Fine. Just be careful never to engage in anything painful, either giving or getting, because pain means you are damaging the tissue in the rectum and you need to back off.
Oh... NEVER nag, pressure, coerce, threaten or generally be a fuckwad to get someone else to do it - it's just too gross and too taboo for some people.
And also understand that no mater what you do to clean and prepare, there will always be fecal bacteria in the rectum, and getting that bacteria into the vagina by going ATP can give a woman a very bad infection. And serious people, when is it ever cool to get poop into a woman's vagina, or mouth, for that matter?
Use condoms. It's a high risk activity, especially for the bottom.
Use very slick lube that is condom safe and safe for any toys you're using. Think silicone based or J-Lube rather than water based lube (which dries and gets sticky) or things like Vaseline or Crisco. And always always always always always use lube.
Never insert anything that wasn't designed for anal use - like never use a standard vibrator, egg vibes, or random objects - they can get stuck in there very easily, and painfully. Use flared base toys that can't slip all the way in.
If it hurts, stop immediately, and never use numbing lubes or sprays (benzocaine is often the active ingredient) - you need to feel the pain so you know when to make your partner stop.
And clean off anything that has been in the butt with a hot shower, soap, water, brush teeth and mouthwash (if human), disinfectant cleaner, hot water, soap or even a trip through the dishwasher for toys - before you put said thing in any other orifice. Getting poo in the mouth or poo in the vagina is just a tremendously unloving, disrespectful thing to do to a partner. Have some class.
Study more at Tristan Taormino's Pucker-Up Blog.0 0 0 0I am a gay man who is an exclusive bottom during sex with guys. I simply love getting fucked in the ass, it gives me a feeling of being full and complete unlike anything else… It can also be extremely pleasurable, if my man knows how to be a good top and takes his time fucking me. I would not exchange this with any other act of sex…
0 0 0 0I regret doing it, very painful and uncomfortable
I just wanted to get it over with.
I would try it again, but with a different partner and doing it the right way.0 0 0 0
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it's great if you know what you're doing. But if you don't it can be one of the most traumatic experiences possible. Pain, mess, and failure the guy does it wrong, or the girl isn't into it. Of course, it isn't binary - you can do it wrong and only get "mild discomfort," worst case is very bad pain, though.
But, yeah. If done right, it's probably one of the most pleasurable experiences life has to offer. For guys, anyway. I like to imagine girls are equivalently thrilled, but I know I'm fooling myself. They like it way more :-P0 0 0 0
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9 17I wouldn't ever let a guy put anything up my asshole.
0 0 0 1It's awesome especially in a DP.
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Double Penetration one penis in the pussy and one in the ass. DPV means two dicks in the pussy DPA means two dicks in the ass.
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simply an amazing turn on and the most amazing thing ever!!!
0 0 0 0it was my first time i was doing anal and my girl told me not to do it again because if i did it again then she would have pooped on my machine gun.. lmao..😂
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