ONS ended up unexpectedly?

We met for ONS. First date: We didn't use condom, I wasn't on birth control, I slept over, We slept face to face his breath was on face.

We have been seeing each other for a while now. This doesn't look like "usual hookup" to me. Is that common? How to interpret this situation?

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  • Everyone moves at different speeds. Are you just friends with benefits? If so, do you want more?

    If you're not sure what he wants, the best thing to do is ask him if he wants more, or just wants to remain a hookup. If that's all he wants, but you're looking for something more, then he's probably not right for you. Sex is a nice thing to have, but it doesn't really have much fulfillment when it comes to love.

    • I'm for first hookup experience. It felt different to me. I hooked up a lot, but never like this before. Does that hookup sound normal/common to you? I don't want to ask him because it's still early.

    • Yeah, I'd say it's normal. As long as you feel comfortable and he feels comfortable, that's all that matters. Being on the same page is important. I once hooked up with a girl for a one-night stand and didn't use a condom. I mean, thins happen. Heat of the moment, you're both horny. There's nothing wrong with it.

    • I'm not asking only for not protection. Even friends with benefits or fuckbuddies don't sleep over. We didn't only share the bed, We slept together hugging mouth to mouth close until morning. His breath was on my mouth. I didn't know this guy before. It was very strange experience for me.

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  • Sometimes we go in with the mindset of hooking up to use protection and attractiveness and lust takes over where the girl will say forget the condom, just go bare. You probably like this person more than a ONS more like a friends with benefits.

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  • What's ONS?

    • One night stand.

    • Oh! Okay.

    • What do you think?

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  • This is not a usual ons. It seems like you both have feelings for each other

  • Why didn't you used condom to begin with

    • This might sound crazy. I'm usually paranoid about STD/pregnancy. I guess I emotionally wanted to be close with him and I didn't ask for it.

    • How was he different from usual hookup?

    • I mentioned on the question. We met for ONS at his place. It wasn't a "date" I didn't know him before. Even friends with benefits or Fuckbuddies who already know each other usually don't sleep together, always use protection etc. The night you meet a guy, fuck without birth control, sleeping mouth to mouth close doesn't normal to me. His breath on my mouth till morning, while we were sleeping. I hooked up a lot This never happened to me. So I'm here to see others opinions

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  • Ya, that moved quickly out of ONS.

    • Moved go where? This is my question. It seems like it maybe he doesn't think so?

    • A ONS is once & done! This could be a FB, FwBs, or more

  • wrong trap.

    • Why wrong?

    • @miadee things might go serious.