do not talk to anyone on there like that. And anyone who tries will be ignored

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  • I have never checked out only fans so I only know what I hear about it. If you're keeping your clothes on and not sending nudes it might not be that bad

  • I don't think it's bad. Not every OnlyFans girl is a slut. They like doing it. If I had a girlfriend that liked it and I knew she didn't go too far as to meet up, I'd support her actually.

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